The Core Pillars of Male Attractiveness (Research-Based Breakdown)

[Zeekie]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win, sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

 

[GlamGuru]

Actual legitimate high IQ post.

 

[Beniceandkind]

Low iq retarded thread.

 

[2marc1]

nice gpt post FAGGOT

 

[Zeekie]

I put this in a separate comment because I didn't want to make the original post too long, so before I get called out... it's important to note:

1. Scientific research on attraction is context-dependent (cultural differences, age, socioeconomic factors, hormonal cycles in women, etc.). So of course, not everything here is true all across the table, but on average, it is.
2. "Not being too dark or too pale" is a weird phrase. What I meant to say was to have a healthy, even skin tone appropriate to your ethnicity
3. These are the realities for Western, heterosexual and online-dating-centric norms. They're NOT universal.
4. Some of the points in the charisma section could be considered a little manipulative, and overall, I do not advise actually doing it. But if you're okay with a little moral compromise in order to be attractive, it could be worth considering.

 

[UltimateCoper.]

High IQ grey

 

[Zeekie]

nice gpt post FAGGOT

Put through an AI detector nigger, it's honestly baffling to me to see that y'all have so little sense of proper formatting and making a post enjoyable to read that your first thought is ChatGPT. Jump off a bridge.

 

[mikeperry271]

• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.

noooooooooo, b-b-b-but pheromones?????

bs aside, legit thread

 

[MoggsWithBoness]

Face height status race

 

[Paroxysm]

saying "between 5'8" and 6'5"" as if 5'8" would ever be an acceptable height (it's pretty much always a major failo even if you're perfect everywhere else) or something close to the same range of attractiveness as 6'5" is insane

And height should be first on the relevance order anyway. the rest lacks nuance although I generally agree with it especially the section on hands, you hardly see anybody talking about hands on this forum when in fact they are extremely important. large, strong, veiny hands on a man with decently long nail beds and long fingers are pretty much the male equivalent of a pair of big round tits in a woman and much of the obsessive care women put into their own hands is a projection of the importance they give to male hands themselves

6.5/10 for effort still

 

[2marc1]

Put through an AI detector nigger, it's honestly baffling to me to see that y'all have so little sense of proper formatting and making a post enjoyable to read that your first thought is ChatGPT. Jump off a bridge.

anyway its fucking water, theres thousands of threads like this on this website, your late
~raped​

 

[IrishSlayer1483]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win; sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

nice chat gpt water

 

[Djimo]

 

[LVZZO]

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex

 

[Zeekie]

nice chat gpt water

Jump off a bridge

 

[Zeekie]

saying "between 5'8" and 6'5"" as if 5'8" would ever be an acceptable height (it's pretty much always a major failo even if you're perfect everywhere else) or something close to the same range of attractiveness as 6'5" is insane

And height should be first on the relevance order anyway. the rest lacks nuance although I generally agree with it especially the section on hands, you hardly see anybody talking about hands on this forum when in fact they are extremely important. large, strong, veiny hands on a man with decently long nail beds and long fingers are pretty much the male equivalent of a pair of big round tits in a woman and much of the obsessive care women put into their own hands is a projection of the importance they give to male hands themselves

6.5/10 for effort still

I didn't actually intent to rank the specific traits in order of importance just the 6 major ones, although that would've been better, height is the most important trait on a man. And yes, 5'8" is blown to dust by a 6'5". However, it seems like that's only relevant when it comes to online dating, in face-to-face dating being average is often enough, as long as you're 2 to 5 inches taller than the woman, you'll probably do fine.

That said, there's no denying that very single woman on the planet would prefer a 6'6" Normie over a 5'8" Chad. Also, genuinely thanks for the "lacks nuance", I've been really interested in these topics lately and this is my form of outlet for that knowledge I've been gathering, and maybe it can help someone out there.

 

[KJ7]

High IQ thread for the most part. But in what world does fencing make you more attractive, unless you're trying to fuck men.

• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.

 

[getAlLifeMaxxing]

saying "between 5'8" and 6'5"" as if 5'8" would ever be an acceptable height (it's pretty much always a major failo even if you're perfect everywhere else) or something close to the same range of attractiveness as 6'5" is insane

And height should be first on the relevance order anyway. the rest lacks nuance although I generally agree with it especially the section on hands, you hardly see anybody talking about hands on this forum when in fact they are extremely important. large, strong, veiny hands on a man with decently long nail beds and long fingers are pretty much the male equivalent of a pair of big round tits in a woman and much of the obsessive care women put into their own hands is a projection of the importance they give to male hands themselves

6.5/10 for effort still

Niggas really think a bitch will reject you if you have your entire life in order but your 5'8

Being tall is an advantage not a requirement

"As if 5'8 would ever be an acceptable height" is ridiculous. In what scenario? Partying, clubbing sleeping around? Marriage?

You can get away with being 5'8 in all of these scenarios. The problem is the work needed to balance the disadvantage is not something average people are willing to do.

Doesn't mean it isn't impossible. Of course it seems intimidating when the success rate for shorter men is smaller but that's because average people, i.e RETARDS, are bringing down the percentage.

 

[Doryphoros]

Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.

This is especially true. I was talking with some female friends about somebody who used to go to our school, and as soon as one of them mentioned how he had really veiny hands, all of the others remembered and started talking about how attractive they found it. This is definitely one of the easiest softmaxxes with huge boosts to attractiveness.

 

[IrishSlayer1483]

Jump off a bridge

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adding a photo to make it look like ur legit so cringe

 

[iblamelooks5]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win, sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

Great post

 

[WrothEnd]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win, sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

Good thread

 

[Zeekie]

adding a photo to make it look like ur legit so cringe

Again, jump off a bridge

 

[IrishSlayer1483]

Again, jump off a bridge

the only people ik who say this shit to people irl and online are low t faggots, to get that upset about someone disagreeing with you or saying something u said isnt great is a feminine trait

 

[Zeekie]

the only people ik who say this shit to people irl and online are low t faggots, to get that upset about someone disagreeing with you or saying something u said isnt great is a feminine trait

"Disagreeing" is an understatement, you literally are providing nothing of value with your comments, hence, I reciprocate.

PLEASE jump off a bridge.

 

[Beniceandkind]

i;t's pretty much always a major failo even if you're perfect everywhere else

no. You're as retarded as op.

large, strong

no retard again. fingers need to be long, and pretty. not big and wide, it's low class and only attract ugly bimbos. very few men have hands like me : aka extremely pretty, veiny, long yet beautiful aesthetic. most people have distingusting fingers and hands, like you.

 

[IrishSlayer1483]

"Disagreeing" is an understatement, you literally are providing nothing of value with your comments, hence, I reciprocate.

PLEASE jump off a bridge.

I give people specific non cope advice responding to them not making water thread. Why are u so insistent on this jumping off a bridge business. I just know ur not secure in yourself. What a fag

 

[Zeekie]

I give people specific non cope advice responding to them not making water thread. Why are u so insistent on this jumping off a bridge business. I just know ur not secure in yourself. What a fag

All your "contributions" in this thread were "water" or "ChatGPT", might as well not have commented at all and moved on.

PLEASE DO SOME BRIDGEMAXXING

 

[laworg]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win, sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

Chatgpt made ur not fooling me boy

 

[laworg]

Put through an AI detector nigger, it's honestly baffling to me to see that y'all have so little sense of proper formatting and making a post enjoyable to read that your first thought is ChatGPT. Jump off a bridge.

Lol the dots give it away

 

[Zeekie]

Lol the dots give it away

You're telling me you don't know how to put dots in a text??

 

[laworg]

You're telling me you don't know how to put dots in a text??

Noone will take the time to do it

 

[Zeekie]

Noone will take the time to do it

Well, excuse a nigga for doing proper formatting on a thread. I made this account in 2024 but I barely even posted anything, I see the bar is too low over here.

What if I like my shit to look pretty? Can't a man do that without AI?

 

[laworg]

Well, excuse a nigga for doing proper formatting on a thread. I made this account in 2024 but I barely even posted anything, I see the bar is too low over here.

What if I like my shit to look pretty? Can't a man do that without AI?

No.

 

[Lawton88]

I've been really invested in the topic of what truly makes someone attractive, not from a social standpoint or what people tend to say or believe, but from what scientific research actually suggests. I think I've compiled a list of traits that make up 99% of romantic/sexual attraction for men. I'd love to hear opinions on this, did I miss anything?

They're ranked 1 through 6 in order of relevance.

1. Physical Attraction

• Height – Being tall is obviously important. The taller the better, but realistically, as long as you're at least 2+ inches taller than most women, you'll probably do just fine. Generally, being between 5'8" and 6'5" is ideal. Research shows 5'11" or taller is preferred. Anything over 7 feet starts becoming unattractive, however.
• Sexual Dimorphism – Perhaps one of the most important factors in sexual attraction as a man: you don’t want to look like a woman. This is true for most guys. Sure, some can pull off a few feminine features, but that’s usually a niche appeal, which isn’t the point here. We’re aiming for broad appeal. This is a huge topic in itself, but to name a few important traits: facial bone mass (cheekbones, brow ridge, etc.), appropriate body hair, muscular body and wide frame, thick eyebrows, and so on.
• Symmetry – Having a symmetrical face is a universal sign of good genetics and attractiveness. If your face is largely asymmetrical, you’re unattractive. If it’s symmetrical, you’re attractive. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
• Skin & Glow – Having clear skin and a "natural glow" is very important, as it signals good health. This means minimal texture, no acne, no hyperpigmentation, not being too dark or too pale.
• Scent/Smell – If you stink, you're automatically done. Doesn’t matter if you're a PSL God, if a woman catches a whiff, it's over. This ties into your hygiene, diet, grooming, and use of cologne or other scent enhancers. Avoid feminine scents, especially if you look masculine. Nothing more off-putting than a 6'6" muscle hunk smelling like lavender and roses.
• Eyes – "Hunter eyes," or the closest thing to them, are ideal. If you’ve been down the looksmaxxing rabbit hole, you already know what they are, I don’t need to explain.
• Hands/Vascularity – Super underrated. Women notice hands more than you think. Keep them trimmed, get manicures if possible, this falls under grooming. You also need vascularity, especially in forearms and hands. Think flavonoids, vasodilators, electrolytes, hydration, low body fat, training, you name it. But, everything in moderation. Too lean or overly vascular (e.g., from steroids) can look excessive and thus unattractive.
• Beard – Clean-shaven or full beards are often less ideal according to research. A light to heavy stubble is almost always more attractive. That said, if you have a god-tier jaw, or a very weak jaw, exposing or covering it accordingly might be better regardless of what research says.
• Fitness – Be lean, be relatively muscular (BMI between 22 and 27), engage in sports, cardio, athletic activities, eat well, optimize your hormones, sleep well, etc. These are foundational to physical attractiveness.

2. Charisma
(Charisma is complex, but these are the personality and charismatic traits most often cited by research. You don’t always have to be these things, just make others perceive that you are.)

• High Openness – Curiosity, willingness to try new things, appreciation for art, music, and intellectual pursuits.
• High Conscientiousness – Organization, responsibility, dependability.
• High Extraversion – Sociability, energy from others, comfort in social settings.
• High Agreeableness – Compassion, cooperation, empathy.
• Low Neuroticism – Low tendency to experience anxiety, depression, or anger.
• Communicative Skills – Don’t stutter, enunciate clearly, speak slowly, articulate well, be a good storyteller.
• Honesty & Reliability – Be seen as honest and dependable. Follow through, avoid blatant lies, offer small gestures.
• Powerful & Dominant – Controversial, but dominance matters. Don’t let others walk over you. Be assertive when needed. If you’re anyone’s doormat, your social attractiveness drops significantly. Stand up for yourself (or others) when you know you can win.

3. Social Status

• Successful Career – Success in your field gives you status. Research on which careers are attractive is mixed, but some (e.g., lawyer, military) are consistently seen as appealing. Regardless, be successful at whatever you do.
• Social Media Presence – Having a solid online presence (+1k followers), an attractive profile, and good content makes you miles more attractive in today’s world.
• Good Network – Ties into wealth and career. Be the "I know a guy" person. The more high-value people you’re connected to, the higher your status.
• Wealth – Do I even need to explain? If you’re wealthy, it hardly matters how you look, you’ll still appeal to most women.
• Rare Travel/Experiences/Hobbies – Be a sexual peacock. Unique experiences, niche travels, or high-class hobbies (art, music, fencing, etc.) make you irresistible.
• Mystery & Emotional Inaccessibility – Reveal very little but imply a lot. The more mysterious you are, the more attractive you become.

4. Intelligence
(Like charisma, intelligence is hard to define. But again, it's about appearing smart, even if you're not.)

• Giftedness – If you excel at anything, show it. Expertise is very attractive, be it math, chess, art, music, cooking, even cleaning. Einstein was ugly, but he could’ve bagged Marilyn Monroe (probably false, but fun to imagine).
• Engage in Intellectual Pursuits – Read, watch films, learn languages, explore art. Even if you’re faking it, you’ll thank me later.
• Extensive Vocabulary – Ties into communication, but worth emphasizing: knowing a wide range of words (and using them well) boosts perceived intelligence a lot. Just don’t overdo it.

5. Mutual Interests
(This depends on the woman. If you’re targeting someone specific, learn her interests, music, films, hobbies, and show genuine interest. Women love it when a man engages with things they like. If you’re just going for broad appeal... I don’t know, listen to Lana del Rey or something modern women are into.)

6. Emotional Intelligence
(Foundation = Healthy coping mechanisms and healing from the past)
If you’ve got unresolved trauma and no emotional regulation, you’ll likely struggle to connect emotionally, especially romantically. This is the most overlooked aspect of attraction for men. Unlike men, women care a lot about emotional availability. That’s why "pretty boys" often beat hypermasculine guys, they seem more emotionally in tune.

• Empathy – Most men are terrible at this. Maybe we see it as feminine, or just aren't used to showing emotion. But women expect emotional attunement. If you can’t feel empathy, just learn how to fake it, psychopaths do it really well. You don’t have to be empathetic, just seem like you are.
• Emotional Support – Know how to comfort someone in a time of need. Learn your partner’s love language. This is essential to keeping long-term romantic relationships alive.
• Attachment Style – Don’t be too attached or too distant. Emotional unavailability is unattractive, and clinginess is off-putting. Find a balanced, secure style.
• Conflict Management – Critical in any relationship. Learn persuasion, rhetorical skill, and how to defuse conflict. You don’t always need to win, sometimes it’s smarter to appear like you’ve compromised. And if you're wrong, apologize properly. A tactical loss is better than long-term relationship damage.

This is the result of condensed weeks of research. I hope someone finds value in it. Of course, these aren’t the only factors at play in attraction, but they’re the most important ones according to research on love, dating, and sexual appeal. Fortunately, most of these can be developed, acquired naturally (or through surgery), or just blatantly faked if needed.

Lol. Bluepilled nonsense much of it.

 

[Zeekie]

Lol. Bluepilled nonsense much of it.

Physical attraction is foundational, but it's definitely not the only factor. Do you think a girl would prefer a hot guy, or a hot guy who's emotionally intelligent? Do you think a girl would choose a hot guy, or a hot guy who's also rich?

I think the main issue with men and maximizing their looks is that we believe women function just like we do. Men, for the most part only care about looks. Women also care about looks, but they also care about 50 other attributes men never even considered in their life, this is why they have higher standards than us, they're wired to seek the best possible partner, and that doesn't only extend to the physical.

If you wanna have the maximum amount of success with women you have to develop yourself holistically to maximize your appeal, because that's how women rate you, they don't just focus on looks, or money, they focus on looks, money, status, height, perceived emotional availability, and other 10 variables ALL AT THE SAME TIME. And I'm not making any of this up, I can cite some research if you would actually like to look through it.

 

[HTNcutecel]

If you wanna have the maximum amount of success with women you have to develop yourself holistically to maximize your appeal, because that's how women rate you, they don't just focus on looks, or money, they focus on looks, money, status, height, perceived emotional availability, and other 10 variables ALL AT THE SAME TIME.

smv is more than just looks obvi they're just ragebaiting bhai

Emotional Intelligence

replace with game (understanding female psychology and exploiting it)

High Agreeableness

not attractive

worth mentioning archetype and voice too

d size wasn't explicitly mentioned but falls under dimorphism

 

[übermog]

Actual legitimate high IQ post.

Low iq retarded thread.

 

[Paroxysm]

no. You're as retarded as op.

no retard again. fingers need to be long, and pretty. not big and wide, it's low class and only attract ugly bimbos. very few men have hands like me : aka extremely pretty, veiny, long yet beautiful aesthetic. most people have distingusting fingers and hands, like you.

large and strong doesn't equal the stubby fat fingers of a turkish watermelon seller that you're picturing in your head. the rest of what you wrote doesn't deserve a reply.