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All dating advice is just a over explanation saying how to be nonchalant
I was looking at some Casey Zander videos even though I hate all this manosphere content. Of course a lot of it is bullshit like the hypergamy meme, the only legitimate points they make are just an over-explanation of the fact that caring less is the answer as they try to milk content and ramble on about a very simple concept.
Imagine your girl plans to go on a trip without you. Initially she's very secretive and defensive about it. Instead of really trying to press for answers or flat out telling her she can't go you just start caring a lot less about her. She feels that emotional withdrawal and ends up cancelling the trip on her own so you won't feel bad. See the only way you could've gotten her to act correctly was by not caring about her, then she'd try to make you care again by fixing the bad behavior.
Care enough to set boundaries=met with resistance
Stop caring about them in response to their shady behavior=they act correctly to get you to care again
Not caring is always the answer. Its a sick cycle of them acting good to get you to care, then acting bad when you do care.
I was looking at some Casey Zander videos even though I hate all this manosphere content. Of course a lot of it is bullshit like the hypergamy meme, the only legitimate points they make are just an over-explanation of the fact that caring less is the answer as they try to milk content and ramble on about a very simple concept.
Imagine your girl plans to go on a trip without you. Initially she's very secretive and defensive about it. Instead of really trying to press for answers or flat out telling her she can't go you just start caring a lot less about her. She feels that emotional withdrawal and ends up cancelling the trip on her own so you won't feel bad. See the only way you could've gotten her to act correctly was by not caring about her, then she'd try to make you care again by fixing the bad behavior.
Care enough to set boundaries=met with resistance
Stop caring about them in response to their shady behavior=they act correctly to get you to care again
Not caring is always the answer. Its a sick cycle of them acting good to get you to care, then acting bad when you do care.
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