The cornball problem

[New Poster]

The biggest problem approaching women is that anything you say to start a convo sounds incredibly corny. I just said a string of the dumbest fucking lines to a girl, and I bailed at sheer cringe of myself. No idea if the girl was interested because I ejected so fast. Even me. The guy who approaches all the fucking time -- even when in a relationship. I cringe at myself. There's just no cool way to approach. I started a convo with a girl I was sitting next to with:

"How'd you get your shoes so shiny?"

Literally, that was my opener. It went downhill from there. Just cornball on top of cornball. That's why everyone says confidence is so important. Because it is. You need to feel attractive enough that you think you can get away with corny lines. Normally I don't mind being a cornball for a bit if it gets things going, but today I just didn't have it. Had to get the fuck away from my own approach.

But there's no other way. You have to accept the cornball. Without the cornball, there is no approach. Without the approach, there is no convo. Without the convo, there is no escalation. You just have to feel gl enough to not be phased by sounding like the lamest cornies piece of shit out there.

 

[bloomercel]

Just Say Hi Theory.

 

[Deleted member 31562]

It’s not about what you say it’s about how you say it, also impossible to feel low inhib 24/7 without no drugs

 

[czwarty]

Just Say Hi Theory.

basically yeah.

if she's attracted to you she will be happy you talked to her, will smile at least a little. will say "hi" back with smile, then you can say whatever, ask her how she is, what she does or where she goes, and she will respond and ask you questions back, and the talk will flow by itself.

but if she's not attracted to you? nigga then everything you say will be corny

sad but true

 

[cutie_pie]

Whats your rating op?

 

[New Poster]

It’s not about what you say it’s about how you say it, also impossible to feel low inhib 24/7 without no drugs

I need 24/7 drug-induced high

 

[New Poster]

basically yeah.

if she's attracted to you she will be happy you talked to her, will smile at least a little. will say "hi" back with smile, then you can say whatever, ask her how she is, what she does or where she goes, and she will respond and ask you questions back, and the talk will flow by itself.

but if she's not attracted to you? nigga then everything you say will be corny

sad but true

No. You can't just say hi. I fucking hate listening to virgin losers online who have never approached irl before in their lives and build their entire worldview from tinder experiments. You can't just say hi. If you do that, you will get nothing. Maybe you could get women way below your league. Maybe. But if you're going after young attractive women, that does nothing. Absolutely nothing. I hate to break your fantasy, but you have to put in work to get women irl. Your chad daydream of just existing and getting laid with minimum risk/effort doesn't exist in the real world. If you want to actually get laid, you have to take stabs in the dark and put yourself way out there. You have to risk looking incredibly stupid and creepy. Sometimes you will utterly crash and burn, too, and there's no escape from that. Women will not respond to "hi."

Here's a legit gl guy approaching. Notice how much he has to talk to get the convo going. It's not just "hi" and smile -- because that's retarded.

The Gigachad Cumeth

The yt channel Social Animal is basically a place to watch subhumans and normies repeatedly get blown out by girls way above their league. They uploaded one video with an absolute gigachad. Tall, great frame, hair, face, voice. Literally everything. He's completely socially retarded and it...

looksmax.org

He mogs anyone who posts here into oblivion, and still has to go way out on a limb with some corny shit when he opens. There's no way around this.

 

[New Poster]

Whats your rating op?

I'm exactly 92th percentile in looks at 6'2" and white. That's why I approach. You need to be above average for the kind of approaches I do to work.

 

[cutie_pie]

I'm exactly 92th percentile in looks at 6'2" and white. That's why I approach. You need to be above average for the kind of approaches I do to work.

So chadlite?

 

[New Poster]

So chadlite?

yeah

 

[Slayer]

no ioi = no approach

I'm not going to say a word to a bitch unless I've caught multiple direct glances and smiles from across the room. You can say anything at that point.

 

[RAITEIII]

The biggest problem approaching women is that anything you say to start a convo sounds incredibly corny. I just said a string of the dumbest fucking lines to a girl, and I bailed at sheer cringe of myself. No idea if the girl was interested because I ejected so fast. Even me. The guy who approaches all the fucking time -- even when in a relationship. I cringe at myself. There's just no cool way to approach. I started a convo with a girl I was sitting next to with:

"How'd you get your shoes so shiny?"

Literally, that was my opener. It went downhill from there. Just cornball on top of cornball. That's why everyone says confidence is so important. Because it is. You need to feel attractive enough that you think you can get away with corny lines. Normally I don't mind being a cornball for a bit if it gets things going, but today I just didn't have it. Had to get the fuck away from my own approach.

But there's no other way. You have to accept the cornball. Without the cornball, there is no approach. Without the approach, there is no convo. Without the convo, there is no escalation. You just have to feel gl enough to not be phased by sounding like the lamest cornies piece of shit out there.

Howd u get ur shoes so shiny? Lol that sounds too aspie.

Cmon bro.

I'm very low inhibit but that doesnt necessarily equal good results.

 

[New Poster]

no ioi = no approach

I'm not going to say a word to a bitch unless I've caught multiple direct glances and smiles from across the room. You can say anything at that point.

 

[RAITEIII]

no ioi = no approach

I'm not going to say a word to a bitch unless I've caught multiple direct glances and smiles from across the room. You can say anything at that point.

Did u ever smile at someone randomly In order to attract them? Lol it's a good way but it seems "desperate" somehow. Who the fuck is smiling like that

 

[New Poster]

Howd u get ur shoes so shiny? Lol that sounds too aspie.

Cmon bro.

I'm very low inhibit but that doesnt necessarily equal good results.

It was aspie. You have no idea how aspie it was.

 

[OldRooster]

Legit dilemma. The more self aware you are, the more likely you are to realize that 90% of what people say is idiotic.

Other than Alcohol, Drugs, or a 99th percentile verbal skills, how does one remedy this problem?

 

[RAITEIII]

It was aspie. You have no idea how aspie it was.

So you were trying to chat up this foid while u already in Ltr? Is this the scenario you're presenting?

 

[RAITEIII]

Legit dilemma. The more self aware you are, the more likely you are to realize that 90% of what people say is idiotic.

Other than Alcohol, Drugs, or a 99th percentile verbal skills, how does one remedy this problem?

Anxiety. Remove it.

 

[Slayer]

high success rate with getting seriously mentally ill low tier beckys obsessed with me (aka the extent of women I can attract)

Did u ever smile at someone randomly In order to attract them? Lol it's a good way but it seems "desperate" somehow. Who the fuck is smiling like that

girls do this all the time

 

[New Poster]

Legit dilemma. The more self aware you are, the more likely you are to realize that 90% of what people say is idiotic.

Other than Alcohol, Drugs, or a 99th percentile verbal skills, how does one remedy this problem?

Unironically, it's be confident. When you're feeling yourself, you don't really care if you're saying stupid shit. I just lose that confidence from time to time and the realization of how cornball I am slipped into my mind. It's just a phase. I'll snap out of it. Just super annoying when it happens.

 

[New Poster]

So you were trying to chat up this foid while u already in Ltr? Is this the scenario you're presenting?

I am a piece of shit

 

[New Poster]

high success rate with getting seriously mentally ill low tier beckys obsessed with me (aka the extent of women I can attract)

See my reply where I make it clear I'm talking about young attractive women

 

[Slayer]

See my reply where I make it clear I'm talking about young attractive women

simply look good

 

[New Poster]

simply look good

I do

 

[RAITEIII]

I am a piece of shit

Yes. I look up to you but this is not smth I'm proud of tbh ngl.

 

[poopoohead]

I do

Why don’t you do tinder then instead of challenging yourself with cold approaches?

 

[New Poster]

Why don’t you do tinder then instead of challenging yourself with cold approaches?

Because you can't get hot girls as a chadlite on tinder -- particularly as a 35 year old chadlite. Tinder is great for dating down, but standardscels need cold approach.

 

[poopoohead]

Because you can't get hot girls as a chadlite on tinder -- particularly as a 35 year old chadlite. Tinder is great for dating down, but standardscels need cold approach.

Well you also need to factor in LMS. Are you fine in terms of career and status?

 

[BoredPrince]

no ioi = no approach

I'm not going to say a word to a bitch unless I've caught multiple direct glances and smiles from across the room. You can say anything at that point.

Yeah I thought so too until today

Cuz every single girl I approached like that rejected me, IOIs don't mean much

 

[New Poster]

Well you also need to factor in LMS. Are you fine in terms of career and status?

Yes, I'm comfortably upper middle class with a phd. Doesn't do much unless you're trying to get an ltr.

 

[poopoohead]

Yes, I'm comfortably upper middle class with a phd. Doesn't do much unless you're trying to get an ltr.

That’s awesome. Which major did you specialize in? (just curious) Also I have heard that if you want to meet girls for casual sex, you should go to more degenerate environments like clubs.

 

[Ken]

Why don’t you do tinder then instead of challenging yourself with cold approaches?

Dating apps are trash if you are over 24 and want to meet some prime females. Girls 18-22 set their age filter to 18-22 or 23 max so they wont even see you.

 

[mogger123]

do you have any hobbies

 

[Gengar]

No. You can't just say hi. I fucking hate listening to virgin losers online who have never approached irl before in their lives and build their entire worldview from tinder experiments. You can't just say hi. If you do that, you will get nothing. Maybe you could get women way below your league. Maybe. But if you're going after young attractive women, that does nothing. Absolutely nothing. I hate to break your fantasy, but you have to put in work to get women irl. Your chad daydream of just existing and getting laid with minimum risk/effort doesn't exist in the real world. If you want to actually get laid, you have to take stabs in the dark and put yourself way out there. You have to risk looking incredibly stupid and creepy. Sometimes you will utterly crash and burn, too, and there's no escape from that. Women will not respond to "hi."

Here's a legit gl guy approaching. Notice how much he has to talk to get the convo going. It's not just "hi" and smile -- because that's retarded.

The Gigachad Cumeth

The yt channel Social Animal is basically a place to watch subhumans and normies repeatedly get blown out by girls way above their league. They uploaded one video with an absolute gigachad. Tall, great frame, hair, face, voice. Literally everything. He's completely socially retarded and it...

looksmax.org

He mogs anyone who posts here into oblivion, and still has to go way out on a limb with some corny shit when he opens. There's no way around this.

He’s good looking, alright, but he’s no giga chad. HTN (based off of his face alone), or at least where I’m from.

 

[bloomercel]

No. You can't just say hi. I fucking hate listening to virgin losers online who have never approached irl before in their lives and build their entire worldview from tinder experiments. You can't just say hi. If you do that, you will get nothing. Maybe you could get women way below your league. Maybe. But if you're going after young attractive women, that does nothing. Absolutely nothing. I hate to break your fantasy, but you have to put in work to get women irl. Your chad daydream of just existing and getting laid with minimum risk/effort doesn't exist in the real world. If you want to actually get laid, you have to take stabs in the dark and put yourself way out there. You have to risk looking incredibly stupid and creepy. Sometimes you will utterly crash and burn, too, and there's no escape from that. Women will not respond to "hi."

Here's a legit gl guy approaching. Notice how much he has to talk to get the convo going. It's not just "hi" and smile -- because that's retarded.

The Gigachad Cumeth

The yt channel Social Animal is basically a place to watch subhumans and normies repeatedly get blown out by girls way above their league. They uploaded one video with an absolute gigachad. Tall, great frame, hair, face, voice. Literally everything. He's completely socially retarded and it...

looksmax.org

He mogs anyone who posts here into oblivion, and still has to go way out on a limb with some corny shit when he opens. There's no way around this.

How young exactly? Early 20s or JB?

 

[New Poster]

do you have any hobbies

 

[ConfusedBolivian]

Lol