disillusioned
Kraken
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Note that I'm talking purely about the actual physical sensations. There is an obvious advantage to sex mentally, in that you are getting off on the fact that you are 'spreading your seed' so to speak. But most of that 'pleasure' is mental rather than physical.
Frankly, the actual physical sensations of the sex acts are not as remarkable as they are hyped out to be. Go look at all the threads blackpillers/incels have made over the years where they talk about their first time (typically with a prostitute), and how many of them weren't even able to cum at all. I remember this one dude who said his prostitute had to finish him off with a handjob because her bj and fucking weren't enough to make him cum.
Once you remove the wow factor of actually having sex with another person, the raw pleasure of fucking/getting sucked is not as great of a step up compared to getting off by yourself. It's mostly just mental. Consider amateur handjob porn videos: The guys in those videos often cum very hard yet they are literally just getting a handjob. It's the fact they are being pleased by an actual woman that makes them cum so far, and not the actual physical feeling of the handjob. This proves my point: Actual sex feels better because the guy is being validated by the foid's desire to please him rather than the physical sensations themselves.
Frankly, the actual physical sensations of the sex acts are not as remarkable as they are hyped out to be. Go look at all the threads blackpillers/incels have made over the years where they talk about their first time (typically with a prostitute), and how many of them weren't even able to cum at all. I remember this one dude who said his prostitute had to finish him off with a handjob because her bj and fucking weren't enough to make him cum.
Once you remove the wow factor of actually having sex with another person, the raw pleasure of fucking/getting sucked is not as great of a step up compared to getting off by yourself. It's mostly just mental. Consider amateur handjob porn videos: The guys in those videos often cum very hard yet they are literally just getting a handjob. It's the fact they are being pleased by an actual woman that makes them cum so far, and not the actual physical feeling of the handjob. This proves my point: Actual sex feels better because the guy is being validated by the foid's desire to please him rather than the physical sensations themselves.