THE ONEITIS MYTH, why oneitis is bs and the soulmate myth

[Eärendil]

I see people on this forum talk about oneitis this, oneitis that. What they don't realize is that the idea of a oneitis (the one who is your partner for life) is total bullshit. You get stuck on one person and cannot move on in life, you don't improve. The best example of this on earth is @TheVoidInside . He has been stuck on his oneitis for years and talks about her daily. She has forgotten him yet his life is centered around thinking about her. He hasn't improved or moved on and this is the danger of the oneitis. And you also see it's total bullshit. His oneitis doesn't give a rats ass about him while he thinks she is supposed to be his soulmate.

The reality is, there are no soulmates. Humans are made to pass on the best genes. Your dreams of spending life with your oneitis will inevitably fall apart.

@Primalsplit @Jason Voorhees

 

[Primalsplit]

It seems as if:
Gives you trauma + is attractive = oneitis

 

[TheVoidInside]

(the one who is your partner for life)

i never said this.

You get stuck on one person and cannot move on in life, you don't improve.

i moved on lol. the other girls treated me worse lol

His oneitis doesn't give a rats ass about him while he thinks she is supposed to be his soulmate.

i dont think that. what i do think though is that i could have avoided being hurt

. Humans are made to pass on the best gene

i hate human nature...

 

[TheVoidInside]

It seems as if:
Gives you trauma + is attractive = oneitis

and the more she bites, she more attractive she becomes lol. if she had no backbone, i wouldnt give two shits.

backbone=she is protecting something=high fertility=better sex

its low E low fertility women who dont fight back because they dont got much to give

 

[Primalsplit]

and the more she bites, she more attractive she becomes lol. if she had no backbone, i wouldnt give two shits.

backbone=she is protecting something=high fertility=better sex

its low E low fertility women who dont fight back because they dont got much to give

I must agree that power itself is also attractive in both men and women.

 

[TheVoidInside]

I must agree that power itself is also attractive in both men and women.

what form of power do i have?

 

[Primalsplit]

what form of power do i have?

You have the power to hurt yourself. Why don't you use it?

 

[TheVoidInside]

You have the power to hurt yourself.

do women find that attractive?

Why don't you use it?

what are you suggsting....

 

[Primalsplit]

do women find that attractive?

Oh my fucking God

 

[TheVoidInside]

Oh my fucking God

all this because i made the mistake of showing up