The Full 250-Row Megalist of Indicators of Interest

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The Full 250-Row Megalist of Indicators of Interest

This is the companion catalog for A Complete Masterclass in Detecting Indicators of Interest — read the main guide first. Every row here belongs to one of the three incentive classes (attention, propinquity, value) covered there; this thread exists only because the full catalog doesn't fit in the main post's character limit.

Class — which incentive the behavior originates from. Where two are listed, the first is dominant. There is no fourth class: stake defense is Value on its involuntary face.
Frequency — how often the behavior shows up in the wild: Very common, Common, Uncommon, or Rare.
Strength — how hard the observation moves you off the null by itself, assuming it's undue, robust, and self-attributable. Five grades: Impotent, Mild, Moderate, Strong, Undeniable.
What it implements — the computation the behavior actually performs.

Strength is not frequency: the most common signals are weak precisely because they are common under disinterest too. Read every grade as a prior, never a verdict.

Spoiler: Gaze and monitoring (attention, mostly covert)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Staring	Attention	Very common	Mild	visual attention is the cheapest spend; value pulls gaze
Repeated glance-and-return	Attention	Very common	Moderate	checks you, checks if you noticed, returns anyway
Eyes pass over you while she talks to others	Attention	Common	Mild	tracking you mid-task; you're pinned in her scene
Caught staring, snaps away, then fixes hair or posture	Attention	Common	Moderate	exposure triggers instant value display; the pairing is the tell
Stares when she thinks you can't see (reflections, peripherals)	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	pure covert spend, zero performative value, high honesty
Looks at you first when something funny happens	Attention	Common	Moderate	you are her reaction reference point; shared-moment bid
Glances at you right after she says something impressive	Attention, Value	Common	Moderate	checking whether the display landed on its intended buyer
Checks your reaction after her own jokes	Attention, Value	Common	Mild	your amusement is the scoreboard she's playing to
Head turns when you enter the room	Attention	Common	Mild	orienting reflex toward the highest-value novelty
Follows you with her eyes when you leave	Attention	Common	Mild	attention persists past the interaction; tracking, not politeness
Tracks your conversations from across the room	Attention	Common	Moderate	monitoring your social graph without participating
Watches who you talk to, especially women	Attention, Value	Common	Moderate	rival surveillance; attention with a defensive payload
Notices your haircut or new clothes immediately	Attention	Common	Mild	she holds a model of you current enough to diff against
Conspicuous inattention: never once looks at the one novel thing in the room (you)	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	suppression costs attention; effortful not-looking is spending
Looks at you, then at her friend, then giggles	Attention, Value	Common	Mild	you are the topic; third-party leakage
Body and feet oriented toward you even mid-other-conversation	Attention	Common	Mild	orientation follows attention allocation involuntarily
Watches your lips while you talk	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	attention drifting from content to contact
Scans you head-to-toe on approach	Attention	Common	Mild	appraisal pass; a pricing update in progress
Notices your absence and asks where you were	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	your presence is tracked against expectation; a model exists
Knows where you are in a room without obviously looking	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	continuous covert tracking; the room has one landmark
Looks at you when couple-topics come up in the group	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	associative retrieval made visible
Watches your hands and forearms	Attention	Uncommon	Mild	attention to dimorphic detail; appraisal
Attention drifts back to you mid-group-conversation	Attention	Common	Mild	her focus resets to its default target
Pupils visibly dilated in normal light around you	Value	Rare	Mild	autonomic arousal; unfakeable but hard to read reliably
Lights up on accidental eye contact across a room	Attention	Common	Moderate	recognition spike; involuntary and fast
Rewatches your stories	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	repeat consumption after the information value is spent

Spoiler: Information acquisition and probes (attention)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Questions she doesn't need answered (the 71% charger)	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	pretext purchase of interaction; the target is you, not the object
Makes up a non-necessary pretext to ask for your help (ex. "how do I do this on Excel")	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	manufactured excuse to talk to you and sit close enough to show her; the task never needed a teacher
Remembers a detail you said once, in passing	Attention	Common	Strong	indexing at that resolution means high-priority encoding
Detail recall weeks later, unprompted	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	your biography is being maintained, not just stored
Asks your friends about you	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	information acquisition with witnesses; costly and specific
Sideways availability probe ("is your girlfriend coming?")	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	mate-status query wrapped in deniability
Asks if you're single, directly	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	feasibility check; the computation is deciding whether to spend
Asks your "type"	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	fitting herself against your rubric
Asks your birthday and birth time (astrology chart)	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	compatibility modeling; she's running projections on you
Types you (MBTI, enneagram, big five)	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	reverse-engineering your psychology to optimize her approach
Asks about your weekend and plans, habitually	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Mild	schedule mapping; propinquity reconnaissance
Asks what you look for in a girl	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	rubric extraction; she intends to score well on it
Knows things she could only know from digital digging	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	off-hours attention; the model is being built at home
Asks about your past relationships	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	mapping your availability history and attachment patterns
Asks how you're doing and waits for the real answer	Attention	Common	Mild	attention to your state beyond the social script
Remembers your coffee or food order	Attention	Common	Moderate	preference model maintained; watch what she does with it
Asks your opinion on things she's already decided	Attention, Value	Common	Mild	manufactured consult; your judgment is being priced in
Probes your reactions with hypotheticals ("would you date a shorter girl?")	Attention	Uncommon	Strong	trial balloon; she is the hypothetical
"What are you doing this weekend?" before events	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	future-state prediction feeding an invitation decision
Asks whether you're going to X before committing herself	Propinquity, Attention	Common	Moderate	her attendance is a function of yours
Tests your boundaries with small teases and watches	Attention, Value	Common	Moderate	probe: measuring tolerance and reciprocity
Asks your height, age, major early	Attention	Common	Mild	spec-sheet assembly
Asks if you live alone	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	access-relevant reconnaissance
Quizzes you about your goals and ambitions	Attention	Common	Mild	provider-axis pricing
Follows up on specifics you mentioned long ago	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	longitudinal model maintenance

Spoiler: Digital attention

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Fast, consistent reply latency	Attention	Very common	Mild	queue priority; you interrupt whatever she was doing
Fast replies at odd hours	Attention	Common	Moderate	you outrank sleep; the priority is not situational
Story views within minutes, consistently	Attention	Very common	Mild	notification-speed monitoring
Replies to stories that required no reply	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	manufactured contact from a passive channel
Reacts to or likes almost everything you post	Attention	Common	Mild	ambient monitoring made visible
Deep-likes an old photo	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	archaeology leak; she scrolled far and slipped
Follows you immediately after first meeting	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Mild	fast conversion of contact into channel
Views your story, then messages about something else	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	consumed the content, engineered a different pretext
Double texts when you don't reply	Propinquity, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	thread resuscitation; she pays the initiative cost twice
Asks why you didn't reply	Attention, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	your latency is monitored, and it registered as loss
"Heyyyy" with extra letters, decorated texts	Value	Common	Mild	effort and affect leaking into a thin pipe
Typing indicator appears and disappears repeatedly	Value	Uncommon	Mild	drafting and censoring; the filter running in real time
Unsends and resends messages	Value	Uncommon	Mild	composition anxiety only costs energy if you matter
Sends memes "that reminded me of you"	Attention, Propinquity	Common	Mild	you are a retrieval cue in her feed; contact pretext
Screenshots or references your old posts	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	archive attention; the past you is being studied
Notices your online status and comments on it	Attention	Uncommon	Mild	presence monitoring made audible
Lingers in the group chat or call until you leave	Propinquity, Attention	Rare	Moderate	digital co-exit; presence coupling
Long replies to your short texts	Value, Propinquity	Common	Moderate	investment asymmetry running in your favor
Good-morning and good-night texts	Propinquity, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	bracketing your day; ritualized contact
Quotes your own texts back from weeks ago	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	thread archaeology; your words are indexed
Emoji-decorates your comments, plain elsewhere	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Mild	differential effort; check her style with others

Spoiler: Physical propinquity (position)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Seat migration across sessions, terminating near you	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	position is a choice made repeatedly against a baseline
Sits next to you with thirty empty seats	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	maximal-cost seat selection; near-zero innocent hypotheses
"Is anyone sitting here?" in an empty row	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	deniability layered over a heavy position spend
Somehow always in your general area	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	route engineering; check against her natural paths
Route changes that intersect yours	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	geometry doesn't lie; compare to her established paths
Appears at your gym time, class, or spot	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	schedule synchronization; timing is a position spend
Joins your club, group, or project	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	institutionalized propinquity; recurring access purchased once
Lingers near you after class or work	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	manufactured overlap window
Walks with you when her destination doesn't require it	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	shared vector; position spent on minutes with you
Positions herself in your line of sight	Propinquity, Attention	Common	Mild	availability display; making detection easy for you
Makes herself known when she suspects you haven't registered her (a loud laugh in your sightline, an entrance you'll clock, repeatedly crossing your path)	Propinquity, Attention	Common	Mild	opening access by getting onto your radar; there is no reaching a man who doesn't know you exist
Slows down passing your desk or area	Propinquity	Common	Mild	dwell time; sampling the interaction opportunity
Finds pretexts to visit your area	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	recurring access on manufactured reasons
Borrows things she doesn't need	Propinquity, Attention	Common	Moderate	object as interaction voucher; also creates a return event
Returns borrowed things in person, unnecessarily	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	the return was the point; two contacts from one loan
Saves you a seat	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	pre-allocated position; public and semi-owned
Chooses you for pair work, every time	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	recurring elective adjacency
Volunteers when you volunteer	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	co-commitment; schedule coupling
Leans in during conversation	Propinquity	Common	Mild	distance reduction at conversation scale
Re-closes the gap when you step back	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	proxemic pressure; the gap has a setpoint, and it's small
Touches your arm or shoulder during conversation	Propinquity	Common	Mild	contact trial; weigh against her baseline touchiness
Engineers touch (high-fives, "let me see your hand", cold hands)	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	contact with a sponsor; the pretext is the insurance
Fixes your collar, picks lint off you	Propinquity, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	grooming touch; ownership-flavored contact
Touches you with no covering pretext (a hand on your arm, holding your hand, touching your face)	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	overt-mode contact; she has forfeited the deniability insurance the pretext-touches above rely on
Dances close or gravitates to you at parties	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	position spend in a context that permits it
Sits closer each successive session	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	monotonic distance reduction; the trend is the signal
Stands next to you in group photos	Propinquity	Common	Mild	recorded adjacency; small but repeatable
Times her exits with yours	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	manufactured shared transitions
Waits for you after class, work, or practice	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	explanation-free waiting is expensive
Takes your usual spot or the seat you vacated	Propinquity	Uncommon	Mild	proximity to your residue; territory familiarity
Takes your bus or route "coincidentally"	Propinquity	Rare	Strong	route coupling; check the geometry
Extends conversations past their natural exit points	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	she pays to keep the window open
Re-establishes proximity after you move seats	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	the probe you ran, answered

Spoiler: Scheduling, digital initiation, and future propinquity (position)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Initiates DMs on pretexts	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	channel opening; the pretext is the deniability layer
Texts first, repeatedly	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	initiative asymmetry in your favor
Keeps threads alive past natural death	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	thread maintenance costs effort; dead threads are the default
Asks for your number	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	direct channel acquisition; overt-grade move
Asks for your socials	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	channel acquisition, cheaper denomination
Deniable invitation ("a bunch of people are going, you should come")	Propinquity	Common	Strong	future propinquity purchased with insurance
Directly invites just you to go somewhere or do something with her, not framed as a group thing	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	an overt invitation with no deniability insurance; costly and hard to explain innocently
Invites you to study	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	pretext with duration; hours of legitimized adjacency
Invites you to her place	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	maximal-access invitation; read the context she prepared
"Study" invite, but the textbook is missing and food is out	Propinquity	Rare	Strong	the stated pretext is falsified by the staging
Open loops ("that's a story for another time")	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	future contact debt, deliberately created
Manufactures the next contact ("I'll send it to you")	Propinquity	Common	Moderate	the follow-up is the point
Attaches herself to your vague plans ("I'm getting coffee" → "I'll come")	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	converts your movement into shared time
Shows up where you mentioned you'd be	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	your words became her itinerary
Suggests activities that happen to match your interests	Propinquity, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	invitation engineered from her model of you
Organizes group hangs where you're the constant	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	social architecture with you as the fixed node
Proposes exchanges that require meeting	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	logistics as intimacy vehicle
Asks you to teach her your hobby	Propinquity, Value	Uncommon	Strong	recurring lessons: scheduled propinquity plus teacher status
"We should hang out sometime", repeatedly, no date pinned	Propinquity	Common	Mild	interest with feasibility hesitation; probe it
Arranges to be walked home, driven, accompanied	Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	escort engineering; alone-time with a practical sponsor
Gets a friend to introduce her, or bring her up to you favorably	Propinquity, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	making herself known through a proxy; a stopgap, since she ultimately wants you engaging her directly

Spoiler: Appeasement and celebrity treatment (value transfer)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Over-laughing at jokes that didn't earn it	Value	Very common	Mild	status transfer; her laugh threshold is priced per person
Laughs before your punchline lands	Value	Common	Moderate	pre-approval; the source outranks the content
Quick agreement, low friction	Value	Common	Mild	appeasement; disagreement risks her standing
Defers to your opinions, seeks your advice	Value	Common	Mild	authority transfer; you're installed as evaluator
Overly agreeable across weeks	Value	Common	Mild	sustained appeasement; check her baseline agreeableness
Quotes you back ("like you said...")	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	your speech elevated to citation status
Nervous only around you, composed elsewhere	Value	Common	Moderate	celebrity treatment; the self-monitoring is target-specific
Higher-pitched voice with you	Value	Common	Mild	affiliative vocal shift; compare baselines
Animates and performs when you join the group	Value, Attention	Common	Mild	audience of one; the display keys on your presence
Talks louder when you're in earshot	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Mild	broadcast aimed past the ostensible audience
Plays dumb so you can teach her	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	manufactured competence gap; you get the teacher's status
Asks you to explain what she already understands	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	consult as tribute, plus contact time
Visible shame or guilt when she disappoints you	Value	Uncommon	Strong	your evaluation has been internalized as a stake
Follows your light "orders" with low resistance	Value	Uncommon	Strong	persuasion asymmetry; your preferences move her behavior
Easily persuaded by you, stubborn with everyone else	Value	Uncommon	Strong	the differential is the class; compliance is priced per person
Treats you as higher-status than the room does	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	her private ranking leaking through treatment
Sides with you in group disagreements	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	alliance display; it costs her elsewhere
Uses your slang and phrases	Value	Common	Mild	linguistic convergence; affiliation leak

Spoiler: Value display and provisioning (value transfer)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Elevated appearance effort on days she'll see you	Value	Common	Moderate	scheduled display; a deviation from her own baseline
New dressing pattern, makeup, or fragrance since meeting you	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	rebranding correlated with your arrival
Dresses more revealing around you	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	display calibrated to capture, not comfort
Preening: hair fixes, posture resets near you	Value	Common	Mild	maintenance behaviors spike near their intended audience
Fixes herself much more frequently in your presence	Value	Common	Mild	the grooming loop is keyed to your gaze
Fishes for your compliments specifically	Value, Attention	Common	Mild	valuation query aimed at one evaluator
Sends you "how do I look?" photos	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	appraisal request; you've been made a judge of her value
Self-deprecates to harvest your reassurance	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Mild	reassurance extraction; your counter-evidence is the prize
Adopts your hobby, game, or gym habit	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	compatibility manufacturing; expensive and slow
Starts learning your language, music, team	Value	Uncommon	Strong	identity spend toward your world
Opinions drift toward yours over weeks	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	alignment drift; check against her stated priors
Suppresses her negative qualities around you	Value	Common	Mild	curated front; effortful self-editing
Artificial perfect front, only near you	Value	Uncommon	Mild	same at higher cost; watch for the cracks (fumbles)
Brings you food, unprompted	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	provisioning; resources spent on your welfare
Bakes for the group, but yours is customized	Value	Uncommon	Strong	broadcast cover, targeted payload
Shares her food with you, offers bites	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	provisioning plus an intimacy ritual in one gesture
Buys you things	Value	Uncommon	Strong	material investment; interest that spends money is interest
Gift with strange timing (it's the 14th and there's a burger)	Value	Rare	Strong	deniable valentine; the timing is the payload
Unrequested favors	Value	Common	Moderate	effort provisioning; welfare optimization unprompted
Excessively helpful, beyond role or need	Value	Common	Moderate	compare to her help baseline with others
Mothering: feeds you, checks you ate, worries at you	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	caretaking display; provisioning with attachment flavor
Overly attentive to your discomforts	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	your welfare monitored at abnormal resolution
Far more tolerant of your bad behavior than her norm	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	cost absorption; your misconduct is being discounted
Compliments your appearance, face, body	Value	Common	Moderate	direct value statement; weigh by her compliment baseline
Compliments you constantly, no trigger	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	tribute stream; the frequency is the anomaly
Teases you, and only you	Value, Attention	Common	Moderate	compliment with deniability insurance; intimacy rehearsal
Notices and names your improvements (gym, haircut)	Value, Attention	Common	Moderate	appraisal announced; display reinforcement
Asks your opinion on her outfit	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	your taste installed as her standard
Upgrades her fitness or habits, citing you	Value	Rare	Strong	behavior change with a named cause
Laughs you up to others ("he's so funny")	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	advocacy; status gifted in your absence

Spoiler: Public association (value transfer)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
"Oh, I know him", claimed proudly	Value	Common	Mild	association display; you are being worn
"I was with him the other day", emphasis on the I	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	possessive framing broadcast to the audience
Shows you off, pulls you into her circles	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	public integration; association formalized
Defends you when others knock you	Value	Uncommon	Strong	reputation spent on your behalf; costly and exclusive
Talks about you to friends who already know of you	Value, Attention	Common	Moderate	you occupy airtime in rooms you've never entered
Her friends giggle and glance when you appear	Value	Common	Moderate	third-party leak of her private signal
Her friends "casually" quiz you about your status	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	outsourced information acquisition; deniable by proxy
Posts content timed or themed around interactions with you	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Mild	broadcast keyed to your shared context
Asks you to be in her photos and stories	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	recorded association; a public-ish claim

Spoiler: Value incentive, defensive face: guarding the stake (all Value-class; grouped by theme, not a separate class)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Temperature drops when another girl engages you	Value	Uncommon	Strong	acquisition threatened; involuntary negative affect
Clipped answers while a rival is present	Value	Uncommon	Strong	resource withdrawal under threat; watch the timing
Re-insertion after the rival leaves ("explain that to me")	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	channel reclamation; the stake being re-staked
Sulks at your mentions of other girls	Value	Uncommon	Strong	valence drop keyed to competition, not content
"Who was that?" with flat affect	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	rival identification query; the flatness is suppression
Asks friends who the girl with you was	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	threat surveillance via proxy
Positions herself between you and a rival	Value, Propinquity	Rare	Strong	physical interdiction; rarely conscious
Goes quiet when you praise another woman	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	reward prediction error, visible
Contact spike right after seeing you with someone	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	counter-bid; the threat repriced her urgency
Negative commentary on girls who like you	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	competitor devaluation; classic guarding
Monitors your interactions with specific women	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	threat-specific surveillance
Blocks or cold-shoulders a rival	Value	Rare	Strong	overt interdiction; expensive, hard to explain innocently
Claims you publicly when rivals are near	Value	Rare	Strong	preemptive territorial marking
Checks who likes and comments on your posts	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	digital perimeter patrol
Unfollows or mutes women you engage with	Value	Rare	Moderate	quiet interdiction; visible only if you look
Asks if you two are dating, about another girl	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	threat assessment made audible
Displeasure when you cancel on her	Value	Common	Moderate	loss registered; indifference cancels painlessly
Disappointment when you don't show	Value	Common	Moderate	she had projected you there; the drop is the tell
"You probably have girls lining up"	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	competitive-field probe wearing a compliment
Steers you back to her in group settings	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	attention repossession; watch the steering
Cools when you praise another man's girlfriend	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	comparative threat registered
Pointed questions about a girl who commented on you	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	perimeter breach investigated
Suddenly unavailable after you mention a date	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	withdrawal as punishment and self-protection
Thirst-trap posting spike after seeing you with someone	Value	Rare	Strong	counter-display; a recapture bid

Spoiler: Involuntary leaks: affect, load, and physiology (grouped by theme; each row classed by the incentive it leaks from, not a separate class)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Smiles more in your presence than her baseline	Value	Very common	Mild	positive affect keyed to a person is a valuation readout
Visible, genuine enjoyment around you	Value	Common	Mild	the thermometer, not a deposit
Excitement spike in body language when you arrive	Value	Common	Moderate	arrival repricing; the number jumped
Flat or deflated in your absence (reported by others)	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	portfolio down; absence priced as loss
Cognitive load leakage: fumbles, drops things, loses her sentence, self-narrates the recovery ("I swear I can walk"), only around you	Value	Common	Strong	self-monitoring eating her working memory; the exhaust of a computation she can't turn off; almost impossible to fake
Blushing at your attention	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	autonomic; nearly unfakeable
Chest or neck flush when talking to you	Value	Rare	Moderate	same channel, stronger reading
Can't hold your eye contact, keeps re-seeking it	Attention	Common	Moderate	approach-avoidance oscillation; both halves are spend
Giggly beyond the material	Value	Common	Mild	arousal bleeding into affect; check baselines
Rambles with you, articulate with everyone else	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	working memory taxed by self-monitoring
Weirdly formal or stiff, only with you	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	overcompensated composure; the effort is the tell
Mirrors your posture and gestures	Value	Common	Mild	affiliative synchrony; weak alone, fine as garnish
Plays with her hair while engaging you	Value	Very common	Impotent	the classic, and weak; huge false-positive rate
Self-soothing (necklace, sleeve, rings) around you	Value	Common	Mild	arousal management; ambiguous without a pattern
Voice warms when you join the room or call	Value	Uncommon	Moderate	affective channel keyed to your entry
Admits she can't act normal around you	Value	Uncommon	Strong	the suppression war made explicit
Voice cracks or speeds up talking to you	Value	Uncommon	Mild	arousal in the speech channel
Forgets what she was saying when you look at her	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	attention capture overrode the script
Adjusts clothing when you approach	Value	Common	Mild	pre-display grooming reflex
Freezes when you join, reanimates when you address her	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	processing spike; the system paused to compute

Spoiler: Sexual-romantic escalation (mixed incentives, high stakes)

Indicator	Class	Frequency	Strength	What it implements
Casual touch that escalates over weeks	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	contact ratchet; each rung tests the next
Lingering hugs, last to let go	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	the duration is the message
Sits on your lap "as a joke"	Propinquity	Rare	Strong	maximal contact with a comedy permit
Dances on you at a party	Propinquity	Rare	Moderate	context discount applies; read her baseline and the venue
Bites lip, holds gaze in charged silence	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	arousal display; cheap to fake, weigh with the pattern
Sexual jokes aimed at you, watching your response	Attention, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	trial balloon in the sexual register
"Send this to your crush" content, sent to you	Propinquity, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	the meme is the message; deniability at its thinnest
Couple-goals content shared with you	Attention, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	future-frame priming; she's casting the roles
"Imagine how romantic it would be if..." said near you	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	future co-simulation, spoken aloud
"I'd like to get married here", said to you	Attention	Uncommon	Moderate	same; note who the audience is
"My type is..." (describes you)	Value, Attention	Uncommon	Undeniable	rubric recital with you as the spec sheet
"It's almost Valentine's day!!! " aimed at you	Propinquity, Attention	Uncommon	Strong	romance window flagged, action solicited
Hint chains toward a romantic gesture from you	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	scripted opening; your move pre-written
Sends photos she wouldn't send other men	Value, Propinquity	Rare	Undeniable	exclusivity of access is the signal; mind her baseline
Finds reasons to show you her skin (new tattoo, bruise)	Value, Propinquity	Uncommon	Moderate	sanctioned exhibition plus a contact invitation
Asks if you find a celebrity (resembling her) attractive	Attention, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	proxy self-pricing query
Playlist or song sharing with lyrical payloads	Attention, Value	Uncommon	Moderate	outsourced message; deniable channel
Drunk confessions (love, marriage, "you're mine")	Value	Rare	Undeniable	disinhibition dumps the suppressed valuation
"You should be my boyfriend", jokingly	Attention, Propinquity	Uncommon	Undeniable	trial balloon at maximal stakes, comedy permit attached
Acts like you're already dating	Propinquity, Value	Rare	Undeniable	role rehearsal; the future being lived in advance
Arranges actual dates, framed or unframed	Propinquity	Uncommon	Undeniable	overt pursuit; the machine has decided
Asks you out	Propinquity	Rare	Undeniable	full overt conversion; rare precisely because it's expensive
Direct confession	Propinquity	Rare	Undeniable	maximal cost signal; the null is dead
A friend tells you she likes you	Value	Uncommon	Undeniable	third-party leak of the private state (verify it's not a game)
Wants you to meet her parents	Propinquity, Value	Rare	Undeniable	integration into her highest-cost circle
Invites you over with ambiguous-romantic staging	Propinquity	Uncommon	Strong	context assimilation decides; read the room she built

 

[fajitapocketpxsyy]

this is so useless if you're not retarded

 

[AryanSchizo]

Will read

 

[enchanted_elixir]

this is so useless if you're not retarded

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