The first gulp from the glass of lookism will make you blackpilled, but at the bottom of the glass, white pill is waiting (NT is just as important)

[Deleted member 13264]

Alot of relationships, sure. But as long as God exist love is possible. Just gotta find the right girl. But keep in mind, while you think it's hard to find a girl who loves, have you checked yourself if you're truly ready for it? You aren't if you think looks are the only important thing. Not talking about you in particular, just a hypothetical.

But these girls who want love are out there, just gotta find them

Bro, they all seem to lie man. Spend too much time with them, it seems to destroy any attraction.
That's not love bro...

I feel like love is only with God atm. Still reading the bible though - it just seems that women are mischievous characters tbh.
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[lowtiernormy69]

I'm extremely late, but W thread

 

[justropemaxbro]

But it's over for a manlet like me

 

[actualunderstander]

But it's over for a manlet like me

That's weird cause the two people I know who have gotten the most girls ive know were between the heights of 5'7 to 5'9. That's just my experience, tho. I'm being completely serious too. If you think I'm bsing, then you are wrong.

 

[NTMaxxing]

Blackpillers tend to lack nuance and see things as (no pun intended) black or white. Either you're GL and have an intense sex life with a loyal partner, or you're ugly and invisible to women. The reality is that there is more of a spectrum and the vast majority of men who form the middle of the bell curve for looks will manage to get girlfriends, have sex, have kids, and receive genuine affection.

This doesn't mean their partner ever lusts for them, or that their relationships are not somewhat transactional. Ask yourself why so many guys upon losing their job worry about whether their partner will leave them? Why is this even a question for so many men? Because most relationships are transactional. And your looks counts as leverage in this transaction; the better looking you are the more power you have in the relationship regardless of other factors like your job or even your personality.

Only the top tier of male attractiveness will ever experience lust, or the a woman's uninhibited sexual energy. A lot of women go through life never experiencing this, thinking they are not capable of it. Many women have never had an orgasm; they pretend that they are just not the type but the reality is that their partner (who they genuinely love) does not stimulate that level of sexual lust in them. The end result of this is that most "happy marriages" will at some point need help because of a lack of mutual attraction, and you would be amazed how many normal couples go to therapy, start swinging, roleplaying about other people, and all sorts of other gimmicks to avoid dealing with the attractiveness problem.

Since people's attractiveness falls on a bell curve, small improvements in attractiveness have disproportionately large effects on the number of people you "mog". For example going from a 5 to a 6 can be socially transformative. We know that going from 5'10 to 6'0 is far more impactful than going from 5'4 to 5'6 for this reason; you leapfrog a disproportionate number of people going from average to above-average.

My point is that OP is correct in so far as you don't need to be Chad to have a relationship and to be somewhat happy. But the better looking you are the better quality will be your relationship, the lower your risk of divorce, the more active your sex life will be, and just about every aspect of your social life will improve. Therefore looksmaxing should be an absolute priority especially if you are average looking.

High IQ reply holy shit

 

[JohnDoe]

Good thread, you speak the truth my friend but it is in vain i fear.