The reason I need to looksmax is that only chad could get away with my autism

[Deleted member 11126]

I have friend who are 5'5 that do better then me because they are NT. Looksmaxing really is only necessary for ugly people and autists. If you are a normie-HTN and you think its your looks you are an autist.

On my first date it was so bad I slapped a girl for touching my dick. I have to drink constantly to even go on dates. I do 4 shots before going out of my room to talk with normies. Only way to make up for this is to be the quirkie chad.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

If chad acted like me normies would accept it. But people just think I am on drugs or there is something wrong with me. I can only act semi normal when I am drunk or high basically over for me.

 

[Deleted member 19766]

That's brutal bro FUCK you will literally need to be a tall buff chadlite+ to compensate for that, hope you're white or white-passing as well

 

[Orc]

the difference between women thinking you're an autist or a himbo is literally just appearance.

 

[Deleted member 21969]

The NTpill destroyed me

 

[Deleted member 11126]

That's brutal bro FUCK you will literally need to be a tall buff chadlite+ to compensate for that, hope you're white or white-passing as well

I am White normie. I basically just am autistic come to terms with it. I found 4chan at 11 and incel places at 13. Most people are not truly ugly and if they are they know it.

I would say half of people there issue is autism looks are easier to change then brain chemistry. Being a chad won't cure autism but normies put up with more bizzare behavior the prettier you are. A normie tier guy acting like a sperg will never get away with it.

 

[thereallegend]

Most people are not truly ugly and if they are they know it.

Most people are too ugly to get true sexual desire but most people are NT enough to maintain a LTR.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

the difference between women thinking you're an autist or a himbo is literally just appearance.

The blackpill and the NTpill both exist. Normie tier people cannot get away with acting strange Chad can. And if you are below average people automatically assume you are bad even if you are NT.

I do better online for this reason anyone can seem NT for a while through text messages but irl dates are different. Drinking is the only solution I have found to come across better.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Most people are too ugly to get ture sexual desire but most people are NT enough to maintain a LTR.

Idk why this forum copes with slayers. For one most people won't be one. Also LTR is good enough in my opinion. As long as you don't cuck LTRs are better. In the traditional sense they have worked well for most men and they still work today if the girl has low body count.

 

[thereallegend]

Idk why this forum copes with slayers. For one most people won't be one. Also LTR is good enough in my opinion. As long as you don't cuck LTRs are better. In the traditional sense they have worked well for most men and they still work today if the girl has low body count.

It's logical to be a serial monogamist today. Just accept your LTR will fail at some point and be good looking enough to attract new mates.

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

There are very few actual autistic people here. For most it's just used as cope for their subpair looks.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

It's logical to be a serial monogamist today. Just accept your LTR will fail at some point and be good looking enough to attract new mates.

They still work outside of the West. I plan on getting money then moving to Asia with a White girl. Maybe Japan idk.

The USA is fucked beyond repair

 

[Deleted member 11126]

There are very few actual autistic people here. For most it's just used as cope for their subpair looks.

Do I seem autistic?

 

[Orc]

The blackpill and the NTpill both exist. Normie tier people cannot get away with acting strange Chad can. And if you are below average people automatically assume you are bad even if you are NT.

I do better online for this reason anyone can seem NT for a while through text messages but irl dates are different. Drinking is the only solution I have found to come across better.

people automatically assume you're less intelligent if you're muscular, you don't need to be above average facially for this to help you.

just pretend to be stupid, people love retards, they don't like autists.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

people automatically assume you're less intelligent if you're muscular, you don't need to be above average facially for this to help you.

just pretend to be stupid, people love retards, they don't like autists.

I can do this drunk but otherwise its very difficult and I hate it. It feels like a form of torture.

 

[Deleted member 24167]

I am nt pale skin htn ethnic and still having problem to get MTB+girls.Tell me OP, What is my problem ?

 

[Deleted member 11126]

I am nt pale skin htn ethnic and still having problem to get MTB+girls.Tell me OP, What is my problem ?

>tfw htn pale ethnic and still no gf

 

[Orc]

I can do this drunk but otherwise its very difficult and I hate it. It feels like a form of torture.

autism doesn't fundamentally make you incapable of socialization, it just makes you prone to anti-social feedback loops, we have issues starting and keeping up contact, but once it's made most of us don't have any issues talking, being able to have conversations isn't an inherent skill, even normies become socially retarded after not doing it for a while, many still haven't recovered from the pandemic socially.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

autism doesn't fundamentally make you incapable of socialization, it just makes you prone to anti-social feedback loops, we have issues starting and keeping up contact, but once it's made most of us don't have any issues talking, being able to have conversations isn't an inherent skill, even normies become socially retarded after not doing it for a while, many still haven't recovered from the pandemic socially.

Yeah I am skeptical about how many of these modern day illnesses are real and not organic responses to the environment. Most people diagnosed as aspie are smart introverts. It is sort of a feedback loop I've been working a job that forces me to talk with people now small talk doesn't feel as bad. The first few weeks I felt anxious I was not used to being around people all day I hardly left my room.

 

[Orc]

Yeah I am skeptical about how many of these modern day illnesses are real and not organic responses to the environment. Most people diagnosed as aspie are smart introverts.

most diagnosed aspies have an IQ between 50 and 70, they're locked in their basements and strapped to chairs, unable to function in society without violent outbursts and meltdowns.

but the life expectancy for these people is like 30.

I've been working a job that forces me to talk with people now small talk doesn't feel as bad. The first few weeks I felt anxious I was not used to being around people all day I hardly left my room.

it gets better with age, social situations don't give me any anxiety anymore, just keep exposing yourself to social situations.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

most diagnosed aspies have an IQ between 50 and 70, they're locked in their basements and strapped to chairs, unable to function in society without violent outbursts and meltdowns.

but the life expectancy for these people is like 30.


it gets better with age, social situations don't give me any anxiety anymore, just keep exposing yourself to social situations.

No thats low functioning autism. Aspie is a term for someone with aspergers or a mild form of autism that allows them to still have careers. Most aspies are above 110 IQ

 

[Orc]

No thats low functioning autism. Aspie is a term for someone with aspergers or a mild form of autism that allows them to still have careers. Most aspies are above 110 IQ

here's a representative sample.

IQ in children with autism spectrum disorders: data from the Special Needs and Autism Project (SNAP) - PubMed

In this epidemiological sample, ASD was less strongly associated with intellectual disability than traditionally held and there was only limited evidence of a distinctive IQ profile. Adaptive outcome was significantly impaired even for those children of average intelligence.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

>Of the 75 children with ASD, 55% had an intellectual disability (IQ<70) but only 16% had moderate to severe intellectual disability (IQ<50); 28% had average intelligence (115>IQ>85) but only 3% were of above average intelligence (IQ>115).

most people with 'high functioning' autism are still severely impaired, the unemployment rate for people with autism is lower than that of down syndrome.

>Adaptive outcome was significantly impaired even for those children of average intelligence.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

here's a representative sample.

IQ in children with autism spectrum disorders: data from the Special Needs and Autism Project (SNAP) - PubMed

In this epidemiological sample, ASD was less strongly associated with intellectual disability than traditionally held and there was only limited evidence of a distinctive IQ profile. Adaptive outcome was significantly impaired even for those children of average intelligence.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

>Of the 75 children with ASD, 55% had an intellectual disability (IQ<70) but only 16% had moderate to severe intellectual disability (IQ<50); 28% had average intelligence (115>IQ>85) but only 3% were of above average intelligence (IQ>115).

most people with 'high functioning' autism are still severely impaired, the unemployment rate for people with autism is lower than that of down syndrome.

>Adaptive outcome was significantly impaired even for those children of average intelligence.

Really? Huh I read people who were aspies were smarter. I've also met a lot of them in STEM. I guess maybe its correlated on high and low intelligence.

 

[Orc]

Really? Huh I read people who were aspies were smarter. I've also met a lot of them in STEM. I guess maybe its correlated on high and low intelligence.

you're meeting the top 30% that isn't strapped to a chair and violently drooling, I went to school for years with the other 70%.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

you're meeting the top 30% that isn't strapped to a chair and violently drooling, I went to school for years with the other 70%.

Special ed school? Also how was that?

 

[Orc]

Special ed school? Also how was that?

as if ABA isn't bad enough on it's own I was exposed to it while surrounded by actual diagnosed schizos and adhd victims that always refused to take their medication.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

as if ABA isn't bad enough on it's own I was exposed to it while surrounded by actual diagnosed schizos and adhd victims that always refused to take their medication.

What does ABA stand for?

 

[Orc]

What does ABA stand for?

applied behavior analysis.

it's verbally abusing people with autism into thinking they are the problem and they need to change, disregarding any feelings they might have for the sake of normality.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

applied behavior analysis.

it's verbally abusing people with autism into thinking they are the problem and they need to change, disregarding any feelings they might have for the sake of normality.

I'm not entirely opposed to stuff like this. Chris Chan is a good example there are videos of him at 10 being decently good at talking. His parents rejected enrolling him in a HS for autism. And whenever he got bullied they sheltered him and told him it was not his fault.

A lot of autistic people end up borderline narcy because there parents constantly reward bad behavior and put up with them acting out.

 

[rand anon]

Water, pretty much the case for most here

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Water, pretty much the case for most here

There is a face for your autism. But there is no autism for your face.

 

[Mastermind]

the difference between women thinking you're an autist or a himbo is literally just appearance.

It's not, looks don't really affect how NT you are perceived to be
They however set the bar for how confident you are allowed to be without foids feeling the urge to put you down, but they can still tell the 'tism even if you are GL