The netherlands is the worst country in the world.

[sub6manletnozygos]

being extremely smart, such as IQ-testing and my overal elite-level achievements have shown for me, can often be confused with 'autism' because you socialize on a different plane, with different humor and different interests.
Add on top of that I was abused by my own parents throughout my childhood, while being bullied relentlessly for being fat and ugly due to this parental abuse where I was neglected, adds up to a very difficult social situation.

I have no reason whatsoever to question my autism diagnosis and neither has any medical specialist ever had.

Only you and some other ppl on this forum will call me autistic for no reason other than my post-count and interest in this community lmao.

its laughable really.

No, its that if you are high iq, and have a good mental coping strategy for your autism (you have learned to cope over decades of socializing at a high level).

However, when you are stressed, and struggle with socializing, you become fatalistic and overly analytical (autistic), focusing on the minutia of your genetic substance (half dutch, half slavic), seeing that as as the substantive reason for your social failures, rather than your autism.

 

[Gengar]

I can't believe I was forced to grow up in this fucking shithole by my retarded dutch dad and slavic mother. Fucking faggots ruined my life.

Everywhere in this country, my entire youth, university, events, festivals: ALL I GOT WAS HATE BECAUSE I AM SLAVIC.

why do fuckers from other countries think it's a good idea to move to the West?

I can't fucking escape anymore. Where can I go? Poland? A country I barely speak the language of, have never lived in, know nobody in, know nothing about?

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

I AM SO FUCKED. I AM STUCK IN THIS PRISON. THIS NETHERLANDS SHITHOLE.

ITS OVER

People probably think you’re joking but have no idea that there’s a complaint center (or it’s just a site) if you wanna complain about Slavs.

 

[MoggerGaston]

People probably think you’re joking but have no idea that there’s a complaint center (or it’s just a site) if you wanna complain about Slavs.

its probably largely cuz I looksmaxxed in recent years so I don't look like someone who would've struggled based on looks/race.

But most of experiences described are from the first 23 years of my life where I was KHHV and very ugly looking, receiving insane amounts of hatred for the way I look.
Especially during my teens:
-I developed protruded brow-ridge at age 13yo already.
-norwood2.5 hairline recession by mid teens.
-nasolabial folds and forehead wrinkles by mid teens

which made me look like an ogre instead of a 'pretty boy' like you are supposed to look in your teenage years.
Only FINALLY now during my mid twenties have I started to 'grow into' this ogreish masc look I have. Looking more like white people my age instead of how I looked like a deformed ogre next to my peers in my youth.

Many of those facial characteristics which made me look like that, are undoubtedly from a slav genetic and also cultural origin. I was being treated MUCH BETTER in poland even in my youth, because I looked more like my peers there.

The racism I have experienced is undeniable and massive.
The problems I face today, mostly stem from mental-damage accumulated by my negative past experiences.

 

[MoggerGaston]

No, its that if you are high iq, and have a good mental coping strategy for your autism (you have learned to cope over decades of socializing at a high level).

However, when you are stressed, and struggle with socializing, you become fatalistic and overly analytical (autistic), focusing on the minutia of your genetic substance (half dutch, half slavic), seeing that as as the substantive reason for your social failures, rather than your autism.

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[Aviddegree40571]

its probably largely cuz I looksmaxxed in recent years so I don't look like someone who would've struggled based on looks/race.

But most of experiences described are from the first 23 years of my life where I was KHHV and very ugly looking, receiving insane amounts of hatred for the way I look.
Especially during my teens:
-I developed protruded brow-ridge at age 13yo already.
-norwood2.5 hairline recession by mid teens.
-nasolabial folds and forehead wrinkles by mid teens

which made me look like an ogre instead of a 'pretty boy' like you are supposed to look in your teenage years.
Only FINALLY now during my mid twenties have I started to 'grow into' this ogreish masc look I have. Looking more like white people my age instead of how I looked like a deformed ogre next to my peers in my youth.

Many of those facial characteristics which made me look like that, are undoubtedly from a slav genetic and also cultural origin. I was being treated MUCH BETTER in poland even in my youth, because I looked more like my peers there.

The racism I have experienced is undeniable and massive.
The problems I face today, mostly stem from mental-damage accumulated by my negative past experiences.

I get treated extremely well in georgia. Alot of girls look at me compliment me and guys arent retarded potato sacks

 

[MoggerGaston]

I get treated extremely well in georgia. Alot of girls look at me compliment me and guys arent retarded potato sacks

same for me in poland during my youth there

 

[Marelago]

I hear you mogger Gaston always difficult to assimilate with pure breed. Some countries are extraordinary elitist. Racist is the wrong word because they don't discriminate you per se when you're black but you must play your role in the country that is suited for you the same same for slavs, Italians, and so on. Only the Nordic and anglosassons (that are nordic) don't get stereotyped.

 

[cobicado901]

Doesn't matter I agree fully with mogger Gaston. I live in Switzerland grew up here never were accepted as a Swiss so I experience like the same as mogger Gaston my entire life. . I'm only half Swiss. I'm half Italian but

Not only

Not only
The Netherlands also in Switzerland the same. I also don't look sla

No they don't. In Switzerland the same. Inbreed elitists. I'm not Slavic but could pass for one or Baltic. Last time a young lady that I met in a bar thought I'm a professional fighter It's the low trust pheno.

It's not. It's like in the twenties when US eugenicist put south Italians in

Hahaha come to Switzerland you will see

nigga i dont believe this, there is many of immigrants in Switzerland, there is an Italian part. maybe for the Netherlands its true but this case is kinda shizo rambling lil nigga

 

[Marelago]

nigga i dont believe this, there is many of immigrants in Switzerland, there is an Italian part. maybe for the Netherlands its true but this case is kinda shizo rambling lil nigga

Sorry for my typos wanted correct it but already sent it.
The Swiss are the most discriminating people toward all foreigner also against slavs, south europeans doesn't matter. Yes there are many immigrants in Switzerland but they don't mix with pure breed Swiss. Some exceptions maybe. As a foreigner you will feel it already in school or kindergarten that you have less value or they will give you the feeling that you're different. I don't even speak about the job market where pure breeds always get preferred to non swiss. When you're Scandinavian or anglosassons it's different because they trust you. Slavic south European people they always have false assumptions I don't even speak about how they treat black or Arab people. I could tell you story's.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Sorry for my typos wanted correct it but already sent it.
The Swiss are the most discriminating people toward all foreigner also against slavs, sout European doesn't matter. Yes there are many immigrants in Switzerland but they don't mix with pure breed Swiss. Some exceptions maybe. As a foreigner you will feel it already in school or kindergarten that you have less value or they will give you the feeling that you're different. I don't even speak about the job market where pure breeds always get preferred to non swiss. When you're Nordic it's different because they trust you. Slavic south European people they always have false assumptions I don't even speak about how they treat black or Arab people. I could tell you story's.

These people don't get it because they never experienced what it's like to be treated as an outcast by a lot of people due to your race.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

31.37 posts per day. you were ensnared by the autism of lookmax as an outlet to vent what you could not say irl (autism trait). you had no alternatives. anyone who wastes their life for 3+ with such frequency is an autistic person (and likely also with few quality friends + depression).

literally me

I live with my mother at age 27 yo and have no hobbies or skills to achieve self-actualization, leading to a lack of self-worth and brain shrinkage; I become lower iq with each passing day.

Forum shitposting 30+ times a day for 3 years is indicative of:

• Deep interest in looksmaxxing/psl autism which driving frequent participation;
• Seeking connection, support, or recognition within a community.
• Developing a routine that includes regular online interaction.
• Using online activities to manage stress, anxiety, or other emotions.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is defined as a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by differences in social communication and the presence of restricted or repetitive behaviors and interests.

That's not even including mathematics Olympiad proficiency (autism trait) developed over years of math autism, distinct from the average person, who ordinarily 'doesn't like maths'.

It seems like what I am saying is not unreasonable.

Lets add denialism and defensiveness, and resorting to insults when someone doesn't agree with you, to that list as well.

am sub 80iq, cannot comprehends questioned.

Future me

 

[cobicado901]

Sorry for my typos wanted correct it but already sent it.
The Swiss are the most discriminating people toward all foreigner also against slavs, south europeans doesn't matter. Yes there are many immigrants in Switzerland but they don't mix with pure breed Swiss. Some exceptions maybe. As a foreigner you will feel it already in school or kindergarten that you have less value or they will give you the feeling that you're different. I don't even speak about the job market where pure breeds always get preferred to non swiss. When you're Scandinavian or anglosassons it's different because they trust you. Slavic south European people they always have false assumptions I don't even speak about how they treat black or Arab people. I could tell you story's.

Ok bro, I believe in you. “Pure breed Swiss” is that even a thing? They dont have their language and their regions are Italian/German/French but ok.

Theres a lot of Portuguese there that say very nice things about your country.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

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There are plenty of Polish moggers in their youth who look indistinguishable from Danish, just as there are plenty of ogreish youth in northern Europe, indistinguishable from the EE ogre phenotype.

Try telling my 6'5 northern Europe ogre friend that he is slavic.
You (and him) just have ogre genetics, and like you said, needed to 'grow' into your ogreish looks.

I suspect you were hanging out with high class Danish but lower class Polish. If you were ingratiated into higher Danish and Polish society, I doubt you would have that opinion (as you would have been discriminated by both for your ogre looks).

Your explanation essentially asserts that most poles in their youth are ugly ogres, which is cope. I could just as easily argue that slavs have more angular skulls, than your average potato face bloated northern Euro.

 

[MoggerGaston]

There are plenty of Polish moggers in their youth who look indistinguishable from Danish, just as there are plenty of ogreish youth in northern Europe, indistinguishable from the EE ogre phenotype.

theres also indians indistinguishable from italians. What's your point?

Try telling my 6'5 northern Europe ogre friend that he is slavic.
You (and him) just have ogre genetics, and like you said, needed to 'grow' into your ogreish looks.

I suspect you were hanging out with high class Danish but lower class Polish. If you were ingratiated into higher Danish and Polish society, I doubt you would have that opinion (as you would have been discriminated by both for your ogre looks).

Your explanation essentially asserts that most poles in their youth are ugly ogres, which is cope. I could just as easily argue that slavs have more angular skulls, than your average potato face bloated northern Euro.

I didn't get into higher-class society in the Netherlands untill age 12 where the schooling system is split based on achievement. Age 4-12 were just as bad already among lower-class dutch.

 

[FrenchareMedCucks]

its probably largely cuz I looksmaxxed in recent years so I don't look like someone who would've struggled based on looks/race.

But most of experiences described are from the first 23 years of my life where I was KHHV and very ugly looking, receiving insane amounts of hatred for the way I look.
Especially during my teens:
-I developed protruded brow-ridge at age 13yo already.
-norwood2.5 hairline recession by mid teens.
-nasolabial folds and forehead wrinkles by mid teens

which made me look like an ogre instead of a 'pretty boy' like you are supposed to look in your teenage years.
Only FINALLY now during my mid twenties have I started to 'grow into' this ogreish masc look I have. Looking more like white people my age instead of how I looked like a deformed ogre next to my peers in my youth.

Many of those facial characteristics which made me look like that, are undoubtedly from a slav genetic and also cultural origin. I was being treated MUCH BETTER in poland even in my youth, because I looked more like my peers there.

The racism I have experienced is undeniable and massive.
The problems I face today, mostly stem from mental-damage accumulated by my negative past experiences.

I don't think that you having half polish ancestry is the reason why you got mistreated by upper class dutchmen

you lacked their social skills, way of speaking , social proof , hobbies so they just outclasted you instinctively because
you just didn't sound like one of them so they could keep their social circle closed and exclusive.



Sure you aren't Chadlite and strong HTN neither, but you are at least above average looking and between strong MTN and low HTN. As many stated, you look german and don't have the slavic potatoe face pheno.

Even if you were KHHV until 23 , you then got some hookups with decent looking girls in NL which is one the hardest country on earth, proof that your problem lies in your abused dog mentality rather than looks.

You don't need to have an upper class social circle to enjoy your life and slay, you don't need to be strong HTN to start having a few hookups per year, which is miles ahead of the average 26 man in the West who's between strong LTN and low MTN.


Just imagine if you were strong LTN like me or others so that you would have then a reason to rope because you would knew you would be sexless for years while needing to wageslave to save 45 k €+ for bimax and implants.

And yes i think the NL is becoming too hypergamous so you need to geomax to a place like southern Europe where the average man is a 5'6 brown LTN . It is normal since 2023 that even a strong MTN now struggle on dating life because of hard competition.

Your country is too small with a 17 million population, close to neighbouring coutries with as many people and big cities close to one another so swipping a Nordic Chadlite is easy doable for a becky there.

 

[LateAscension]

He matches with decent looking girls in OLD but refuses to go out. He has severe mental issues.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I don't think that you having half polish ancestry is the reason why you got mistreated by upper class dutchmen

you lacked their social skills, way of speaking , social proof , hobbies so they just outclasted you instinctively because
you just didn't sound like one of them so they could keep their social circle closed and exclusive.

these 'reasons' you just listed are literally the definition of racism. This 'lack' you describe is caused by my polish ancestry, since if I had dutch ancestry this difference wouldn't have existed.

You literally just described racism here

Sure you aren't Chadlite and strong HTN neither, but you are at least above average looking and between strong MTN and low HTN. As many stated, you look german and don't have the slavic potatoe face pheno.

Even if you were KHHV until 23 , you then got some hookups with decent looking girls in NL which is one the hardest country on earth, proof that your problem lies in your abused dog mentality rather than looks.

You don't need to have an upper class social circle to enjoy your life and slay, you don't need to be strong HTN to start having a few hookups per year, which is miles ahead of the average 26 man in the West who's between strong LTN and low MTN.

You can be truecel and escortmax and have a better sex-life than the average man here. Idk what's the point though since it isn't fullfilling just like the things you describe here.

Just imagine if you were strong LTN like me or others so that you would have then a reason to rope because you would knew you would be sexless for years while needing to wageslave to save 45 k €+ for bimax and implants.

escorts mog civilian girls for sex

And yes i think the NL is becoming too hypergamous so you need to geomax to a place like southern Europe where the average man is a 5'6 brown LTN . It is normal since 2023 that even a strong MTN now struggle on dating life because of hard competition.

Your country is too small with a 17 million population, close to neighbouring coutries with as many people and big cities close to one another so swipping a Nordic Chadlite is easy doable for a becky there.

 

[Gengar]

its probably largely cuz I looksmaxxed in recent years so I don't look like someone who would've struggled based on looks/race.

But most of experiences described are from the first 23 years of my life where I was KHHV and very ugly looking, receiving insane amounts of hatred for the way I look.
Especially during my teens:
-I developed protruded brow-ridge at age 13yo already.
-norwood2.5 hairline recession by mid teens.
-nasolabial folds and forehead wrinkles by mid teens

which made me look like an ogre instead of a 'pretty boy' like you are supposed to look in your teenage years.
Only FINALLY now during my mid twenties have I started to 'grow into' this ogreish masc look I have. Looking more like white people my age instead of how I looked like a deformed ogre next to my peers in my youth.

Many of those facial characteristics which made me look like that, are undoubtedly from a slav genetic and also cultural origin. I was being treated MUCH BETTER in poland even in my youth, because I looked more like my peers there.

The racism I have experienced is undeniable and massive.
The problems I face today, mostly stem from mental-damage accumulated by my negative past experiences.

True, mentalcels exist due to their former, negative experiences in life. It’s pretty brutal because at the end of the day, it’s hard to rewire your brain. I don’t know if it’s possible, probably not — even I can’t fix my brain even though I’m trying my best to.

 

[MoggerGaston]

True, mentalcels exist due to their former, negative experiences in life. It’s pretty brutal because at the end of the day, it’s hard to rewire your brain. I don’t know if it’s possible, probably not — even I can’t fix my brain even though I’m trying my best to.

its very hard man and so many times I feel completely hopeless and wanting to give up.

It's somewhat insane how much effort I have put into dating and socializing after 'ascending'.
Dating that stacylite was somewhere during the peak of all that. But in the end it was incredibly hard for me to enjoy any of it as I was facing constant anxiety due to my past.

In the end it all came crashing down and I ended up in a complete pit of despair. Now in a mental-ward trying to heal.

Idk but it may be over and I may have to KMS.

 

[Gengar]

its very hard man and so many times I feel completely hopeless and wanting to give up.

It's somewhat insane how much effort I have put into dating and socializing after 'ascending'.
Dating that stacylite was somewhere during the peak of all that. But in the end it was incredibly hard for me to enjoy any of it as I was facing constant anxiety due to my past.

In the end it all came crashing down and I ended up in a complete pit of despair. Now in a mental-ward trying to heal.

Idk but it may be over and I may have to KMS.

I really think it’s a western thing, where men have to chase women even if the women find the men good-looking, attractive, etc. I think over in Poland or any other country you’d have a much easier time with dating, honestly — and no, not because you are partially Slavic but because the west just makes it really difficult for western men, regardless of background. That said, I don’t think you should let these things affect the way you perceive life. As in, don’t KYS just because of the dating world. Forgive my wording, but that’s pretty damn stupid. You’re a cool guy, your presence is valuable even if others don’t see it.

 

[Sodoku]

its very hard man and so many times I feel completely hopeless and wanting to give up.

It's somewhat insane how much effort I have put into dating and socializing after 'ascending'.
Dating that stacylite was somewhere during the peak of all that. But in the end it was incredibly hard for me to enjoy any of it as I was facing constant anxiety due to my past.

In the end it all came crashing down and I ended up in a complete pit of despair. Now in a mental-ward trying to heal.

Idk but it may be over and I may have to KMS.

I feel this very much. Like there's no way out. Even if you 'ascend', you're constantly second guessing everything you do because of the past.

It just turns into inaction and rotting. But there's no other choice. You just don't see a way out.

 

[Nielsinho76]

I can't believe I was forced to grow up in this fucking shithole by my retarded dutch dad and slavic mother. Fucking faggots ruined my life.

Everywhere in this country, my entire youth, university, events, festivals: ALL I GOT WAS HATE BECAUSE I AM SLAVIC.

why do fuckers from other countries think it's a good idea to move to the West?

I can't fucking escape anymore. Where can I go? Poland? A country I barely speak the language of, have never lived in, know nobody in, know nothing about?

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

I AM SO FUCKED. I AM STUCK IN THIS PRISON. THIS NETHERLANDS SHITHOLE.

ITS OVER

Haha waar woon je man ik voel je

 

[MoggerGaston]

I really think it’s a western thing, where men have to chase women even if the women find the men good-looking, attractive, etc. I think over in Poland or any other country you’d have a much easier time with dating, honestly — and no, not because you are partially Slavic but because the west just makes it really difficult for western men, regardless of background. That said, I don’t think you should let these things affect the way you perceive life. As in, don’t KYS just because of the dating world. Forgive my wording, but that’s pretty damn stupid. You’re a cool guy, your presence is valuable even if others don’t see it.

I appreciate your reply. I agree with you that dating in the West is completely insane.
The dating world here is absolutely lunatic-level. There's a few winners and MANY losers.

It's not because of dating that I would KMS, but because of my inability to enjoy life whatsoever anymore. I constantly feel like a failure, a worthless subhuman. This is not a joke. I feel like I can do no right, that nothing I ever do is good enough.

But thanks for your kind works anyways

 

[Gengar]

Haha waar woon je man ik voel je

Ik woon in Rotterda- oh, je bedoelt MoggerGaston. Zulke gevoelige informatie kan ik niet vrijgeven, mijn oprechte excuses en een fijne avond verder.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I feel this very much. Like there's no way out. Even if you 'ascend', you're constantly second guessing everything you do because of the past.

It just turns into inaction and rotting. But there's no other choice. You just don't see a way out.

When I don't rot, I put insane effort into socializing, dating and all of that despite not feeling at all like wanting to do that. But then, even in rare occasions, that my efforts are rewarded with good experiences. Attractive girls liking me, nice raves, whatever. I end up barely feeling good and the good feelings quickly dissapear and I go back to feeling lethargic, depressed.

I don't know what the way out is man. It's so painfull. I totally feel you.

 

[Nielsinho76]

Ik woon in Rotterda- oh, je bedoelt MoggerGaston. Zulke gevoelige informatie kan ik niet vrijgeven, mijn oprechte excuses en een fijne avond verder.

Ik woon in zeeland man hier is helemaal niks altijd lang rijden voor naar een stad te gaan. Maar fijne avond en kerst bro

 

[MoggerGaston]

Ik woon in Rotterda- oh, je bedoelt MoggerGaston. Zulke gevoelige informatie kan ik niet vrijgeven, mijn oprechte excuses en een fijne avond verder.

Rotterdam sws te gevaarlijk voor buitenstaanders om te komen. Voordat je weet komen ze in een bende-oorlog terecht Beter geef je je eigen woonlocatie ook niet meer prijs

 

[Gengar]

I appreciate your reply. I agree with you that dating in the West is completely insane.
The dating world here is absolutely lunatic-level. There's a few winners and MANY losers.

It's not because of dating that I would KMS, but because of my inability to enjoy life whatsoever anymore. I constantly feel like a failure, a worthless subhuman. This is not a joke. I feel like I can do no right, that nothing I ever do is good enough.

But thanks for your kind works anyways

I don’t even wish to compete in the dating world, it’s just an oversaturated and hopeless place. Even I can tell as an outsider, so that says enough. One should not participate in the western dating system, it brings about too many insecurities and whatnot which shouldn’t even be there. And you’re more than welcome, I’m glad you appreciated the reply and also, to be honest other people feel the way you do as well. Not only do I feel like a complete failure, I’m genuinely a complete failure. I have no job, no degree, no money, no partner. Nothing. But I’m still here, and I’m sticking around for as long as God allows me to live. Then I’ll be gone for good. Can’t say I’m not looking forward to my demise but at the same time, I won’t turn matters into my own hands. And if I won’t, then neither should you. You can always send me a message if you feel like it, in private, and we can talk.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Ik woon in zeeland man hier is helemaal niks altijd lang rijden voor naar een stad te gaan. Maar fijne avond en kerst bro

Geen chillings in Middelburg?

 

[Gengar]

Ik woon in zeeland man hier is helemaal niks altijd lang rijden voor naar een stad te gaan. Maar fijne avond en kerst bro

Ik ben een keertje in Zeeland geweest, het voelt aan als een groot dorp. Wellicht kan je naar Rotterdam verhuizen, alleen is het wel moeilijk om een huis te vinden hier tegenwoordig. Jij ook een fijne avond en een fijne kerst, broeder. (Ik vier zelf geen kerst ivm het feit dat ik een muzzie ben ).

 

[Gengar]

Rotterdam sws te gevaarlijk voor buitenstaanders om te komen. Voordat je weet komen ze in een bende-oorlog terecht Beter geef je je eigen woonlocatie ook niet meer prijs

Valt allemaal wel reuze mee, hoor. Je maakt wel een punt van dat ik wellicht mijn eigen locatie niet hoor vrij te geven, alleen uh… heb ik het al jarenlang gedaan en maakt het weinig meer uit.

 

[Nielsinho76]

Geen chillings in Middelburg?

Soms maar is nogsteeds 20 min rijden voor mij + zijn alleen maar drillers daar

 

[Nielsinho76]

Ik ben een keertje in Zeeland geweest, het voelt aan als een groot dorp. Wellicht kan je naar Rotterdam verhuizen, alleen is het wel moeilijk om een huis te vinden hier tegenwoordig. Jij ook een fijne avond en een fijne kerst, broeder. (Ik vier zelf geen kerst ivm het feit dat ik een muzzie ben ).

Ik ga binnenkort naar eramus opendag (ben 15 jaar oud) dus als het wat is kom ik misschien wel

 

[Gengar]

Ik ga binnenkort naar eramus opendag (ben 15 jaar oud) dus als het wat is kom ik misschien wel

Erasmus Universiteit? Slimme jongeman dat je bent!

 

[Gengar]

Soms maar is nogsteeds 20 min rijden voor mij + zijn alleen maar drillers daar

Is Middelburg dat ene plaatsje waar ze een kasteel hebben?

 

[Sodoku]

When I don't rot, I put insane effort into socializing, dating and all of that despite not feeling at all like wanting to do that. But then, even in rare occasions, that my efforts are rewarded with good experiences. Attractive girls liking me, nice raves, whatever. I end up barely feeling good and the good feelings quickly dissapear and I go back to feeling lethargic, depressed.

I don't know what the way out is man. It's so painfull. I totally feel you.

We’re the exact same. Even the feeling of suicide, I always thought I would end up killing myself sometime in the future. Not now, but later. Even if I get married, have a genuine relationship and kids - I still wouldn’t be happy. I know I wouldn’t. I would fake it, sure. But it wouldn’t be genuine. And so what’s the point of living if you don’t feel anything? It’s that mindset. But I live for now just to see new experiences - I’m a bit younger than you.

I sometimes wonder if I’m bipolar - my mom always used to have these crazy mood swings as well.

TBH if I did have a cute white chick it would make things easier…

 

[Nielsinho76]

Is Middelburg dat ene plaatsje waar ze een kasteel hebben?

Bedoel je deze? Anders weet ik niet echt wat je bedoelt

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Nederland is niet zo erg bro

 

[Gengar]

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Bedoel je deze? Anders weet ik niet echt wat je bedoelt

Ja, volgens mij deze. Daar kan je overnachten, als het goed is. Als schoolexcursie zijn we er wel eens geweest. In de 3e. Dat was 2011. Verdomme, de tijd vliegt.

 

[Nielsinho76]

Ja, volgens mij deze. Daar kan je overnachten, als het goed is. Als schoolexcursie zijn we er wel eens geweest. In de 3e. Dat was 2011. Verdomme, de tijd vliegt.

Oh ja klopt ik ben daar ook wezen overnachten, in de brugklas. Dat was ook al 3-4 jaar geleden

 

[MoggerGaston]

I don’t even wish to compete in the dating world, it’s just an oversaturated and hopeless place. Even I can tell as an outsider, so that says enough. One should not participate in the western dating system, it brings about too many insecurities and whatnot which shouldn’t even be there.

I agree and I hate it completely.

It's like I am not allowed to be 'different' in any way. I was abused by my parents and bullied in my youth. Because of this I have developed quite a 'unique' personality.
There is actually not much wrong with my personality. There's problems in my personality that interfere with my life-quality and there's parts that don't. And I can work on those things. But overall I am still a human-being who has adjusted properly to the situation I have had to deal with in my past. Not a freak.

The problem is that dating is so fucking competitive that being abused in the past is an immediate red-flag for women and for them to ditch you immediately.

It was EXTREMELY hard for me to cut ties with my family due to my situation. Yet I feel like many women will instantly reject a man who isn't in contact with his family anymore. They have so many options, they don't want to deal with a guy without family.
Even though there is nothing which I did wrong. I didn't choose to be born with an abusive family I had to distance myself from. Yet many women will reject me for it.

it's all so painfull man.

And you’re more than welcome, I’m glad you appreciated the reply and also, to be honest other people feel the way you do as well. Not only do I feel like a complete failure, I’m genuinely a complete failure. I have no job, no degree, no money, no partner. Nothing. But I’m still here, and I’m sticking around for as long as God allows me to live. Then I’ll be gone for good. Can’t say I’m not looking forward to my demise but at the same time, I won’t turn matters into my own hands. And if I won’t, then neither should you. You can always send me a message if you feel like it, in private, and we can talk.

I am sorry to hear that man. I don't think any of those things mean you are a failure. Not having a job, degree, money, partner.

I think it's completely fine to be frustrated with not having a job, degree, money, partner. But that is different from believing you are a failure.

You are not a failure. You are a winner because you realize that you are unhappy with the life you have and want to change it.
And this is not easy, changing your life.

You see a rich, social, succesful person with a partner. Everything you feel like you lack, he has.
But this type of thinking makes so little sense when you realize that none of us had the same start in life, same upbringing, same environment.

Be nice to yourself, be mild. Because excelling in a difficult situation is extremely rough. That's my christmas message to you:

Be nice and mild to yourself, but also realize you have this desire to change certain aspects of your life. There's things in your life you are unhappy about and want to change.
That's amazing and do go about changing those things. Just don't beat yourself up so hard for being in the place you are. And realize you will face many setbacks which you may believe should be 'trivial' for 'normal people'.

But realize these 'normal people' don't face these emotions, these mental pains you face. The setback you face in something that 'seems trivial' to the average person, can be a completely legit problem for you with your issues. And there is NOTHING wrong with that.

In fact is EXTREMELY ADMIRABLE, it is an extreme challenge to face these issues while your environment never does.
You are a fucking warrior. It's so sad you don't realize it yourself because you are.

 

[Gengar]

We’re the exact same. Even the feeling of suicide, I always thought I would end up killing myself sometime in the future. Not now, but later. Even if I get married, have a genuine relationship and kids - I still wouldn’t be happy. I know I wouldn’t. I would fake it, sure. But it wouldn’t be genuine. And so what’s the point of living if you don’t feel anything? It’s that mindset. But I live for now just to see new experiences - I’m a bit younger than you.

I sometimes wonder if I’m bipolar - my mom always used to have these crazy mood swings as well.

TBH if I did have a cute white chick it would make things easier…

It sounds like you’re unhappy with life in general. Not even a cute white chick could fix you, only you possess the ability to fix yourself. It sounds cliché, but there is definitely some truth in that statement. Some people have everything others dream of and still end up roping because they just weren’t happy in life. But you should do your best to avoid it. Right now you probably lack some purpose in your life, but I’m sure one day you will get it. Just don’t rope or think about roping. I used to think about it a lot but now I don’t. And slowly I’ve been feeling better. It’s possible; but you have to wanna do it and you have to stick to it. No easy way out of this, my friend.

 

[Gengar]

Oh ja klopt ik ben daar ook wezen overnachten, in de brugklas. Dat was ook al 3-4 jaar geleden

Jeetje. Nou, wel lollig dat we er allebei zijn geweest. Wat ik nu vooral zou doen, is goed nadenken over wat je zou willen studeren op de universiteit. En denk ook aan een tweede optie zodat je niet helemaal clueless bent zodra de eerste optie niet lukt. Sinds de middelbare wilde ik altijd een verpleegkundige worden, uiteindelijk deed ik de opleiding op hbo niveau en besefte ik dat ik dit niet kon doen ivm mijn smetvrees. Sindsdien heb ik allemaal verschillende opleidingen gedaan die ik niet heb afgerond. En nu ben ik al 29 terwijl ik alweer in de eerste klas pas zit.

 

[Gengar]

I agree and I hate it completely.

It's like I am not allowed to be 'different' in any way. I was abused by my parents and bullied in my youth. Because of this I have developed quite a 'unique' personality.
There is actually not much wrong with my personality. There's problems in my personality that interfere with my life-quality and there's parts that don't. And I can work on those things. But overall I am still a human-being who has adjusted properly to the situation I have had to deal with in my past. Not a freak.

The problem is that dating is so fucking competitive that being abused in the past is an immediate red-flag for women and for them to ditch you immediately.

It was EXTREMELY hard for me to cut ties with my family due to my situation. Yet I feel like many women will instantly reject a man who isn't in contact with his family anymore. They have so many options, they don't want to deal with a guy without family.
Even though there is nothing which I did wrong. I didn't choose to be born with an abusive family I had to distance myself from. Yet many women will reject me for it.

it's all so painfull man.

I am sorry to hear that man. I don't think any of those things mean you are a failure. Not having a job, degree, money, partner.

I think it's completely fine to be frustrated with not having a job, degree, money, partner. But that is different from believing you are a failure.

You are not a failure. You are a winner because you realize that you are unhappy with the life you have and want to change it.
And this is not easy, changing your life.

You see a rich, social, succesful person with a partner. Everything you feel like you lack, he has.
But this type of thinking makes so little sense when you realize that none of us had the same start in life, same upbringing, same environment.

Be nice to yourself, be mild. Because excelling in a difficult situation is extremely rough. That's my christmas message to you:

Be nice and mild to yourself, but also realize you have this desire to change certain aspects of your life. There's things in your life you are unhappy about and want to change.
That's amazing and do go about changing those things. Just don't beat yourself up so hard for being in the place you are. And realize you will face many setbacks which you may believe should be 'trivial' for 'normal people'.

But realize these 'normal people' don't face these emotions, these mental pains you face. The setback you face in something that 'seems trivial' to the average person, can be a completely legit problem for you with your issues. And there is NOTHING wrong with that.

In fact is EXTREMELY ADMIRABLE, it is an extreme challenge to face these issues while your environment never does.
You are a fucking warrior. It's so sad you don't realize it yourself because you are.

Brother, I will switch over to a computer soon, my phone is at 7% and this post needs a detailed response, so I’ll do it when I am on a PC, later tonight.

 

[Nielsinho76]

Jeetje. Nou, wel lollig dat we er allebei zijn geweest. Wat ik nu vooral zou doen, is goed nadenken over wat je zou willen studeren op de universiteit. En denk ook aan een tweede optie zodat je niet helemaal clueless bent zodra de eerste optie niet lukt. Sinds de middelbare wilde ik altijd een verpleegkundige worden, uiteindelijk deed ik de opleiding op hbo niveau en besefte ik dat ik dit niet kon doen ivm mijn smetvrees. Sindsdien heb ik allemaal verschillende opleidingen gedaan die ik niet heb afgerond. En nu ben ik al 29 terwijl ik alweer in de eerste klas pas zit.

Bedankt voor het advies zal ik zeker doen. Succes met je opleidingen en al het andere wat je doet

 

[Nielsinho76]

Brother, I will switch over to a computer soon, my phone is at 7% and this post needs a detailed response, so I’ll do it when I am on a PC, later tonight.

Haha mn telefoon is ook op 5% ik moet nu weg. Zie je later wel weer

 

[MoggerGaston]

Brother, I will switch over to a computer soon, my phone is at 7% and this post needs a detailed response, so I’ll do it when I am on a PC, later tonight.

Rustig aan man, hoeft niet snel te antwoorden. Doe chill op je eigen tempo.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I can't believe I was forced to grow up in this fucking shithole by my retarded dutch dad and slavic mother. Fucking faggots ruined my life.

Everywhere in this country, my entire youth, university, events, festivals: ALL I GOT WAS HATE BECAUSE I AM SLAVIC.

why do fuckers from other countries think it's a good idea to move to the West?

I can't fucking escape anymore. Where can I go? Poland? A country I barely speak the language of, have never lived in, know nobody in, know nothing about?

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

I AM SO FUCKED. I AM STUCK IN THIS PRISON. THIS NETHERLANDS SHITHOLE.

ITS OVER

Poland is good though, as a country. Only small adjustment, is that people in daily life are not social much for small talks with randoms and shit like that, bit closed off. Untill they gop drink at evening/night, than they swing the opposite way. which imo is a bit stupid, as in you can be a bit open during the daytime as well. The kgb is long gone, to snitch on your ass

 

[MoggerGaston]

Poland is good though, as a country. Only small adjustment, is that people in daily life are not social much for small talks with randoms and shit like that, bit closed off. Untill they gop drink at evening/night, than they swing the opposite way. which imo is a bit stupid, as in you can be a bit open during the daytime as well. The kgb is long gone, to snitch on your ass

I agree with you, but I wouldn't say dutch people are necessairily more social during the day while sober, especially not with randoms?!

It's notoriously difficult to vibe with dutch people tbh.

We have had this massive influx of expats and foreign-exchange students and many experiences shared of their time in the netherlands. And socializing with dutch people has been one notorious difficult one.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I agree with you, but I wouldn't say dutch people are necessairily more social during the day while sober, especially not with randoms?!

It's notoriously difficult to vibe with dutch people tbh.

We have had this massive influx of expats and foreign-exchange students and many experiences shared of their time in the netherlands. And socializing with dutch people has been one notorious difficult one.

i see.to me, in Poland is seemed "even" worst