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A wise man once said:"Bitch dependency is no laughing matter."
Usually we equate suffering with feeling, but the feeling in itself is not the root of suffering.
It is the desire (the will to have something) that is the suffering. Desire does not cause suffering — the cause of suffering is the grasping of desire.
(This is the Second Noble Truth)
The will to desire something is intrinsic in human nature, and it is all-encompassing. A dying man in a desert can desire a glass of water, while a spoiled kid can desire a new toy while sitting on a mountain of toys.
Physiological desires (the ones that come from your body) are always stronger and ever-present because they are directly linked to your survival.
The ones that come from your mind are weaker, more vain, and unnecessary — much like Maslow’s Hierarchy.
How is bitch dependency related to this?
Reproduction is a crucial part of the human survival instinct. Even in nature, many males enter a depression-like state after the loss of their loved ones. Love and obsession are extremely close to one another — the highest form of love can flip into deep obsession or hatred depending on the situation.
Males love differently than females. We bond rather than fall in love at first sight. While a woman may love you fervently in the first months, the male is just going with the flow. Then, after some time, when the male is truly enamored by his partner… her love for you may already be long gone.
In her departure she takes an important piece of you with her, leaving only melancholy and loneliness.
(The higher the Joy, the deeper the Loss.)
How to destroy bitch dependency?
I myself do not know the way.
But time and distance tend to heal and erase everything.
Do not go into her instagram or look at old photos, just let time and new people do the work.
A wise man once said:"Bitch dependency is no laughing matter."
Usually we equate suffering with feeling, but the feeling in itself is not the root of suffering.
It is the desire (the will to have something) that is the suffering. Desire does not cause suffering — the cause of suffering is the grasping of desire.
(This is the Second Noble Truth)
The will to desire something is intrinsic in human nature, and it is all-encompassing. A dying man in a desert can desire a glass of water, while a spoiled kid can desire a new toy while sitting on a mountain of toys.
Physiological desires (the ones that come from your body) are always stronger and ever-present because they are directly linked to your survival.
The ones that come from your mind are weaker, more vain, and unnecessary — much like Maslow’s Hierarchy.
How is bitch dependency related to this?
Reproduction is a crucial part of the human survival instinct. Even in nature, many males enter a depression-like state after the loss of their loved ones. Love and obsession are extremely close to one another — the highest form of love can flip into deep obsession or hatred depending on the situation.
Males love differently than females. We bond rather than fall in love at first sight. While a woman may love you fervently in the first months, the male is just going with the flow. Then, after some time, when the male is truly enamored by his partner… her love for you may already be long gone.
In her departure she takes an important piece of you with her, leaving only melancholy and loneliness.
(The higher the Joy, the deeper the Loss.)
How to destroy bitch dependency?
I myself do not know the way.
But time and distance tend to heal and erase everything.
Do not go into her instagram or look at old photos, just let time and new people do the work.
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