VeryFuglyNiyguhs
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Pretty much the title. The
is a byproduct of the fact that people assume men and women behave the same when it comes to dating. However it is actually the complete opposite of what we are told. I will start on the man's side first and list assumptions men have about women that are false. This a thread based on gymcelled's thread on incels.ishttps://incels.is/threads/a-significant-portion-of-bluepill-thinking-comes-assuming-that-the-other-gender-thinks-or-behaves-like-yours.168597/
I will add my own thoughts and personal experiences to add onto it.
I will add my own thoughts and personal experiences to add onto it.
- A great body makes you more desirable to women is the biggest one I can think of. See men find women with amazing figures like Kat Dennings very desirable so they assume the same is true in reverse. However women value facial aesthetics, height, and social competence more than a great body. A body like Steve reeves or Jeff seid however, is more like a bonus to women. My body was only ever complimented by dudes so I can confirm this is true. Women care much more about unfixable things(face and height are NOT fixable because most people can't afford surgery).
- Men get shocked as hell when they find out women find most men repulsive. While I would agree who looks best, I don't think most women are ugly, you have to go to the bottom of the barrel for men to say hell no. Men are more diverse in preferences, hell men will take black women, Asian, and even some prefer bbw. I can understand the reasons to why men prefer bbw. And I think the asians and blacks that look good are actually very good looking(imo Hitomi Shimatani is totally impeccable). A lot of white women aren't good looking, people only cherry pick the ones that are. But women are far more rigid with their "preferences" if you want to call them that. They are more like requirements to even play.
- The real kicker however is when men discover niceness doesn't appeal to women the same way it appeals to men. Been there and done that. In fact a lot of men with dark triad traits are highly desirable to women. We've all heard women who've said "my ex is a narcissist". According to clinical studies the highest estimate of NPD applies to 16% of in up to 70% of cases are men. Generally 0.5% to 6.2% of people have BPD. Just another reinforcement that women think most men are completely undesirable and share men. To add more light to the subject on men and women character qualities a man having a high n count is not the same to women as the reverse. Women prefer men with high n counts because it signals they are desirable. Men avoid high n counts and single mothers because it shows she can't commit and is a bad fit for trying to get his own offspring.
- That men only go after hot white women, particularly blondes. This is both a delusion and projection of their own innate preferences. Studies have shown that women have a strong "preference" towards white men. As seen below, men of color actually PREFER their own race. Women of non white ethnicity are even more racially biased towards white men, especially Asians outside of Japanese who don't like "tainting their heritage"(They are an extraordinarily conservative people). Most women think most men are ugly which I already mentioned, but only 16% of men are even 6'0, with less being even taller than that. So realistically only 5% of men are appealing to women. Tl:dr women thinking men only want hot, white(especially blonde, though women prefer DARK haired men over blonde) stacies is a projection of their own stupid desires and insecurity. A girl I once chased in high school ONLY ever chased white guys despite being a blonde hapa. Oh and her parents were a WMAF couple so the apple didn't drop from the tree.
- Career women are actually in for the rudest awakening of their lives when they realize men actually DON'T care for their career and education. Women think earning potential and education matter to men, but get a brick thrown at their face when they learn it's irrelevant to men. Men prefer other qualities such as having a low N count, being able to stay in a committed relationship. Truth be told, career women such as nurses and with careers that travel a lot in particular are massive warning signs as nurses are often surrounded by high value men with extraordinary earning potential. Travel is in reality just a way for women to sleep around with hot men without the judgement of others. Women in high power positions are also more likely to be surrounded by high value Men so another pebble on the mountain of reasons career women should be avoided.