The personality pill

[Deleted member 15698]

We all know that looks matters, and affects people's perception of your personality. But, what is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women?

Being stable and nonreactive

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive. And people with these traits hate other people with these traits

As a male, if you are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive, women will be magnetically repulsed away from you. Their reactions to you will literally be a panic response, because you'll evoke a negative emotional state in them

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

Aa a male, you should strive to be this way anyway. While it will help you get more and better women, more importantly you'll do better in life and be more respected by other men.

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

 

[Duke of cumskins]

Well yes but not exactly true being nonreactive and quiet is how every incel acts irl.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Well yes but not exactly true being nonreactive and quiet is how every incel acts irl.

I should have clarified. I mean emotionally unreactive. This is contrasted with incels, who are emotionally hyperreactive but verbally nonreactive. That's actually classic autism spectrum behavior

 

[Blackpilled1027]

Bro i'm currently getting hard simped by a girl (she's hard messaging me with story etc...)
I anwsered coldly but she continues to give more details of her story
What should I do ?
The foid is telling me some shitty story, idk the fuck why she's doing this
Idk what to respond

 

[metagross]

We all know that looks matters, and affects people's perception of your personality. But, what is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women?

Being stable and nonreactive

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive. And people with these traits hate other people with these traits

As a male, if you are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive, women will be magnetically repulsed away from you. Their reactions to you will literally be a panic response, because you'll evoke a negative emotional state in them

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

Aa a male, you should strive to be this way anyway. While it will help you get more and better women, more importantly you'll do better in life and be more respected by other men.

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

Women will know your "personality" when you meet them.

They will never think that some short, weak ugly guy is "confident" and "stable".
It will just be seen as overcompensating. I am the calmest guy on the planet and it has zero effect.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Bro i'm currently getting hard simped by a girl (she's hard messaging me with story etc...)
I anwsered coldly but she continues to give more details of her story
What should I do ?
The foid is telling me some shitty story, idk the fuck why she's doing this
Idk what to respond

Too vague bro just drop screens and I tell you what to say

The rule of texting: it's not to aimlessly make conversation, it's to set up hanging out irl

Maybe just ignore everything she said and reply "wanna chill Thursday?"

 

[Duke of cumskins]

I should have clarified. I mean emotionally unreactive. This is contrasted with incels, who are emotionally hyperreactive but verbally nonreactive. That's actually classic autism spectrum behavior

Still think being serious/tough is a meme we got from movies irl Chad is cheerful approachable and easy to talk to

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Still think being serious/tough is a meme we got from movies irl Chad is cheerful approachable and easy to talk to

Not mutually exclusive and you should be both. I always make girls laugh, walking around like you're an mma weirdo wannabe tough guy is a bad look. But at the core, actually BE tough

 

[Blackpilled1027]

Too vague bro just drop screens and I tell you what to say

The rule of texting: it's not to aimlessly make conversation, it's to set up hanging out irl

Maybe just ignore everything she said and reply "wanna chill Thursday?"

It's only vocals bro, she's laughing, telling me her life etc.. I don't wanna believe bullshit but she's really into it.
Are you sure about the "wanna chill Thursday" ? This seems really weird and non-sens in the context

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Women will know your "personality" when you meet them.

They will never think that some short, weak ugly guy is "confident" and "stable".
It will just be seen as overcompensating. I am the calmest guy on the planet and it has zero effect.

There is truth in this, which is why I prefaced

This advice only applies if your looks actually get you in the game. Obviously if they don't, it's irrelevant. It doesn't take girls who aren't attracted to you and make them attracted to you

What it does is stops you from fumbling with girls who were initially interested

A bad candidate is someone who girls never look at or talk to at all. A good candidate is a guy who gets some dates from apps/socials, but the girl starts acting disinterested or uncomfortable and there's never a second meetup

 

[jordan56]

personality is key if you are physical unattractive

 

[Deleted member 15698]

It's only vocals bro, she's laughing, telling me her life etc.. I don't wanna believe bullshit but she's really into it.
Are you sure about the "wanna chill Thursday" ? This seems really weird and non-sens in the context

Well I don't know the context, so no I'm not sure. Like if she's telling you her grandma died or telling you something really important to her, saying "Wanna chill Thursday?" would just come off as a dick move yes.

But in general, not responding to the context of what a girl is saying can be a strong play. If she flat out says no to wanna chill, she was never gonna let you fuck anyway so no loss

 

[Deleted member 15698]

personality is key if you are physical unattractive

Nah, it's more the opposite. If you're unattractive altogether it's irrelevant, if you're attractive it's what turns interest in to sex

 

[Blackpilled1027]

Well I don't know the context, so no I'm not sure. Like if she's telling you her grandma died or telling you something really important to her, saying "Wanna chill Thursday?" would just come off as a dick move yes.

But in general, not responding to the context of what a girl is saying can be a strong play. If she flat out says no to wanna chill, she was never gonna let you fuck anyway so no loss

Ok well idk what to ask her, i think i'll be so cringe if I ask her to go on a date rn

 

[Reckless Turtle]

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

Many of the most sexually-successful men are narcissists. Aggressive "misogyny" also correlates with higher sexual success.

Scientific Blackpill

The Scientific Blackpill is about understanding the nature of human social and sexual behavior with a particular focus on evolutionary psychological perspectives...

incels.wiki

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Many of the most sexually-successful men are narcissists. Aggressive "misogyny" also correlates with higher sexual success.

Yeah both of these terms describe me, so I don't disagree. Re-read what I said knowing that I am differentiating BETWEEN actual narcissistic behavior, and the autistic behavior that people on here are saying is narcissist

Also keep in mind that narcissistic dudes with game are not acting narcissistic. They are typically deliberately attempting to disguise their narcissist traits, and girls they date don't know the truth until much later on

 

[casadebanho]

We all know that looks matters, and affects people's perception of your personality. But, what is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women?

Being stable and nonreactive

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive. And people with these traits hate other people with these traits

As a male, if you are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive, women will be magnetically repulsed away from you. Their reactions to you will literally be a panic response, because you'll evoke a negative emotional state in them

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

Aa a male, you should strive to be this way anyway. While it will help you get more and better women, more importantly you'll do better in life and be more respected by other men.

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

Suifuel because I am neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Ok well idk what to ask her, i think i'll be so cringe if I ask her to go on a date rn

Why would it be cringe? If you think asking a girl to hang out would be cringe, that's a very bad sign. It is always good to be sexually aggressive. Do you think you're friendzoned or what?

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Suifuel because I am neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive

At least you're self aware, so it's not over yet. Maybe

 

[casadebanho]

At least you're self aware, so it's not over yet. Maybe

I notice that when someone points out something about my looks I get very defensive

I think when I ascend with all my surgeries I will stop being like this

 

[Deleted member 15698]

I notice that when someone points out something about my looks I get very defensive

I think when I ascend with all my surgeries I will stop being like this

Yeah that's rough, if you are ugly enough that people irl are actually just making fun of your looks it would be difficult to develop in to a confident man

 

[Typ]

Those personality traits are largely dependant on genetics and environmental factors during developmental phases. You can try to fake it, but they're likely to see right through it if you don't have the LMS to back it up.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Those personality traits are largely dependant on genetics and environmental factors during developmental phases. You can try to fake it, but they're likely to see right through it if you don't have the LMS to back it up.

Nah, there is a large cognitive component to it. Consistent patterns of thinking become hardwired and subconscious, but awareness of negative thinking patterns and attempts to think & act differently is proven to change behavioral defaults in the long run

& long before we scientifically understood how this worked, we knew it anyway. "Fake it till you make it"

Or just cry about how you have to act timid and emotional because it's your destiny due to genes and parents. That'll get em wet

 

[eduardkoopman]

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive.

our daily dose of redpill .

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Also keep in mind that narcissistic dudes with game are not acting narcissistic. They are typically deliberately attempting to disguise their narcissist traits, and girls they date don't know the truth until much later on

Not really. I'd argue that many of them are blatantly narcy. Your argument gives credence to women implying that men are somehow able to "manipulate" them into sex, which is bullshit, frankly.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Not really. I'd argue that many of them are blatantly narcy. Your argument gives credence to women implying that men are somehow able to "manipulate" them into sex, which is bullshit, frankly.

That's you saying that, not me. Define "manipulate in to sex."

Do we deliberately control other people's perception of us by exaggerating some aspects of ourselves, and concealing or downplaying others? Yeah, humans do that in any interaction where the outcome is important. Job interviews for instance. First dates too. And women do this as well. The "manipulate" word I don't take issue with, it's the "in to sex." Obviously whether of not a girl has sex is her own free will, and if it's not blatant forced rape, she made the decision to do it

 

[Reckless Turtle]

That's you saying that, not me. Define "manipulate in to sex."

Do we deliberately control other people's perception of us by exaggerating some aspects of ourselves, and concealing or downplaying others? Yeah, humans do that in any interaction where the outcome is important. Job interviews for instance. First dates too. And women do this as well. The "manipulate" word I don't take issue with, it's the "in to sex." Obviously whether of not a girl has sex is her own free will, and if it's not blatant forced rape, she made the decision to do it

I'm arguing that covert narcissism is a laughable concept, as is "game."

 

[Deleted member 15698]

I'm arguing that covert narcissism is a laughable concept, as is "game."

I wonder if you have any obvious psychological motives to want that to be true

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I wonder if you have any obvious psychological motives to want that to be true

IDK, I'm just speaking off of observation.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

IDK, I'm just speaking off of observation.

I see. There's an obvious flaw there, and it's perspective. We're digressing away from my initial point here but that's fine

A narcisstic guy seduces a girl while you watch. All three of you see the same thing through a different perspective.

To you, a third party observer and blackpilled male, you see him as a blatant narcissist. She sees it differently, and he sees it & himself differently than both of you

This has been my own "observation" too. So, so many guys I've known think I'm an asshole, a narcissist, a douchebag. Usually guys who I was in brief sexual competition with or fucked a girl they were friendzoned by.

But I don't see myself as an asshole or narcisstic. I see myself as a pretty good person, who does put myself first as all people should. And if you ask any girl who's known me if I'm a narcisstic douchebag, they'd say "No way!"

In short, maybe many of the males you've witnessed be sexually successful, you've seen as narcisstic. But it's likely that they don't see themselves that way, and other people observing it without a jealousy component don't see them that way either. Who's to say your perspective is the right one?

 

[Mustascend]

We all know that looks matters, and affects people's perception of your personality. But, what is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women?

Being stable and nonreactive

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive. And people with these traits hate other people with these traits

As a male, if you are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive, women will be magnetically repulsed away from you. Their reactions to you will literally be a panic response, because you'll evoke a negative emotional state in them

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

Aa a male, you should strive to be this way anyway. While it will help you get more and better women, more importantly you'll do better in life and be more respected by other men.

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

Incels get it wrong about chadfishers getting women after having a BaD PERsoNALIty. Being an asshole or even criminal attracts a lot of women. They love that you're fearless and get a thrill out of life. A true bad personality is being submissive, emotional, and acting desperate. Basedzeus tried this with a girl who wouldn't leave him alone and she completely lost interest. I've yet to see a tinder experiment with an unmasculine, simp chad

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Incels get it wrong about chadfishers getting women after having a BaD PERsoNALIty. Being an asshole or even criminal attracts a lot of women. They love that you're fearless and get a thrill out of life. A true bad personality is being submissive, emotional, and acting desperate. Basedzeus tried this with a girl who wouldn't leave him alone and she completely lost interest. I've yet to see a tinder experiment with an unmasculine, simp chad

Nailed it

I would unironically rather be friends with a violent criminal than your average incel. At least a criminal is relatable and relatively normal, just aggressive low inhib and retarded. Beats depressed, angry, anxious, hateful of others, etc. Any day

 

[Mustascend]

Nailed it

I would unironically rather be friends with a violent criminal than your average incel. At least a criminal is relatable and relatively normal, just aggressive low inhib and retarded. Beats depressed, angry, anxious, hateful of others, etc. Any day

100% I wholeheartedly believe in the blackpill but their insecurities causing resentment towards women makes them really unlikable.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

100% I wholeheartedly believe in the blackpill but their insecurities causing resentment towards women makes them really unlikable.

Yea

I emphasize even because of course endless rejection and scorn would hurt you and make you develop an unloveable personality. But if they want to make it, the personalitymax must go with the looksmax. No one said it's fair or easy

 

[eduardkoopman]

is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women
Being stable and nonreactive

"in your control" cope.
being stable emtionally; kinda cope that it's within ones control. Personality is created the first 7 years of life mainly. And one is kinda having zero control on how one develops the first 7 years of life.

 

[Kirby7000]

Bro i'm currently getting hard simped by a girl (she's hard messaging me with story etc...)
I anwsered coldly but she continues to give more details of her story
What should I do ?
The foid is telling me some shitty story, idk the fuck why she's doing this
Idk what to respond

Call her fat.

 

[Kirby7000]

Yea

I emphasize even because of course endless rejection and scorn would hurt you and make you develop an unloveable personality. But if they want to make it, the personalitymax must go with the looksmax. No one said it's fair or easy

Nah.

Looks=health

Healthier you are, the better you interact and more importantly how others interact with you.

 

[Deleted member 14138]

We all know that looks matters, and affects people's perception of your personality. But, what is in your control, and majorly impacts your success or failure with women?

Being stable and nonreactive

All women are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive. And people with these traits hate other people with these traits

As a male, if you are neurotic, unsure, sensitive, and reactive, women will be magnetically repulsed away from you. Their reactions to you will literally be a panic response, because you'll evoke a negative emotional state in them

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

Aa a male, you should strive to be this way anyway. While it will help you get more and better women, more importantly you'll do better in life and be more respected by other men.

*I know there is this obsession with dark triad behavior. This is rooted in cope, because weird kids with autism relate their internalized mental distress, which they cope with by telling themselves they're sociopathic, to actual sociopaths who externalize this. But this is in contrast with what you see working 99% of the time irl. Most guys are who slay are not unhinged maniacs, and are actually just "cool" and speak slowly

Hella low IQ post. Reminds of a PUA sales pitch.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Hella low IQ post. Reminds of a PUA sales pitch.

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Runescape addict

 

[The_God]

But as a male, if you are mentally stable, collected, calm, and nonreactive, women will be magnetically attracted to you because being around you will feel good.

the personality generates attraction but not sexually. about the rest .. it's obvious