The only reason real sex is better is mental

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The actual physical feeling of having sex (or getting a blowjob) is not that considerably better than jerking it or using some kind of toy. The actual physical feeling of having an orgasm is the same regardless of how you get there. It's mostly just the fact you know you are having sex. And even then, if you look at the boring sex older couples have it's obvious that the novelty wears off after a while (many married men actually like jerking it to porn more than just fucking their wife). The pleasure of sex is 70% mental and only 30% physical. You virgins aren't missing out on as much as you think you are.
 
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I will never reeeed you will never breeeed
 
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I’ve tried to tell them this

they won’t listen
 
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shekel backed thread
 
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Maybe I'm just more sensitive, but I don't agree at all.
 
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sex with attractive ltr beats anything
 
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Legit 100%

A cheap Fleshlight I got gives a more intense feeling than any pussy or asshole I've fucked. Same goes for girls though, you think your dick compares to a 12" ribbed vibrating dildo? Jfl.

idk bro. being in an ltr with an attractive girl, making her wince and causing her pain from fucking her, having your dick wet from her pussy, and cumming inside of her legit beats anything tbh.

if u have small dick condom sex a lot, i can see why you think this

You missed the whole point
 
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It's true though. Real world sex is honestly nothing like what most virgins think it is. They think they are missing out on some world changing event. In reality all they are really missing out on is a slightly different way to stimulate their penis into cumming.

idk bro. being in an ltr with an attractive girl, making her wince and causing her pain from fucking her, having your dick wet from her pussy, and cumming inside of her legit beats anything tbh.

This is one of those alpha macho wannabe myths that people say to sound cool. Real world sex is almost never like this. Porn is not real life.
 
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Legit 100%

A cheap Fleshlight I got gives a more intense feeling than any pussy or asshole I've fucked. Same goes for girls though, you think your dick compares to a 12" ribbed vibrating dildo? Jfl.



You missed the whole point
yes ik i also deleted it bc it seemed narcy
 
not a single word
 
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It's true though. Real world sex is honestly nothing like what most virgins think it is. They think they are missing out on some world changing event. In reality all they are really missing out on is a slightly different way to stimulate their penis into cumming.



This one of those alpha macho wannabe myths that people say to sound cool. Real world sex is almost never like this. Porn is not real life.
i only said that bc i experience it IRL so it’s not a myth
 
doesn’t matter for me when i’m circumcised and desentisided to porn
 
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Hence why you should only fuck a girl when both of you are sexually attracted to one another and like their personality
 
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This just can't be the truth, otherwise 90% of the population wouldn't be desperately looking for sex daily, giving up dreams, families, lives, money, carrers for sex, destroying their reputations for sex, travelling half the world for sex

I can only assume that the problem is you
 
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i don’t really believe in love tbh
it's just chemicals tbh
This just can't be the truth, otherwise 90% of the population wouldn't be desperately looking for sex daily, giving up dreams, families, lives, money, carrers for sex, destroying their reputations for sex, travelling half the world for sex

I can only assume that the problem is you
idgaf about sex, and i'm more high T than you
 
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I would still like to be a very attractive man in which women obsess over and live rent free in their heads.
 
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This just can't be the truth, otherwise 90% of the population wouldn't be desperately looking for sex daily, giving up dreams, families, lives, money, carrers for sex, destroying their reputations for sex, travelling half the world for sex

I can only assume that the problem is you
it’s not just sex. it’s the validation, the chase, the lust you two feel, the moments leading into you hooking up, when you cum, etc. it’s the whole process that people crave.
 
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BJs are deff better then anything you can do yourself
 
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The scent of a woman and the softness of her skin and the sounds she makes are what makes sex for me...

The fact that she wants you to feel pleasure and sucks your cock good and hard and clenches her pussy to make it tighter and wraps her legs around you so you cum harder...

The fact that she WANTS you is such a turn on...so much more dopamine is released during the full period of sex.

Because even things like foreplay, kissing and anticipation release tons. Whereas jerking off is just eh..it takes away the novelty of it.

If you’ve ever had a real sexual moment where feelings were involved on your side...and you finally banged a girl you’ve wanted for a while, it’s fucking amazing..

But I agree...it’s really less about the physical feeling of the sex (although it’s good) it’s more about all the emotions surrounding it that makes it so worthwhile.

The roller coaster of emotions that these type of relationships evoke are what causes the male rat race. It’s like a heroin they chase forever. The regular act of sex without the novelty is mundane as you’re just left with the feeling without the excitement. So you’re right in that sense too

Just like with anything else, the truth is somewhere in the middle.
 
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The scent of a woman and the softness of her skin and the sounds she makes are what makes sex for me...

The fact that she wants you to feel pleasure and sucks your cock good and hard and clenches her pussy to make it tighter and wraps her legs around you so you cum harder...

The fact that she WANTS you is such a turn on...so much more dopamine is released during the full period of sex.

Because even things like foreplay, kissing and anticipation release tons. Whereas jerking off is just eh..it takes away the novelty of it.

If you’ve ever had a real sexual moment where feelings were involved on your side...and you finally banged a girl you’ve wanted for a while, it’s fucking amazing..

But I agree...it’s really less about the physical feeling of the sex (although it’s good) it’s more about all the emotions surrounding it that makes it so worthwhile.

The roller coaster of emotions that these type of relationships evoke are what causes the male rat race. It’s like a heroin they chase forever. The regular act of sex without the novelty is mundane as you’re just left with the feeling without the excitement. So you’re right in that sense too

Just like with anything else, the truth is somewhere in the middle.
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This just can't be the truth, otherwise 90% of the population wouldn't be desperately looking for sex daily, giving up dreams, families, lives, money, carrers for sex, destroying their reputations for sex, travelling half the world for sex

I can only assume that the problem is you
They do it because the mental aspect. Dominating someone in bed, hearing them moan, grabbing them, etc. That's what makes sex so good, not the physical sensation on your dick. A fleshlight is better than pussy in that aspect srs.
 
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They do it because the mental aspect. Dominating someone in bed, hearing them moan, grabbing them, etc. That's what makes sex so good, not the physical sensation on your dick. A fleshlight is better than pussy in that aspect srs.

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They do it because the mental aspect. Dominating someone in bed, hearing them moan, grabbing them, etc. That's what makes sex so good, not the physical sensation on your dick. A fleshlight is better than pussy in that aspect srs.
my reply was aimed at his "You virgins aren't missing out on as much as you think you are" remark
 
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They do it because the mental aspect. Dominating someone in bed, hearing them moan, grabbing them, etc. That's what makes sex so good, not the physical sensation on your dick. A fleshlight is better than pussy in that aspect srs.
everything in the world is about sex. and sex isn’t even about sex. it’s about power. -oscar wilde
 
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It's true though. Real world sex is honestly nothing like what most virgins think it is. They think they are missing out on some world changing event. In reality all they are really missing out on is a slightly different way to stimulate their penis into cumming.



This is one of those alpha macho wannabe myths that people say to sound cool. Real world sex is almost never like this. Porn is not real life.
We get it bro you are a starfish in bed
 
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Legit. It's more about the validation you get from knowing a woman finds you attractive.
 
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It’s about validation, bro

Your hand or porn can’t give you that
 
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That’s the reason why I often preferred fapping to Stacy porn over real sex with my Becky gf. Once the validation is obtained you only care about the best sensation
 
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Sex with my bed is better
 
I just want to FFFUUUUUUCCKKKKK
 
This just can't be the truth, otherwise 90% of the population wouldn't be desperately looking for sex daily, giving up dreams, families, lives, money, carrers for sex, destroying their reputations for sex, travelling half the world for sex

Most people don't do this...
 
Most men will backstab their close friends for sex

Disagree. Tbh I think people on lookism and incel boards massively overestimate how much sex actually matters to the average person. People really aren't as sex crazed as popular culture makes them out to be. The idea that the average person will just literally destroy their lives trying to get laid is nonsense.
 
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Disagree. Tbh I think people on lookism and incel boards massively overestimate how much sex actually matters to the average person. People really aren't as sex crazed as popular culture makes them out to be. The idea that the average person will just literally destroy their lives trying to get laid is nonsense.
Destroy their lives? Probably not.

But men will certainly screw over their friends for girls. I’ve seen so many men change their personalities completely after they get a girl. However that is just an anecdotal example tbf
 
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I dont give a fuck if the bitch lives or dies
 
Most men will backstab their close friends for sex
Most men are normies and don't have real friends.
If one of my boys had a gf & she came onto me I'd tell her to get the fuck outa it & tell my bro immediately.

I wouldn't give a fuck if she was just the gf of one of my normie friends though. I'd tap that ass
 
A cheap Fleshlight I got gives a more intense feeling than any pussy or asshole I've fucked. Same goes for girls though, you think your dick compares to a 12" ribbed vibrating dildo? Jfl.
Get your dick ribbed like a dildo and vibrate through self-induced spasms theory confirmed!
 
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