The reason why ND men become hateful and misogynistic

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Neurodivergent men very commonly grow up with a naïve and pedestalised view of women. After all, at least at a young age they are generally kinder to them than other men, and show (condescending) sympathy which is misinterpreted as genuine.

Nd men also often consume a lot of media like anime and cartoons depicting idealised, innocent forms of love between a man and a women, that leave out all of the murkiness and nuance of real heterosexual partnerships. Not being exposed to parties and the various heavily sexual/degenerate rituals of one’s teenage years due to social exclusion leads them to grow up even more uneducated and naïve about the reality of how women are.

I was watching the chris chan documentary again recently and whilst he is an extreme example, I noticed how he embodies these patterns to the fullest. He distrusts any male acquaintances, quickly categorising them as trolls, yet any female persona that contacts him with a hint of friendliness becomes a “gal-pal” and the next object of his infatuation. Despite his repeated romantic failures, he continues to pedestalise them and treat them as if they can do no wrong; to him, women are sweet, innocent beings of pure goodness, whilst other men are cruel, hateful and unkind. This mentality is not uncommon among autists.

But eventually, these illusions shatter once the developmentally-delayed autist eventually encounters the real world. He realises that he has been lied to- women are not these innocent, pure beings- they embody all of the faults of men if not more. Being promiscious, capable of cruelty, infidelity, obscenity. Coupled with the almost inevitable life circumstance of inceldom the autist finds himself in, looking on at the girls he once pedestalised becoming no more than sluts in his eyes, he becomes deeply hateful. He felt that the universe promised him a woman that simply doesn’t exist, she was torn away from him

NTs have a “healthier” view on this from a younger age, they do not unfairly apply those “pure” traits to them and take much less offense at the idea of a woman being a sexual being in the same way a man is. We can wrap our internal disgust in various ideological or anthropological arguments but the fact is that autists have a much heavier “hypocrisy” in the way we view men and women’s sexual habits, due to the preconceived notions of purity that we held about women for much longer.

To a normie, a woman’s body count is literally just a number. You can call them a cuck if you want but the fact is the “rules of the game” regarding the sexual market that they internalised in their developmental years are simply different to yours, and favour them much better than your own more restrictive ones do in what has become of modern society. And there isn’t really anything you can do about it. You can hold out for your pure, kind virginal wife but she probably doesn’t exist and if she does, wants a man more impressive than yourself. A brutal pill to swallow
 
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DNR but i would like too think it was a good thread
 
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Great thread, saw this phenomenon play out in real time with my autistic friends, and it also happened to me to an extent, but ultimately my conclusion was simply that men and women are both capable of being dickheads in different ways. I think the problem with autists is how late it happens, and how little exposure they get to women around their age
 
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I think the problem with autists is how late it happens, and how little exposure they get to women around their age
Yeah this is a recurring theme with ndcels
Life milestones come too late and you’re perpetually behind, retarded in the literal sense
 
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Yeah this is a recurring theme with ndcels
Life milestones come too late and you’re perpetually behind, retarded in the literal sense
I’m also behind a lot in life milestones, but because I only have adhd and ocd it is infinitely easier to just go outside and socialize, anxiety kicks my ass but people don’t see me as “weird and creepy” like they do for autists automatically. Brutal
 
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2 of my closest friends are autistic, and it’s genuinely crazy how my brain processes their actions. I often have the instinct to feel anger towards random quirks they display, or feel repulsed by how “off” their social timing can be. It’s what blackpilled me about autism, being “neurodivergent” isn’t what actually dooms men, it’s autism. No other condition comes close
 
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2 of my closest friends are autistic, and it’s genuinely crazy how my brain processes their actions. I often have the instinct to feel anger towards random quirks they display, or feel repulsed by how “off” their social timing can be. It’s what blackpilled me about autism, being “neurodivergent” isn’t what actually dooms men, it’s autism. No other condition comes close
and this is for people who I already had many shared interests with, and generally liked being around from the start. So for the average autist trying to socialize with normies without those advantages. It feels like a completely fucked situation
 
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