The moment I realized that my friends weren't actually my friends

[Deleted member 23359]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

 

[Akhi]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time

this is my nightmare and you lived it brutal

 

[Deleted member 23359]

this is my nightmare and you lived it brutal

Shit crazy man thats why i don't trust people now

 

[traveler]

only people u can trust is yourself

 

[Deleted member 29167]

this is probably me

 

[Napoleon1800]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

My friends are all losers but they're nt at least unlike me, I mainly just use them to not seem like a super loner

 

[Akhi]

this is probably me

it is 100%

 

[Deleted member 23359]

this is probably me

Be careful who you friends cause those Gossip group chats be brutal asf

 

[Deleted member 29167]

it is 100%

Why?

 

[Deleted member 29167]

Be careful who you friends cause those Gossip group chats be brutal asf

im not friends with faggots lol

 

[Deleted member 14693]

haha I remember in my old friend group we did the same shit with this one nigga

 

[Deleted member 23359]

haha I remember in my old friend group we did the same shit with this one nigga

You are an evil little fag

 

[Deleted member 14693]

You are an evil little fag

I was just an NPC bystander I wasn't the initiater. I never created a group in my entire life.

 

[Tusseleif]

Same shit happened to me. I thought they were my friends, but when I were with them and after some time this one guy would tell me that it was best if I just went home. They also went out without me and posted snaps without me until they cut me off completely. When we were 3 out I was always the outsider friend and would sometimes bully me

 

[Latens Deitas]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

Ngl I would have felt like a piece of dog shit if something like that happened to me, why do you think they did this too you?

 

[PLA1092]

Wish I had friends to do that to me

 

[standardcel]

They didn't like you. Most likely talked shit behind you back too.

 

[Deleted member 23359]

Ngl I would have felt like a piece of dog shit if something like that happened to me, why do you think they did this too you?

To this day i don't really know
I think its one of those case where they didn't really fw me but were too pussy to cut me off

I would have respected if they cut me off directly instead of acting like females

 

[AspiringMogger]

Absolutely brootal. I think there are a lot of niggas like you. I had friends when I was 13-16 who I would talk to in school and whatnot, but as soon as I went home the rest of us would hangout and they’d be an afterthought. I always used to wonder who they’d hang with. “Maybe they had friends from other schools” I’d think, but looking back they probably just rotted. I always used to ask them when we were making plans and they were around “you coming too”, but this one kid in particular would always decline.

Looking back now I think that he knew he wasn’t really part of the friend group and was just kicking it with us in school instead of being a complete loner. Tbf he should probably have made more of an effort to be apart of the friend group.

All in all this is the type of content I like on this forum. Mogs all the BBC Troon posts.

 

[Deleted member 27152]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

This happened to me too.

They inivted me to the GC briefly, I saw how much shit they talked about me, and then I was kicked out.

 

[Neph]

I stopped talking to almost all of my close friends before college. I think these are a couple reasons why:

They kept coping with video games, nerd shit, never try expanding social circle, always stay indoors stuck in basement. when someone from the group tries to move away, it is a defense/cope mechanism to try and bring them back down. A few years later and they are just incels in denial, or are just trapped in a bluepill prison.

Not acting bluepill once I discovered blackpill ideas. This is my mistake honestly. Don't EVER stop acting bluepill, do not even think to mention anything related to pills or act drastically differently. If these kind of topics come up, inceldom, why can't I meet women etc, just gaslight them immediately with bluepill ideas.

Looking back on it, I would say 80%+ of my high school friends and before are just incels in denial (you can imagine who I made friends with jfl). Of course they cannot stick around.

Whenever I see old friends in my hometown, they are never happy to see me. They know I have changed. The trick with all the social games, gossip, exclusion etc is to just find another group fast and get rid of them quickly. The faster you move on from them, the less mental damage you take, and you seem completely unaffected by them.

Maybe I am a schizo but these are just my experiences

 

[Registered Nursecel]

Absolutely brootal. I think there are a lot of niggas like you. I had friends when I was 13-16 who I would talk to in school and whatnot, but as soon as I went home the rest of us would hangout and they’d be an afterthought. I always used to wonder who they’d hang with. “Maybe they had friends from other schools” I’d think, but looking back they probably just rotted. I always used to ask them when we were making plans and they were around “you coming too”, but this one kid in particular would always decline.

Looking back now I think that he knew he wasn’t really part of the friend group and was just kicking it with us in school instead of being a complete loner. Tbf he should probably have made more of an effort to be apart of the friend group.

All in all this is the type of content I like on this forum. Mogs all the BBC Troon posts.

Brutal. Bad childhood experiences fuck most people up for life, it's like your brain develops a set point of self-esteem when you're a teenager and no amount of success or popularity in adulthood will ever change the perception you have of yourself. Every single time the word school is mentioned or people talk about their school days he'll remember how he was never accepted or wanted by anybody and he never got to experience what so many other people look back on as fond memories. Every year he's going to meet more and more people who lifemogged his school experience and it's going to compound the effect and rub it in further and remind him that when he had his chance at a happy childhood he was an outcast. He'll probably think about his shit school experiences when he's 90 years old, wondering whether he's outlived some of the people who didn't invite him to parties when he was 15.

Chris Williamson is a guy who comes to mind on this topic. Successful normie with a podcast and millions of followers, was a contestant on Love Island, a true late bloomer success story. Every single time he talks about school he brings up the fact that he got bullied and had no friends and he's 34 now, meaning this was 15+ years ago. He's literally never going to get over it.

 

[JustShower]

Brutal. Bad childhood experiences fuck most people up for life, it's like your brain develops a set point of self-esteem when you're a teenager and no amount of success or popularity in adulthood will ever change the perception you have of yourself. Every single time the word school is mentioned or people talk about their school days he'll remember how he was never accepted or wanted by anybody and he never got to experience what so many other people look back on as fond memories. Every year he's going to meet more and more people who lifemogged his school experience and it's going to compound the effect and rub it in further and remind him that when he had his chance at a happy childhood he was an outcast. He'll probably think about his shit school experiences when he's 90 years old, wondering whether he's outlived some of the people who didn't invite him to parties when he was 15.

Chris Williamson is a guy who comes to mind on this topic. Successful normie with a podcast and millions of followers, was a contestant on Love Island, a true late bloomer success story. Every single time he talks about school he brings up the fact that he got bullied and had no friends and he's 34 now, meaning this was 15+ years ago. He's literally never going to get over it.
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Brutal, I've graduated from hs and now in college and still feel like a socially outcasted autist loser no matter what.

 

[AspiringMogger]

Brutal. Bad childhood experiences fuck most people up for life, it's like your brain develops a set point of self-esteem when you're a teenager and no amount of success or popularity in adulthood will ever change the perception you have of yourself. Every single time the word school is mentioned or people talk about their school days he'll remember how he was never accepted or wanted by anybody and he never got to experience what so many other people look back on as fond memories. Every year he's going to meet more and more people who lifemogged his school experience and it's going to compound the effect and rub it in further and remind him that when he had his chance at a happy childhood he was an outcast. He'll probably think about his shit school experiences when he's 90 years old, wondering whether he's outlived some of the people who didn't invite him to parties when he was 15.

Chris Williamson is a guy who comes to mind on this topic. Successful normie with a podcast and millions of followers, was a contestant on Love Island, a true late bloomer success story. Every single time he talks about school he brings up the fact that he got bullied and had no friends and he's 34 now, meaning this was 15+ years ago. He's literally never going to get over it.
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Ngl reading this shook me to the core. I relate to it so much. Even though I had friends back then I was the butt of the joke because I was obese, and as a result of that bottom 5% in looks for my age group. I was legit 30BMI+ all the way up until 18. Even though I had friends, and even though I miraculously had lost my virginity to a LTB it all still felt so empty. My self esteem and self-perception was utter shit and I’m trying to change that now, but all the slays I’m getting legit just feel futile and empty.

I deffo think you’re right about the teenage years setting a cap on your self-esteem levels for the rest of your life.

 

[12PSLsubhuman]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

Brutal. Back in the day, we did the same for this one guy coz everyone thought he was a snitch and even then I kinda felt bad for him. It's one of my biggest nightmares

 

[Latinus]

I can relate, I never had real friends in school, some of these "friends" only treated me well when we were alone, but when in group they tried to exclude me from it, acting like I was a stranger, when I, ironically, knew some of them longer than these ones that were excluding me.

 

[Deleted member 23359]

Ngl reading this shook me to the core. I relate to it so much. Even though I had friends back then I was the butt of the joke because I was obese, and as a result of that bottom 5% in looks for my age group. I was legit 30BMI+ all the way up until 18. Even though I had friends, and even though I miraculously had lost my virginity to a LTB it all still felt so empty. My self esteem and self-perception was utter shit and I’m trying to change that now, but all the slays I’m getting legit just feel futile and empty.

I deffo think you’re right about the teenage years setting a cap on your self-esteem levels for the rest of your life.

Childhood is the most important phase of a man life

No matter how many girls i fuck i will always feel i am not good for people, therapy might help unironically

 

[Deleted member 19442]

They said it to my face but I did nothing because I had nobody else. In retrospect I could’ve chilled with my old group, they were nicer but they clearly pitied me. They would always leave me out of the gossip, crushes, and beef. Only one guy was actually chill to me tbh may Allah subhana wa ta’ala bless him btw.

The second group was so harsh and brutal to me it was insane but at the same time they did encourage me to do some things and I did get something out of it. But I think buildup of humiliation/jestering and people calling me an idiot/creepy incel + exclusion defo destroyed me long term.

Boxing gave me a legit opportunity to make genuine normal connections but I got pushed out of it didn’t say anything or speak up (because I hate myself) then stopped going and reverted to being an abused dog pushover. BRUTAL.

Worst thing I did was do nothing. Even crying and begging would’ve helped me 100 times. Just bottling everything up and crying in my room destroyed me because I never addressed my issues. Even this persona is an extension of that self destructive cope. 17 year old decides to make an incel account and insult himself every day on it BRUTAL

My life is too mentally brutal. Sure I’m not suffering from chronic pain or disability or an orphan in a warzone but mentally it’s too much cuckoldedness

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Childhood is the most important phase of a man life

No matter how many girls i fuck i will always feel i am not good for people, therapy might help unironically

School doesn’t mean anything the real test is whether you move on or become an abused dog.

You could’ve easily went into unhealthy coping mechanisms and ended up like me or @RadicalIslamist

 

[slayer69]

Don’t invest time in “friends”.

Only invest in people who will be ready to feed u when u r hungry. Keep ur circle extremely small and tight.

 

[Sprinkles]

This is the reason I don’t get attatched to people or emotionally invested in them.

Like what’s the point when they could discard you in a heartbeat?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

Sounds like Eliot Rodgers' experience playing World of Warcraft.

Stop caring about them.

 

[FaceandBBC]

This was back in highschool

I was hanging out everyday with a group of dudes that i thought they were my real friends until reality shattered in front my face when

I found out that they had a group chat that i wasn't in and they were going places to eat or whatever and when they post something they make it close friends only so i cannot see it

That was so brutal at that time and i was wondering what the fuck did i do to them

It happens and you just have move on. I cut off every person I knew from high school and took the LoneWolfPill.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Why didn’t I just complain about my problems to people and online? Was I just afraid of humiliation/derision? Damn mane life sux

 

[Sens]

Keep your hand on your gun.
Don't you trust anyone.
There's just one kind of man that you can trust,
that's a dead man, or A Gringo Like Me.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Everybody went through similar shit as me only I tortured myself and kept jestermaxxing while others moved on

 

[fuxkdakikez]

this is happening to me currently

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You probably mog them they don’t want you cock blocking them with girls

 

[AspiringMogger]

Childhood is the most important phase of a man life

No matter how many girls i fuck i will always feel i am not good for people, therapy might help unironically

sure but Therapy is expensive as fuck

 

[Deleted member 30188]

damn dude