The issue with "emotionally mature" advice

[Bitchwhipper2]

Is that most people receiving at arent mature enough to reasonably apply it.

They do what theyre advised. But because its not truly who they are the rest of their thinking and decisions are incongruent with the advice that theyre taking, so shit just backfires.

Its like pushing and pulling at the same time

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

"stop caring about what others think" sounds straight forward. But most of us largely rely on others perception for self esteem. So its basicly like telling a blind person to just open their eyes