the first and second child are just ‘practice children’

[160cmcurry]

the warm up run where parents fuck everything up, project their baggage, experiment with rules, and learn what not to do

by the third one they’ve finally figured out boundaries, money, patience, and basic emotional regulation


so that kid gets the polished version while the first two eat all the trial and error damage.

 

[puff]

the warm up run where parents fuck everything up, project their baggage, experiment with rules, and learn what not to do

by the third one they’ve finally figured out boundaries, money, patience, and basic emotional regulation


so that kid gets the polished version while the first two eat all the trial and error damage.

Context

 

[Sceptical]

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