The most LIBERATING thing you can do is to abandon a rigid sense of self

[luuk]

Associating so heavily with your past, your identity, your actions and how you are currently perceived is a recipe for rumination, inhibition, stagnation and depression. You can literally just reinvent yourself and most people will eventually accept it. Even easier if you move to a new environment. Any intangible traits you associate with yourself can be ignored and any traits you want can be faked. Consider your darkest and most embarrassing moments to be those of a different person and they will no longer burden you. The lies you tell yourself will eventually become your reality. If you embody a whiny victim mindset and tell yourself that its over and that you will amount to nothing then it will surely remain that way.
last thread today, gn

 

[nvrpure]

Good thread, gn

 

[luuk]

Good thread, gn

gn

 

[FrancoAgain]

very cool
gn

 

[Prøphet]

Good advice I agree with you

 

[exvh]

valid post op, good night