SharpOrange
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Women are conditioned to see straight sex as the standard for sexual encounters and so they have sex with men. Men and their bodies however don't actually arouse a woman. What she finds arousing is seeing herself involved in "sexy time".
Women engage in sexual self-focus, which means they find arousal within their own body and their own physical sensations.
The man can cause arousal by making her feel desired and "taking her", it's not his body that turns her on, but rather what it represents. If he's handsome and/or strong and influential the fact that a man with those attributes is pursuing her is what she finds arousing. That's why looks and status matter, it's to trigger these feelings.
Women engage in sexual self-focus, which means they find arousal within their own body and their own physical sensations.
The man can cause arousal by making her feel desired and "taking her", it's not his body that turns her on, but rather what it represents. If he's handsome and/or strong and influential the fact that a man with those attributes is pursuing her is what she finds arousing. That's why looks and status matter, it's to trigger these feelings.