Blackpill The many struggles of sub5 waiting for surgery

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So it's been confirmed now with my surgeon that I am getting djs in 2 months. Anyway, I got my braces on 13 months ago, and been wageslaving like a mf just to pay for the surgery.

The worst part is you can't cope, you know for real how bad your jaw is, not because some incel told you online, but your ortho and surgeon told you your cooked. I still haven't told my work about it, and I'll have a good feeling they will judge me for it. But who cares about the opinions of sub5's and normies.

Another aspect as a sub5 is I completely stopped trying dating, as I realized I was never going to get true genuine desire looking the way I am. Yet at same time guys at work "bro, you talking to any girls?", "why don't you have a gf?", "bro your getting old (30), what's your plans bro?, "why you always working?" etc. I kept my mouth shut, and saw the vision. Hopefully surgery is a success and things get better from here.

Anyone else in my boat or similar? I know for sure there are a lot of teens and such on this forum and everyone here is quite young however.
 
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if you are sub5 surgery will not do that much. maybe go from a 3 to a 4 or smth
 
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not even out of highschool so i cant surgerymaxx.

the plan is for me to get muhhh cucked college degree and wageslave a few years to afford all my surgeries and then go NEET

good luck with ur surgeries. having to go through all this just to experience half of what normies get just for existing is brutal.
 
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"Another aspect as a sub5 is I completely stopped trying dating, as I realized I was never going to get true genuine desire looking the way I am."

This is one of the most brutal things, when you're just too self conscious, and you feel you don't even deserve to date a woman.

Good luck with your surgery.
 
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Surgery is mostly cope, and if its anything like bimax and shit you will be gone from dating a long time just woth orthodontics and post op swelling. Males it almsot not worth it
 
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Surgery is mostly cope, and if its anything like bimax and shit you will be gone from dating a long time just woth orthodontics and post op swelling. Males it almsot not worth it
True but I feel like if you are really blackpilled, you will probably put up with it.
 
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True but I feel like if you are really blackpilled, you will probably put up with it.
Yea, i mean if you truly blackpilled you will realize its over. Because if you aint got sfs and severe deformity bimax is cope
 
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Yea, i mean if you truly blackpilled you will realize its over. Because if you aint got sfs and severe deformity bimax is cope
What do you recommend in place of bimax?
 
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Hm.. elaborate? Do you think someone should get bimax if their maxilla is somewhat decent?
I mean i wouldnt so it if i have decent maxilla, i would do it if it was bad or i have health issues. But yea it can make it better
 
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good luck with your surgeries! I hope you ascend soon
 
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I got BiMax last June OP. It was a brutal recovery but I like the result. Surgerymaxxing is worth it
 
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So it's been confirmed now with my surgeon that I am getting djs in 2 months. Anyway, I got my braces on 13 months ago, and been wageslaving like a mf just to pay for the surgery.

The worst part is you can't cope, you know for real how bad your jaw is, not because some incel told you online, but your ortho and surgeon told you your cooked. I still haven't told my work about it, and I'll have a good feeling they will judge me for it. But who cares about the opinions of sub5's and normies.

Another aspect as a sub5 is I completely stopped trying dating, as I realized I was never going to get true genuine desire looking the way I am. Yet at same time guys at work "bro, you talking to any girls?", "why don't you have a gf?", "bro your getting old (30), what's your plans bro?, "why you always working?" etc. I kept my mouth shut, and saw the vision. Hopefully surgery is a success and things get better from here.

Anyone else in my boat or similar? I know for sure there are a lot of teens and such on this forum and everyone here is quite young however.
I am young, so not the best person to give advice.

But what I do know is the following: don’t care about the opinions of others so much. Like genuinely. If you don’t get the surgery, they judge you for being a “mouthbreather” if you do get it they judge you for “plastic surgery”. They will have opinions whatever you do.

Also, post surgery. Just act normal, like you always looked like this. Because if you still subconsciously believe you are “sub-5”, looks won’t matter.

A “sub-5” mentality can descend anyone.
 

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