the most important life advice is just to think of yourself as the chad, the bull, the unshakeable narcissist

[luuk]

so much thinking and meaningless pondering and I’ve come to the conclusion that the best way to live life is simply to be delusional, with occasional episodes of narcissistic collapse to refine your identity when it stagnates.

thoughts -> actions-> reality
studying all the truth you want will just lead you to LDAR and isolate and become depressed. the truth is only worth knowing if it helps you refactor your identity to a more beneficial form. fuck being rational. be delusional and build a grossly unrealistic life narrative that gives you the courage to shoot any shot, take any opportunity, dominate any interaction

i was like this long ago and then became painfully self aware and have been depressed for like 2 years. but that has given me all the time I need to figure out what I need to me, and now the delusions I once held whilst being subhuman and lazy will now actually help me, because I’m decently GL and have made something of myself.

all you need is to escape hell and then to give yourself an infallible god complex. when that identity collapses it means your reality is too far disconnected from your delusion and you need to spend some time reevaluating things before putting up the mask again. but once you’re decently GL, socially competent and in a fruitful life situation you will be served best by absolute narcissism and self-interest rather than being grounded in reality

 

[Jgns]

im just a sensitive young man gang

 

[luuk]

im just a sensitive young man gang

aren’t we all
the identity is a very malleable thing though. it’s surprisingly easy to shed that identity. when everyone who disappoints or hurts you is at fault and you convince yourself that you’re more than enough, that you are truly great, then nothing can hurt you

 

[D69mo]

so much thinking and meaningless pondering and I’ve come to the conclusion that the best way to live life is simply to be delusional, with occasional episodes of narcissistic collapse to refine your identity when it stagnates.

thoughts -> actions-> reality
studying all the truth you want will just lead you to LDAR and isolate and become depressed. the truth is only worth knowing if it helps you refactor your identity to a more beneficial form. fuck being rational. be delusional and build a grossly unrealistic life narrative that gives you the courage to shoot any shot, take any opportunity, dominate any interaction

i was like this long ago and then became painfully self aware and have been depressed for like 2 years. but that has given me all the time I need to figure out what I need to me, and now the delusions I once held whilst being subhuman and lazy will now actually help me, because I’m decently GL and have made something of myself.

all you need is to escape hell and then to give yourself an infallible god complex. when that identity collapses it means your reality is too far disconnected from your delusion and you need to spend some time reevaluating things before putting up the mask again. but once you’re decently GL, socially competent and in a fruitful life situation you will be served best by absolute narcissism and self-interest rather than being grounded in reality

dnr

+ delusion is bad for your mental health

 

[prolarper]

This has to be some of the worst life advice ever lmao.

 

[truep0lishguy]

This has to be some of the worst life advice ever lmao.

better to be narcisstic than being pussy afraid of leaving house

 

[prolarper]

better to be narcisstic than being pussy afraid of leaving house

Or just ground your confidence in reality rather than shifting from one extreme to the other.

 

[truep0lishguy]

Or just ground your confidence in reality rather than shifting from one extreme to the other.

true, but that might be impossible for most people

 

[Jgns]

aren’t we all
the identity is a very malleable thing though. it’s surprisingly easy to shed that identity. when everyone who disappoints or hurts you is at fault and you convince yourself that you’re more than enough, that you are truly great, then nothing can hurt you

I'd say its obv more nuanced than that right. Its a malleable thing but the ability to shed your identity is hugely different on the person, and telling yourself that everyone else is at fault is easy but truly believing it is the hard part. Espc if you've gone through a harder life. Delusion on that level could be advantageous but we humans aren't biologically built to operate on fantasies like that. Reality is hard to accept but its what we should focus on bettering not fantasy.

 

[D69mo]

Or just ground your confidence in reality rather than shifting from one extreme to the other.

High iq take, saying Im ugly and theres nothing that I can do about it so ill adapt and live my life to the fullest is better than saying no IM actually Chad

 

[luuk]

Or just ground your confidence in reality rather than shifting from one extreme to the other.

Most people have little to actually be confident about
If you ground yourself in reality, you do so in a reality where women desire other men to you, where others are smarter and richer and stronger than you
It is inherently demoralising and unless you are genuinely exceptional it won’t bring you anything

 

[prolarper]

Most people have little to actually be confident about
If you ground yourself in reality, you do so in a reality where women desire other men to you, where others are smarter and richer and stronger than you
It is inherently demoralising and unless you are genuinely exceptional it won’t bring you anything

If women are already choosing richer, smarter and stronger men over you being overconfident and delusional won’t help ur situation.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

tell this to the 5'2 norwood 5 dravidian janitor

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I can't do this as someone who has been lonely and neglected for most of my teenage years