The economics of happiness: Why getting a GF is so important to me

[pprimus43]

The only way I can be happy is if I get a loving GF. This isn't even a rare experience from my understanding. Half of my friends, mostly normies have loving GFs and seem to be happy. I spend all day miserable and longing for a GF, or even a random fling. But girls all seem to hate and despise me. Because I don't have a GF or sexual success, I am automatically lower on the social totem, ruining any happiness I get from my male friends. I don't need to worry about money for now, so all my material needs are fulfilled. But I feel empty, tormented and depressed because at the end of the day I don't have a GF I can have sex with or even just sleep with in my room. It's fundamentally unfair and seeing couples in my campus makes me extremely depressed. I don't know what else to do atp.

 

[try2beme]

Its not worth it

 

[pprimus43]

Its not worth it

Seems worth it to me. Getting a GF leads to consistent sex, higher social status, more things to do in life etc.

 

[mrnut]

i need a subhuman gf to learn how to kiss

 

[try2beme]

Seems worth it to me. Getting a GF leads to consistent sex, higher social status, more things to do in life etc.

Having a gf doesn’t give u status unless she is very high status. U can do things with friends. U can get consistent sex from dating apps.

 

[pprimus43]

Having a gf doesn’t give u status unless she is very high status. U can do things with friends. U can get consistent sex from dating apps.

How do I get sex from OLD? I’ve been on dates with 9 girls from OLD but idk how to flirt so they just ghost me

 

[BiggiecheeseI]

Getting a gf won't solve your problems, just be NT if you aren't subhuman

 

[try2beme]

idk how to flirt

this is why lol. Why would she give her body to a man who cannot even be smooth talking with them

 

[pprimus43]

this is why lol. Why would she give her body to a man who cannot even be smooth talking with them

How do I start learning? I’ve spent 30+ hours talking to foids over the past couple months across 7 dates but I can’t muster up the courage

 

[romanstock]

I talked to a self serve checkout girl for 2 mins yesterday and I felt so much warmer during it, she had to help me how to scan the gift card on my phone. We were standing right next to each other, and she seemed a little bit nervous, and so was I.

 

[pprimus43]

I talked to a self serve checkout girl for 2 mins yesterday and I felt so much warmer during it, she had to help me how to scan the gift card on my phone. We were standing right next to each other, and she seemed a little bit nervous, and so was I.

Are you actually a 35 year old virgin

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

You got legit mental issues bc being only happy if someone else is in your life is legit the lamest thing I've heard in a while. You believe that'd make you happy when it will actually make you dependant and crave her presence and approval + suffer when/if she leaves/cheats

that isnt happiness that's just having issues bc you can't deal with loneliness and your own character. Try to find a passion man

 

[pprimus43]

You got legit mental issues bc being only happy if someone else is in your life is legit the lamest thing I've heard in a while. You believe that'd make you happy when it will actually make you dependant and crave her presence and approval + suffer when/if she leaves/cheats

that isnt happiness that's just having issues bc you can't deal with loneliness and your own character. Try to find a passion man

I have everything I really want in life besides this one aspect and this is really important to me because it’s a biological imperative. I cannot escape it no matter what it’s something I deeply desire and even beyond all of the pleasurable like physical actions there’s a novelty to it new experiences that I must chase. Otherwise life is just stagnant and boring.

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

I have everything I really want in life besides this one aspect and this is really important to me because it’s a biological imperative. I cannot escape it no matter what it’s something I deeply desire and even beyond all of the pleasurable like physical actions there’s a novelty to it new experiences that I must chase. Otherwise life is just stagnant and boring.

You have money ?

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

You have money ?

Send me money then jfl I'll help you get a gf

 

[pprimus43]

You have money ?

I don’t have that much money by myself maybe only like 20 or 30 K in my account but my family is pretty rich my house or the house. My family lives in this world over $2 million and I’m on track to get a high paying career, no matter what basically essentially money is not the issue. The only real issue in my life is not having a girlfriend And that issue is destroying me. Honestly, I would rather be born a war orphan in like Iraq starving all day, but have experience love and like romance rather than this current life where I feel materially comfortable, but romantically empty.

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

I don’t have that much money by myself maybe only like 20 or 30 K in my account but my family is pretty rich my house or the house. My family lives in this world over $2 million and I’m on track to get a high paying career, no matter what basically essentially money is not the issue. The only real issue in my life is not having a girlfriend And that issue is destroying me. Honestly, I would rather be born a war orphan in like Iraq starving all day, but have experience love and like romance rather than this current life where I feel materially comfortable, but romantically empty.

You don't know what you're talking about here

What kind of career ? Usually a good career lead to getting a big edge on girls bc of both status and money so it'll help you in the future, you can focus on that

If you're socially awkward and can't talk to girls, you need to experience cold approaches and just last as long as possible in regular conversations without it becoming awkward. Go to a city where nobody knows you and just try a lot of times, as soon as you see a girl. You can even just talk to guys normally too. Even if the girl is ugly do it for the xp, but don't use that to avoid going to attractive girls bc then you'll only be able to talk easily when you'll be with an ugly one

 

[pprimus43]

You don't know what you're talking about here

What kind of career ? Usually a good career lead to getting a big edge on girls bc of both status and money so it'll help you in the future, you can focus on that

If you're socially awkward and can't talk to girls, you need to experience cold approaches and just last as long as possible in regular conversations without it becoming awkward. Go to a city where nobody knows you and just try a lot of times, as soon as you see a girl. You can even just talk to guys normally too. Even if the girl is ugly do it for the xp, but don't use that to avoid going to attractive girls bc then you'll only be able to talk easily when you'll be with an ugly one

I’m going into healthcare. Nurse anesthetist

 

[pprimus43]

You don't know what you're talking about here

What kind of career ? Usually a good career lead to getting a big edge on girls bc of both status and money so it'll help you in the future, you can focus on that

If you're socially awkward and can't talk to girls, you need to experience cold approaches and just last as long as possible in regular conversations without it becoming awkward. Go to a city where nobody knows you and just try a lot of times, as soon as you see a girl. You can even just talk to guys normally too. Even if the girl is ugly do it for the xp, but don't use that to avoid going to attractive girls bc then you'll only be able to talk easily when you'll be with an ugly one

I get dates from Hinge. I’ve been on dates w 9 girls but I just keep failing because fear of escalation

 

[glaruz]

have loving GFs and seem to be happy

It is all larp. The more time goes on the more you understand this. Most of them will break up and most of them were never loved trully to begin with. Most men get this:

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

I get dates from Hinge. I’ve been on dates w 9 girls but I just keep failing because fear of escalation

Understandable, but maybe those girls aren't that much into you or you talk to them as friends despite trying to fuck (not "sexualizing them/the convo"), those are the most common mistakes for me

 

[Autisticbrokeass2]

It is all larp. The more time goes on the more you understand this. Most of them will break up and most of them were never loved trully to begin with. Most men get this:

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True, I have never been more miserable than when I was craving a girl and when I have one

If you crave it like most, you'll feel like starving and think its what you need the most

When you get one after craving it, you're most likely at one point gonna get walked over out of fear of losing her