The more you think about and talk about erectile dysfunction is the realer it gets

[Deleted member 3789]

The more you talk and think about erectile dysfunction the more real it becomes. It's only as real as you make it. It's 100% in your head. It's not a real thing

 

[Deleted member 19567]

Its a real thing.

I think a lot of it though is that people are not really attracted to women as much as they thought they were.

Pornography and the media stimulates the mind way greater than most women in real life. So real life kind of pales in comparison.

It reminds me of when I'm out in the store, and I'm usually neutral even in the presence of women, until i get back and i start thinking about all of the skimpy outfits i saw and such scenarios. Imagination is what turned me on not necessarily the women.

So most of the times if its a real performance issue in person, i think the guy just isn't turned on. The guy also is probably not getting the best out of her either. I doubt it. High value top 1% men seem to get the most; where women try their best activity to arouse the male. Regular guys have to jester. Most average men are not being pleased but are doing the pleasing. No wonder they cant get aroused.

 

[Deleted member 3789]

Its a real thing.

I think a lot of it though is that people are not really attracted to women as much as they thought they were.

Pornography and the media stimulates the mind way greater than most women in real life. So real life kind of pales in comparison.

It reminds me of when I'm out in the store, and I'm usually neutral even in the presence of women, until i get back and i start thinking about all of the skimpy outfits i saw and such scenarios. Imagination is what turned me on not necessarily the women.

So most of the times if its a real performance issue in person, i think the guy just isn't turned on. The guy also is probably not getting the best out of her either. I doubt it. High value top 1% men seem to get the most; where women try their best activity to arouse the male. Regular guys have to jester. Most average men are not being pleased but are doing the pleasing. No wonder they cant get aroused.

If he's not turned on enough, subconsciously he gotta fix that. This porn erectile dysfunction is all subconscious. Once it's out of the subconscious it's gone