The Notebook movie did ireversible damage to modern dating culture

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

Holy shit. Almost every single girl I have seriously prorgessed with has told me one of their favorite movies is the Notebook. For anyone who doesnt know, its a story about a rich girl who falls in love with this poor guy, moves away, starts dating this rlly rich and handsome guy, and then the poor guy decides to build her a house to win her back, and the girl decides to leave the rich handsome war general to go back to the poor guy. Holy cuck movie wtf. Bitches love this movie because the idea of having multiple men orbit around them doing everything they can to get their attention makes them crazy. The poor guy is a cuck for building some random girl an entire house just because he loves her (what even is love btw), and then the rich guy is a cuck because he risked his lfie in war, was horrible injured, and just as he got married, his girl leaves him to get back with her childhood love.

Honestly, I would say if a girl likes the Notebook it should be an imeediate sign of her character,m but unfourtanetly, almost all girls like this movie and this is just the current state of the world.

 

[elieplayees]

Holy shit. Almost every single girl I have seriously prorgessed with has told me one of their favorite movies is the Notebook. For anyone who doesnt know, its a story about a rich girl who falls in love with this poor guy, moves away, starts dating this rlly rich and handsome guy, and then the poor guy decides to build her a house to win her back, and the girl decides to leave the rich handsome war general to go back to the poor guy. Holy cuck movie wtf. Bitches love this movie because the idea of having multiple men orbit around them doing everything they can to get their attention makes them crazy. The poor guy is a cuck for building some random girl an entire house just because he loves her (what even is love btw), and then the rich guy is a cuck because he risked his lfie in war, was horrible injured, and just as he got married, his girl leaves him to get back with her childhood love.

Honestly, I would say if a girl likes the Notebook it should be an imeediate sign of her character,m but unfourtanetly, almost all girls like this movie and this is just the current state of the world.

this is why the just be first theory is pretty important; people say its cope but the bonds you make when you take a girls virginity is huge; it really fucks with them if they dont end up marrying that guy

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

this is why the just be first theory is pretty important; people say its cope but the bonds you make when you take a girls virginity is huge; it really fucks with them if they dont end up marrying that guy

Yeah. In america most people loose there virginity very young and its uaully not in a serious way. Then they try and fill the emptyness.

 

[elieplayees]

Yeah. In america most people loose there virginity very young and its uaully not in a serious way. Then they try and fill the emptyness.

Yea its pretty fucked man; what can we do right?

 

[TheImmortalBeauty]

Holy shit. Almost every single girl I have seriously prorgessed with has told me one of their favorite movies is the Notebook. For anyone who doesnt know, its a story about a rich girl who falls in love with this poor guy, moves away, starts dating this rlly rich and handsome guy, and then the poor guy decides to build her a house to win her back, and the girl decides to leave the rich handsome war general to go back to the poor guy. Holy cuck movie wtf. Bitches love this movie because the idea of having multiple men orbit around them doing everything they can to get their attention makes them crazy. The poor guy is a cuck for building some random girl an entire house just because he loves her (what even is love btw), and then the rich guy is a cuck because he risked his lfie in war, was horrible injured, and just as he got married, his girl leaves him to get back with her childhood love.

Honestly, I would say if a girl likes the Notebook it should be an imeediate sign of her character,m but unfourtanetly, almost all girls like this movie and this is just the current state of the world.

Ehh, Notebook is not that bad. You have to consider the year the movie was set in. It was set in the 1940s, and having sex before marriage was considered a sin. That's the reason they came up with the term "deflowered", because when your virginity is removed as a female you are no longer as valuable as pure, apart if they marry the guy they truly love.

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

Yea its pretty fucked man; what can we do right?

Honestly, I dont think its a complete end of the world. Romance and relationships as a whole are much to romanticized ironically on this forum. I dont understand how people will hate women but then at the same time be obsessed with being in a loving relationship in which you both took each others virginity. A positive is that if ppl are loosing there v cards earlier it usually means there down to do more fun and intimate stuff with all future partners. I use to get really anxiously attached and was obsessed with the girls I talk to being pure and stuff, but now I realize that there genuinly just people too who happen to be better off in certain aspects of society (liek dating, meanwhile men are much better off in politics and the economy). I realize now that idrc if they alr lost there virginity bc its not really gonna effect my experince with her (besides that she might be better at sex) and the only thing it might change is her but like who gives af abt what shes thinking if she likes u she likes u.

 

[elieplayees]

Honestly, I dont think its a complete end of the world. Romance and relationships as a whole are much to romanticized ironically on this forum. I dont understand how people will hate women but then at the same time be obsessed with being in a loving relationship in which you both took each others virginity. A positive is that if ppl are loosing there v cards earlier it usually means there down to do more fun and intimate stuff with all future partners. I use to get really anxiously attached and was obsessed with the girls I talk to being pure and stuff, but now I realize that there genuinly just people too who happen to be better off in certain aspects of society (liek dating, meanwhile men are much better off in politics and the economy). I realize now that idrc if they alr lost there virginity bc its not really gonna effect my experince with her (besides that she might be better at sex) and the only thing it might change is her but like who gives af abt what shes thinking if she likes u she likes u.

don't you think it increases the chances of her comparing you to her previous relationships and having way too many bullshit expectations?

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

don't you think it increases the chances of her comparing you to her previous relationships and having way too many bullshit expectations?

Its possibly she mentally compares you, but like so what. Couple of things. Most of the time, people end relationships on kind of negative terms, especially imature people (the same type who may have lost v young). So they probably dont look back on past relationships fondly as well. Also, we also compare women now to girls we have had in the past, thats just how it works. Think about when u have a oneitis or a crush, even though you have had similar things for girls in the past, in the moment all you can think about is that girl. Also, even if maybe the girl doesnt think you fuck as good or whatever, what does it even matter. As a man your life should be 100% fufilled without a girl, so her only role is someoen to have good experiences with and possibly build a connection. Whats going on in her head doesnt even matter as much as how she acts and how you feel.

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

I've never watched this movie.

But perhaps the man built the house for himself, put himself on the deed, then told the dumb bitch "I built this for you". Then pumped and dumped her after she left her war vet.

Interesting theory

 

[elieplayees]

Its possibly she mentally compares you, but like so what. Couple of things. Most of the time, people end relationships on kind of negative terms, especially imature people (the same type who may have lost v young). So they probably dont look back on past relationships fondly as well. Also, we also compare women now to girls we have had in the past, thats just how it works. Think about when u have a oneitis or a crush, even though you have had similar things for girls in the past, in the moment all you can think about is that girl. Also, even if maybe the girl doesnt think you fuck as good or whatever, what does it even matter. As a man your life should be 100% fufilled without a girl, so her only role is someoen to have good experiences with and possibly build a connection. Whats going on in her head doesnt even matter as much as how she acts and how you feel.

wow amazing point; i cant believe i never thought about it like that; however I dont think your life can be complete without a women at all; without one it's always gonna be meaningless; you toil just for yourself... does that drive men... no; you toil for your love and children

 

[elieplayees]

Is this what the vikings did when they tossed their children into the ocean? Then raped and pillaged half of europe.

I don't see why you need to toil for your love or children. You might toil to have those things, but that's different once the objective is achieved. Male mating strategy biological is high frequency, not high investment...

werent most of the vikings mentally ill though?

 

[NudeSelfiesTilliDie]

wow amazing point; i cant believe i never thought about it like that; however I dont think your life can be complete without a women at all; without one it's always gonna be meaningless; you toil just for yourself... does that drive men... no; you toil for your love and children

100% Having a fmaily and children and a true romantic connection is very fufilling and important. My point is moreso that obsession over virginity is pointless because women are really just human beings, theres nothing mystical or magical about them so theres no point in obsessing over how there gonna perceive you or if they have fucked other guys in the past. There really just humans who are partly driven by biology, and thats just that.

Also, theres a difference between being fufilled without a girl and not searching for women at all. U can still be in relationships and hookup and do that shit, but you just shouldnt be reliant on a girl at all to make you content.

 

[appealisLAW]

not that deep nigga

 

[GeneticsIsEverythin]

disney movies with princesses who always end up with the king or prince have already recked society anyways

also hypergamy is lowk natural if you think about

also i DNR so idk if this is relavant

 

[orwoemt]

Yea, I ve dated a girl that liked this movie and I can confirm that the experience was not good at all, brutal cuck fetishes

 

[Deleted member 319442]

its a good movie bro