The Reality of Lookism (from my pov)

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Hello,

I hope you guys are doing well, i do not write or use this site often but i would like to share a few things even tho its blatant/ obv and its not unexpected

Of 2023, i had just lost some weight and i was slowly learning about looksmaxxing it was just the redpill content u see on tiktok and i was captivated and slowly i started working on small things you can improve daily and while doing so i was learning more about social status and how such things can affect the way people perceive you

During then i had no prior female interaction neither as friends or anything i was not extremely ugly whatsoever just rly high inhib rly nerdy and so on and no girl ever initiated contact with me given so. As i slowly started working on myself over the summer and so on i realized the same applied with other guys too, i was not respected and they just saw me as an obstacle and they would avoid u if it meant interaction cuz then it would mean fucking up their social status and gradually i noticed it more often.

As i slowly started improving i began noticing how people would treat me better how i would get smiles and laughs more often and people would genuinely enjoy my company (hopefully) and i was the same person as before so how come it would make a diff??? Thats when i started taking notice of lookism and how people will treat u based on looks and how other perceive u and i realized looks are the only true form of social status and nt/nd is bs to SOME extent

2024 2025 filler years just kept ascending
2025-2026 also kept working on myself as of today, jun 7th i am 5'11 barefoot mtn/hmtn i do not stand out but i am farely above avg i improved my speech and masking my nerdy interests (smh) and the world grew kinder to me. now social interactions feel somewhat nice and people around me respect me more which i didnt see before and despite how stupid it sounds im glad i reached this far.

not reaching anywhere this is all prior knowledge everyone knows lookism exists i just didnt believe it till i started experienced it and i wanted to share my view
keep working on yourself its never over :)
 
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Hello,

I hope you guys are doing well, i do not write or use this site often but i would like to share a few things even tho its blatant/ obv and its not unexpected

Of 2023, i had just lost some weight and i was slowly learning about looksmaxxing it was just the redpill content u see on tiktok and i was captivated and slowly i started working on small things you can improve daily and while doing so i was learning more about social status and how such things can affect the way people perceive you

During then i had no prior female interaction neither as friends or anything i was not extremely ugly whatsoever just rly high inhib rly nerdy and so on and no girl ever initiated contact with me given so. As i slowly started working on myself over the summer and so on i realized the same applied with other guys too, i was not respected and they just saw me as an obstacle and they would avoid u if it meant interaction cuz then it would mean fucking up their social status and gradually i noticed it more often.

As i slowly started improving i began noticing how people would treat me better how i would get smiles and laughs more often and people would genuinely enjoy my company (hopefully) and i was the same person as before so how come it would make a diff??? Thats when i started taking notice of lookism and how people will treat u based on looks and how other perceive u and i realized looks are the only true form of social status and nt/nd is bs to SOME extent

2024 2025 filler years just kept ascending
2025-2026 also kept working on myself as of today, jun 7th i am 5'11 barefoot mtn/hmtn i do not stand out but i am farely above avg i improved my speech and masking my nerdy interests (smh) and the world grew kinder to me. now social interactions feel somewhat nice and people around me respect me more which i didnt see before and despite how stupid it sounds im glad i reached this far.

not reaching anywhere this is all prior knowledge everyone knows lookism exists i just didnt believe it till i started experienced it and i wanted to share my view
keep working on yourself its never over :)
dnr
 
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Hello,

I hope you guys are doing well, i do not write or use this site often but i would like to share a few things even tho its blatant/ obv and its not unexpected

Of 2023, i had just lost some weight and i was slowly learning about looksmaxxing it was just the redpill content u see on tiktok and i was captivated and slowly i started working on small things you can improve daily and while doing so i was learning more about social status and how such things can affect the way people perceive you

During then i had no prior female interaction neither as friends or anything i was not extremely ugly whatsoever just rly high inhib rly nerdy and so on and no girl ever initiated contact with me given so. As i slowly started working on myself over the summer and so on i realized the same applied with other guys too, i was not respected and they just saw me as an obstacle and they would avoid u if it meant interaction cuz then it would mean fucking up their social status and gradually i noticed it more often.

As i slowly started improving i began noticing how people would treat me better how i would get smiles and laughs more often and people would genuinely enjoy my company (hopefully) and i was the same person as before so how come it would make a diff??? Thats when i started taking notice of lookism and how people will treat u based on looks and how other perceive u and i realized looks are the only true form of social status and nt/nd is bs to SOME extent

2024 2025 filler years just kept ascending
2025-2026 also kept working on myself as of today, jun 7th i am 5'11 barefoot mtn/hmtn i do not stand out but i am farely above avg i improved my speech and masking my nerdy interests (smh) and the world grew kinder to me. now social interactions feel somewhat nice and people around me respect me more which i didnt see before and despite how stupid it sounds im glad i reached this far.

not reaching anywhere this is all prior knowledge everyone knows lookism exists i just didnt believe it till i started experienced it and i wanted to share my view
keep working on yourself its never over :)
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Some people just have to mature into their looks blame endocrine disruptors
 
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