The issue with cold approaching is the massive levels of negative reinforcement you expose yourself to damage your psyche

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Normies never cold approach girls- they wait (often years) for an opportunity to get a gf via social circle. When this oppurtunity happens they are sufficiently psyche maxxed to take advantage of this because sticking to their own circle shielded them from the brutality of the world in many way. Everthing a normie does in the intermittent time between social circle gfs is essentially preparing themselves for the following social circle oppurtunity- to give them the chance to strike when the iron is hot

A psler mass approaching might get some pussy- but wen a social circle arises they’ll be mentally damaged due to huge levels of negative reinforcement and blackpilling experiences so much so that they’ll often fail to capitalise on the oppurtunity
 
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normies are weak
 
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I spend my entire childhood on retard school being ass blasted by aba therapy, my mental resistance against negative reinforcement borders on superhuman.
 
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Weak and feminised mentality
 
I feel that you shouldn't approach someone that hasn't given you iois

Even I get the occasional ioi, so i am guessing the chadlites, htns and chads must get loads.
 
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Weak and feminised mentality
I guess but it is the soyciety we live in

I feel that you shouldn't approach someone that hasn't given you iois

Even I get the occasional ioi, so i am guessing the chadlites, htns and chads must get loads.
What about someone like me- slayer online but minimal irl IOIs?
 
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What about someone like me- slayer online but minimal irl IOIs?
If you can slay online why would you even go out?

I would be literally deliverooing pussy to my door every weekend. No need to go out and waste time buying drinks and shit
 
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If you can slay online why would you even go out?

I would be literally deliverooing pussy to my door every weekend. No need to go out and waste time buying drinks and shit
its more fun irl and I want to improve the quality i get

181cm @....
 
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its more fun irl and I want to improve the quality i get

181cm @....
So 181cm in internet height converted to IRL height is like 175cm - 178cm. I think if u shoelifted yourself 2-3 inches, you'd definitely receive better reception outisde
 
So 181cm in internet height converted to IRL height is like 175cm - 178cm. I think if u shoelifted yourself 2-3 inches, you'd definitely receive better reception outisde
except thats my actual height barefoot and i permafraud with elevators when im out and I larp 186 on dating apps.

I just dont see the point larping stats on this forum becasue thats mentally ill

Remember several members of this forum met me irl so would know if I lied about height
 
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except thats my actual height barefoot and i permafraud with elevators when im out and I larp 186 on dating apps.

I just dont see the point larping stats on this forum becasue thats mentally ill

Remember several members of this forum met me irl so would know if I lied about height
Not sure how it's possible to slay online, but do shit IRL. It's usually the other way round.

Perhaps you are really socially awkward due to all the time spent on the internet?
 
Not sure how it's possible to slay online, but do shit IRL. It's usually the other way round.

Perhaps you are really socially awkward due to all the time spent on the internet?
i have no friends thats probably why

Also lean natty physiques dont give you the same boost in clothes and these do in topless pics
 
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i have no friends thats probably why

Also lean natty physiques dont give you the same boost in clothes and these do in topless pics
Show me your topless fizeek. no homo
 

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Yea exactly
I'm afraid of getting any sort of negative reinforcement which is why i dont approach even with iois
 
except thats my actual height barefoot and i permafraud with elevators when im out and I larp 186 on dating apps.

I just dont see the point larping stats on this forum becasue thats mentally ill

Remember several members of this forum met me irl so would know if I lied about height
How do you fraud 2 inches :feelsmega:

Mirin body but the neck needs to be wider
 
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They look like shit tho isn’t it stylemin ?
Mine look great imo and Chad ethnic and Forevergymcelling even said they look good irl
 
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LmaoMine look great imo and Chad ethnic and Forevergymcelling even said they look good irl
Can you pm me the shoes with 2 inches I’d be giga mogger ngl 6’4

Lmao Lol GIF
 
just get rejected 10 times a day, it's a numbers game bro
 
Do you wear them daily or only when you go nightout ?
night out or date- bascially every time I interact with women, otherwise I wear airmax whihc give you a small boost too
 
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night out or date- bascially every time I interact with women, otherwise I wear airmax whihc give you a small boost too
Have any foid called you out after you take them off ?
 
I feel that you shouldn't approach someone that hasn't given you iois

Even I get the occasional ioi, so i am guessing the chadlites, htns and chads must get loads.
IOIs don't mean shit. She could be attracted to you but feel weird or blocked by you approaching her out of the blue.
 
Have any foid called you out after you take them off ?
never- not even girls who were the same height as me barefoot
 
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never- not even girls who were the same height as me barefoot
This only works because at natty 181cm, you are taller than most girls.

Won't work so well for manlets kek
 
Just do indirect approaches, they are more forgiving to your psyche, like don't approach a girl and ask her out directly, or make it obvious that you have sexual intentions with her...
Approach but ask instead for something unrelated, like directions, what's the time, where you can buy a similar item of clothing or gadget she has for your mom or sis, etc...
If they stare at you awkwardly or give one-word, uninterested responses, it's pretty obvious they aren't interested in you, so you can bail out while still keeping your dignity, without having the psychological burden of being rudely rejected.
If they smile at you and are polite, then you can extend the conversation, start flirting, see how they react, then ask for their phone number, social media or a date.
 
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Just do indirect approaches, they are more forgiving to your psyche, like don't approach a girl and ask her out directly, or make it obvious that you have sexual intentions with her...
Approach but ask instead for something unrelated, like directions, what's the time, where you can buy a similar item of clothing or gadget she has for your mom or sis, etc...
If they stare at you awkwardly or give one-word, uninterested responses, it's pretty obvious they aren't interested in you, so you can bail out while still keeping your dignity, without having the psychological burden of being rudely rejected.
If they smile at you and are polite, then you can extend the conversation, start flirting, see how they react, then ask for their phone number, social media or a date.
Thanks for the advice I plan on doing this
 
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