The reason you need to have dopamine

[New Poster]

It makes you more willing to validate other people, do what they want to do, generally make them happy. Then people actually want to be around you. If you're miserable, you're super touchy, low energy and defensive. It kills any social interaction. You need chad level looks or status to make up for it. So much of beimg charismatic and outgoing is being willing to give other people what they want. Lol at the redpill bullshit of pretending to be some standoffish stingy asshole. No one wants to be around that shit. People want to be validated, feel like they're in control, etc. and you're not going to give an inch when you feel like shit. Dopamine makes everything so much easier.

 

[Deleted member 59278]

Definitely. Got a lot more people around me after I started radiating such energy rather than my previous almost depressed energy.

 

[Deleted member 25198]

 

[Deleted member 81422]

Hard dnrd because no dopamine from reading a chunk of words.

 

[cavy]

Hard dnrd because no dopamine from reading a chunk of words.

ur wrong

 

[rgl666]

okay. so how do we “have dopamine”?

 

[New Poster]

okay. so how do we “have dopamine”?

idk, drugs? better sleep/exercise? This is just an observation. I can't fix your life from afar.

 

[Deleted member 2382]

It makes you more willing to validate other people, do what they want to do, generally make them happy. Then people actually want to be around you. So much of beimg charismatic and outgoing is being willing to give other people what they want.

Any time I've been part of a group going to social events I would just go my own way if I didn't get what I wanted
eg. In college if the group was going to a venue that I didn't want to go to and they failed to accept me as their leader and agree with where I wanted to go, I would just go to the venue I wanted to go to on my own

It never dawned on me that I'd have to accept doing what other people want to in order to make them happy in my presence
Others follow my lead or death was my mindset

 

[Mandibular]

shit thread

 

[asdvek]

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[Kelly Oubre Jr]

Lol at the redpill bullshit of pretending to be some standoffish stingy asshole. No one wants to be around that shit.

i was thinking about this earlier its funny how redpillers like hamza recommend social skills books like how to win friends and influence people but in all their social skills guide they tell you the exact opposite advice of the books and tell you to be the mysterious sigma jfl

 

[New Poster]

Any time I've been part of a group going to social events I would just go my own way if I didn't get what I wanted
eg. In college if the group was going to a venue that I didn't want to go to and they failed to accept me as their leader and agree with where I wanted to go, I would just go to the venue I wanted to go to on my own

It never dawned on me that I'd have to accept doing what other people want to in order to make them happy in my presence
Others follow my lead or death was my mindset

The whole redpill leader of men bullshit is one of the easiest ways to ostracise yourself