Richard_Hungwell
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All those types of attraction are fragile though.Stacies have no interest in chasing very attractive men because they know there is no man that wouldn't date them.
So they try to monetize their attractiveness by chasing the ones with the most money; they can fuck all the chads they want anyways, the "rich old guy with a hot wife that cheats on him with another better looking man" is a trope as old as the world.
Beckies don't have such a strong hand regarding very attractive men, so they have to chase them a bit harder to get them.
Still. I'd rather be lusted after by scores of Beckies than be an human ATM machine for 1 Stacy.
You have to realize that not all types of attraction are the same; it goes in tiers.
- The best type of attraction is based on personality, because it cannot fade and only you have your exact personality. However, this type of attraction is very rare, and often made impossible by sub-par looks. Sadly, the animal component in human beings is still very strong and makes it really hard to overlook major physical flaws, even if the person's personality is perfect for you.
- The second best type of attraction is based on looks. You are attractive on a primal level, she wants you and is turned on by you. This cannot be achieved in any other way.
- The third best type of attraction is based on status. She wants to be with you as an ego boost. "Look at me, I am the one dating the famous actor, therefore I have more value than you". You are being used, but at least you're used for your merits, just know that the moment your fame goes, you're back to square one.
- The fourth best type of attraction is based on money. She doesn't really want you, she just wants your money, an easy and luxurious life. This type of attraction is the most exploitative. You have to essentially actively pay for her to remain interested in you, while in the meantime she will often cheat since there is no real attraction towards YOU. And once the money runs out, the gold-digger will disappear.
Women still cheat on good looking chads with other good looking chads.
Personality can also fade because some people become bitter and miserable as they get older or may develop neurodegenerative diseases.
You are being "used" (if you want to look at it that way) regardless of the type of attraction (while you also "use" her for whatever you get out of the relationship)...so it doesn't really matter much as they're all still fragile (some possibly more so than others).
Relationships are fragile in general because of women's liberation and our departure from a patriarchal society.
Nope, that's Marko Jaric.this guy photoshopped or fr?
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