The more you socialize the less you feel ugly or anxious

[number of all]

Ive noticed it a few times before.

Any time I ever was with a group of people, friends and didnt really talk i just couldnt do anything but overanalyze everything

Every minor stutter, error in pronunciantion or a microscopic error that they 99 times out of 100 would never notice

It also happens that i just over obsessively think about how i look

But when I interact with people i get a sudden confidence boost,

Even if with guys

Females or with people considered unattractive, feeling more comfortable with the way i look, almost like i have no time or space in the brain to currently think about my looks, does this also happen to you?

 

[gorgeous]

i sort of understand what you mean, i also tend to overanalyze things but i can't do that if im talking to someone, at least not as much. I instantly feel more confident when talking to girls around my friends compared to alone or something

 

[number of all]

i sort of understand what you mean, i also tend to overanalyze things but i can't do that if im talking to someone, at least not as much. I instantly feel more confident when talking to girls around my friends compared to alone or something

yeah its so strange how my mind can hate itself when it has no foreign distractions

 

[gorgeous]

yeah its so strange how my mind can hate itself when it has no foreign distractions

my brain is very fucked up tbh like with mood changes like yesterday in class i was thinking about roping and 2hrs later im laughing my ass of with my boys on the bus

 

[Askeladd93270]

When I'm alone I'm scared to even talk , if I'm with my real friendgroup I can pull my dick out in front of a stranger with 0 stress I dont care about anything it's an insane boost you can go to a party without even drinking if you're with your childhood bestfriends

 

[number of all]

my brain is very fucked up tbh like with mood changes like yesterday in class i was thinking about roping and 2hrs later im laughing my ass of with my boys on the bus

isnt that like normal especially in puberty (but like, except for the rope part)

 

[gorgeous]

isnt that like normal especially in puberty (but like, except for the rope part)

yeah i would say its fairly normal but my mind goes a little extreme at times idk

 

[alurmo]

Ive noticed it a few times before.

Any time I ever was with a group of people, friends and didnt really talk i just couldnt do anything but overanalyze everything

Every minor stutter, error in pronunciantion or a microscopic error that they 99 times out of 100 would never notice

It also happens that i just over obsessively think about how i look

But when I interact with people i get a sudden confidence boost,

Even if with guys

Females or with people considered unattractive, feeling more comfortable with the way i look, almost like i have no time or space in the brain to currently think about my looks, does this also happen to you?

the more u become aware of the errors of man even like urself
the more u stop caring about minor details like small facial features, living is imperfection

i used to be like this, but honestly this is just unhealthy if u want to fully live out ur life

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Jus socialize bro !

 

[number of all]

the more u become aware of the errors of man even like urself
the more u stop caring about minor details like small facial features, living is imperfection

i used to be like this, but honestly this is just unhealthy if u want to fully live out ur life

I wish anyone who felt insecure with their looks knew about this

 

[ifconfig]

Sometimes when I go to a supermarket after spending too much time here, I'm reminded how I'm mainly suffering because of my autism and social anxiety because all these guys are shorter and uglier than me and are walking around with girlfriends/wives/children/friends.

 

[number of all]

Sometimes when I go to a supermarket after spending too much time here, I'm reminded how I'm mainly suffering because of my autism and social anxiety because all these guys are shorter and uglier than me and are walking around with girlfriends/wives/children/friends.

at the end of the day i dont even think socialyzing might be too hard yk, its just that sometimes i can't open my mouth its completely shut!

 

[ifconfig]

at the end of the day i dont even think socialyzing might be too hard yk, its just that sometimes i can't open my mouth its completely shut!

It sounds easy but most of us have brains that are wired differently. I'm so scared of stuttering or my voice breaking because of nervousness. I work mostly with foreigners who have bad english and for some reason don't feel nervous in front of them but then I get nervous even ordering food on the phone.

 

[The Grinch]

When I'm alone I'm scared to even talk , if I'm with my real friendgroup I can pull my dick out in front of a stranger with 0 stress I dont care about anything it's an insane boost you can go to a party without even drinking if you're with your childhood bestfriends

Because you think they got your back. You will soon realize your friends don’t give a shit about you unless you have some deal going on and making money together

 

[number of all]

Because you think they got your back. You will soon realize your friends don’t give a shit about you unless you have some deal going on and making money together

oy mate very good pfp innit remind me of that sweet tea qith the queen

 

[Askeladd93270]

Because you think they got your back. You will soon realize your friends don’t give a shit about you unless you have some deal going on and making money together

Nah you can find a friend who can die for you but it's rare asf I had one but I switched countries

 

[CkldPsycho]

Doesnt work for sub5

 

[The Grinch]

Nah you can find a friend who can die for you but it's rare asf I had one but I switched countries

How do you know he would die for you? Because he said so? You can’t know that unless shit actually get serious. I also had friends telling me they would die for me and all that, but when I got jumped they let me down and tried to save themselves

 

[Askeladd93270]

How do you know he would die for you? Because he said so? You can’t know that unless shit actually get serious. I also had friends telling me they would die for me and all that, but when I got jumped they let me down and tried to save themselves

Damn, well idk for some guys their biological brother wouldn't die for them wich is crazy but I agree with you shit needs to get serious to know if they can die for you or no

 

[The Grinch]

Damn, well idk for some guys their biological brother wouldn't die for them wich is crazy but I agree with you shit needs to get serious to know if they can die for you

Your biological brother would do it if he comes from a certain culture and he wants to defend the family honor, not because he loves you that much.