darkness97
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here is an example of where confidence is literally one of the most important things in life. especially as a man.
Me and this guy who used to be my friend met these two girls. one of them liked me and i liked her back. I had a feeling that she did, and she told my friend. my friend kept it from me and told her that i didn't like her back. If i was more confident i would have just acted on it.
He even convinced me that he did the right thing because he was only protecting her privacy. When you have low confidence in yourself, you also have low confidence in your opinions and are easily swayed. you lose arguments because you are constantly conceding to things and letting people win. in addition, thinking about the well-being of other people rather than yourself.
Confidence is a belief in yourself. if you don't believe in yourself you will be used as a stepping stone and be grateful for it. i was also wrong because i was constantly asking people what they thought about the situation because i was incapable of thinking for myself, even though i knew the answer the entire time.
You have to literally fight for the things you want in life because people will constantly try to screw with you. when something is worth having people will try to take it from you. i thank this guy for teaching me this very important lesson because he isn't my friend and people wont respect you if you are constantly bending to their will.
As a confident man you will get into fights and lose many friends. But the friend you do have will be genuine.
Me and this guy who used to be my friend met these two girls. one of them liked me and i liked her back. I had a feeling that she did, and she told my friend. my friend kept it from me and told her that i didn't like her back. If i was more confident i would have just acted on it.
He even convinced me that he did the right thing because he was only protecting her privacy. When you have low confidence in yourself, you also have low confidence in your opinions and are easily swayed. you lose arguments because you are constantly conceding to things and letting people win. in addition, thinking about the well-being of other people rather than yourself.
Confidence is a belief in yourself. if you don't believe in yourself you will be used as a stepping stone and be grateful for it. i was also wrong because i was constantly asking people what they thought about the situation because i was incapable of thinking for myself, even though i knew the answer the entire time.
You have to literally fight for the things you want in life because people will constantly try to screw with you. when something is worth having people will try to take it from you. i thank this guy for teaching me this very important lesson because he isn't my friend and people wont respect you if you are constantly bending to their will.
As a confident man you will get into fights and lose many friends. But the friend you do have will be genuine.
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