shrek
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The reason many of us (including myself) are “quiet” or “shy” especially in large groups is because:
1.) We have limited social skills and simply don’t know what to say
2.) We don’t find the things normies talk about very interesting and/or normies don’t care about the things we find interesting
AND FINALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON:
3.) We have 0 confidence due to previous social encounters having gone wrong. I remember up until I gained some muscle, whenever I was in a group setting I was excluded, talked over and interrupted. Not by chads, but usually by normies to below average normies.
Even when I was talking to someone one on one it’s happened where they just straight up started doing something else while I was talking and didn’t pay attention. Nowadays even tho girls compliment me and I have a better body than 99% of guys, I’m still quiet and never really bother to open up to others or really talk about myself since I assume nobody gives a shit.
Sad reality. I hope with time this can be improved upon
1.) We have limited social skills and simply don’t know what to say
2.) We don’t find the things normies talk about very interesting and/or normies don’t care about the things we find interesting
AND FINALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON:
3.) We have 0 confidence due to previous social encounters having gone wrong. I remember up until I gained some muscle, whenever I was in a group setting I was excluded, talked over and interrupted. Not by chads, but usually by normies to below average normies.
Even when I was talking to someone one on one it’s happened where they just straight up started doing something else while I was talking and didn’t pay attention. Nowadays even tho girls compliment me and I have a better body than 99% of guys, I’m still quiet and never really bother to open up to others or really talk about myself since I assume nobody gives a shit.
Sad reality. I hope with time this can be improved upon
