Vantablack
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Have you ever been repulsed by the thought of your woman having laid in bed with another man before? And then when you look around, you realise that nobody around you really seems to care. Especially normies, they don’t even really understand why you are making a big deal of this. After all, it’s normal, everyone has a past right?
People move in and out of relationships. If you’ve ever been in a male - female friend group, almost always would all the men and all the women in that group dated each other at some point. To me, I could never fathom seriously dating a woman that has been with another man, much less a friend. Knowing his dick has been in the same place I put mine disgusts me to no extent.
Yet normies don’t seem to care. It’s a natural thing to do. How is it possible?
The truth is normies don’t view relationships like we do. Autists tend to be literal - words have meanings, and those meanings must be respected. “Love”, marriage, sex, relationship, these are all heavy words with deep meanings. Autists recognise that. There is almost something sacred about it. The old religion recognised this, and that’s why traditionally these things, especially marriage always came with an emphasis on sanctity.
The sanctity of your relationship was destroyed even before she met you, when she chose to have sex with another man. The social contract was discarded, and she knows it too. Both normie men and women realise this: relationships nowadays mean nothing. They are completely transactional, a source of attention, validation, emotional support and stability. They are also social proof, something to flex on social media, to friends and family.
There is nothing sacred, nothing transcendental about modern relationships. Intergender connection has been lost over time. Normies and women have a fundamentally different understanding of what a relationship is meant to be than us.
The true meaning of monogamy is one partner over a LIFETIME. Not right now, it is forever. If a woman has had multiple partners, she is by definition not monogamous. Women intrinsically understand this too. Even if she doesn’t “cheat” on you physically, just by the mere fact of being with multiple men means that she accepts subconsciously accepts non-monogamy. This means that she WILL cheat on you, if not in action then in thought. She WILL think about her exes, her past relationships, she WILL compare you to them (The only exception is if you’re literally the best she’s ever had in every possible aspect, but that’s obviously incredibly rare. If there’s ANY area you’re deficient in, the comparison will creep up. Its never ending).
So what does this mean for you? Men (autists) voluntarily cuck themselves by remaining loyal both in thought and action to one woman, whoever they’re in love with. That’s why her past hurts you so much. That’s why you obsess over it, because intrinsically you realise she’s cheating on you, while you’re completely loyal to her. It’s an unfair dynamic.
Thats also why women tend to care much less about a man’s past than men do about their women. Because they realise that the foolish man is truly loyal, so they don’t need to worry. At worst, it’s if your ex was prettier than her, she’d be a bit insecure. But that’s about it, deep down she knows if you truly are loyal to her or not. In fact, a promiscuous man is often a positive because it means that if he commits to one woman, she must really be special or chosen. When men (autists) commit, they commit. Men are by nature romantics in that way.
So what’s the solution? Obviously fantasising other women or your ex or whatever is gay as a man. That’s what women do, and most women aren’t worthy of your fantasies anyway. The only real and true way to cope therefore is by cheating while you’re in a relationship. That’s when the relationship dynamic between you and your (non virgin) woman is equal. When you are out having as much pussy on the side as possible. If you’ve multiple relationships, ever better!
This is why true chads are unbothered by their woman’s past. It’s why the rich and famous all marry whores. It’s because they’re constantly cheating with younger, prettier foids. Do you think a hollywood actor, famous athlete or billionaire entrepreneur is loyal to one woman? LOL! They get as much pussy on the side. That’s what it takes to create a successful relationship with a modern woman. If you don’t cheat you hand your woman the power and she will slowly resent you for it. It’s why marriages with oofy doofies fail. Whore marries inexperienced normie who falls deep in love with her. Never cheats! While she fantasises about her chad ex. Disgusting, repulsive. How we view cucks with disgust, women view them the same way.
Stop viewing relationships with purity, sanctity and innocence. See the business transaction they really are - a contract to not die alone. Everyone but you understands this. Stop putting so much stock into them, your girl is a whore and so is every other girl. Accept it and live your life beyond it. The transcendent beauty of love has been lost to modernity, you’re the last autist holding on to it. Let it go.
This will be my last post on this topic. I’ve doomposted enough about this, it’s time for me to move on as well.
People move in and out of relationships. If you’ve ever been in a male - female friend group, almost always would all the men and all the women in that group dated each other at some point. To me, I could never fathom seriously dating a woman that has been with another man, much less a friend. Knowing his dick has been in the same place I put mine disgusts me to no extent.
Yet normies don’t seem to care. It’s a natural thing to do. How is it possible?
The truth is normies don’t view relationships like we do. Autists tend to be literal - words have meanings, and those meanings must be respected. “Love”, marriage, sex, relationship, these are all heavy words with deep meanings. Autists recognise that. There is almost something sacred about it. The old religion recognised this, and that’s why traditionally these things, especially marriage always came with an emphasis on sanctity.
The sanctity of your relationship was destroyed even before she met you, when she chose to have sex with another man. The social contract was discarded, and she knows it too. Both normie men and women realise this: relationships nowadays mean nothing. They are completely transactional, a source of attention, validation, emotional support and stability. They are also social proof, something to flex on social media, to friends and family.
There is nothing sacred, nothing transcendental about modern relationships. Intergender connection has been lost over time. Normies and women have a fundamentally different understanding of what a relationship is meant to be than us.
The true meaning of monogamy is one partner over a LIFETIME. Not right now, it is forever. If a woman has had multiple partners, she is by definition not monogamous. Women intrinsically understand this too. Even if she doesn’t “cheat” on you physically, just by the mere fact of being with multiple men means that she accepts subconsciously accepts non-monogamy. This means that she WILL cheat on you, if not in action then in thought. She WILL think about her exes, her past relationships, she WILL compare you to them (The only exception is if you’re literally the best she’s ever had in every possible aspect, but that’s obviously incredibly rare. If there’s ANY area you’re deficient in, the comparison will creep up. Its never ending).
So what does this mean for you? Men (autists) voluntarily cuck themselves by remaining loyal both in thought and action to one woman, whoever they’re in love with. That’s why her past hurts you so much. That’s why you obsess over it, because intrinsically you realise she’s cheating on you, while you’re completely loyal to her. It’s an unfair dynamic.
Thats also why women tend to care much less about a man’s past than men do about their women. Because they realise that the foolish man is truly loyal, so they don’t need to worry. At worst, it’s if your ex was prettier than her, she’d be a bit insecure. But that’s about it, deep down she knows if you truly are loyal to her or not. In fact, a promiscuous man is often a positive because it means that if he commits to one woman, she must really be special or chosen. When men (autists) commit, they commit. Men are by nature romantics in that way.
So what’s the solution? Obviously fantasising other women or your ex or whatever is gay as a man. That’s what women do, and most women aren’t worthy of your fantasies anyway. The only real and true way to cope therefore is by cheating while you’re in a relationship. That’s when the relationship dynamic between you and your (non virgin) woman is equal. When you are out having as much pussy on the side as possible. If you’ve multiple relationships, ever better!
This is why true chads are unbothered by their woman’s past. It’s why the rich and famous all marry whores. It’s because they’re constantly cheating with younger, prettier foids. Do you think a hollywood actor, famous athlete or billionaire entrepreneur is loyal to one woman? LOL! They get as much pussy on the side. That’s what it takes to create a successful relationship with a modern woman. If you don’t cheat you hand your woman the power and she will slowly resent you for it. It’s why marriages with oofy doofies fail. Whore marries inexperienced normie who falls deep in love with her. Never cheats! While she fantasises about her chad ex. Disgusting, repulsive. How we view cucks with disgust, women view them the same way.
Stop viewing relationships with purity, sanctity and innocence. See the business transaction they really are - a contract to not die alone. Everyone but you understands this. Stop putting so much stock into them, your girl is a whore and so is every other girl. Accept it and live your life beyond it. The transcendent beauty of love has been lost to modernity, you’re the last autist holding on to it. Let it go.
This will be my last post on this topic. I’ve doomposted enough about this, it’s time for me to move on as well.
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