"the right girl" cope

[barambo]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

 

[Saint]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Mirin the advice

 

[barambo]

I feel like you have to experience this, otherwise you probably won't believe it, but for the ones that have experienced this, you will 100% relate to this, and you know exactly what I'm talking about.

cannon event

 

[Blue Steel]

 

[barambo]

@Ralix @59H390 @K1ngc4rd_ @unon @Leo

 

[barambo]

@Idontknow-

 

[takethewhitepill]

Easy come easy go. There isnt some perfect match that will fall into your lap. But if you dont decide to commit yourself entirely to one purpose you will grab failure from the jaws of success

 

[registerfasterusing]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Juice wrld

 

[barambo]

Easy come easy go. There isnt some perfect match that will fall into your lap. But if you dont decide to commit yourself entirely to one purpose you will grab failure from the jaws of success

agreed but you should never entirely commit to a girl. if you only prioritise her you'll lose yourself and that woman at the same time.

 

[Idontknow-]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Ik ik bro

 

[chitarine]

So the best I should be right now is an incel?

 

[barambo]

So you're saying the best I can do now is be an incel?

No, what I'm actually saying is that you should be ready for absolutely everything when you're in a relationship, because if you are not and something happens, you're going to be in a really, really dark spot.

And what I'm also saying is that you should never put a girl on a pedestal, and you shouldn't expect something from a girl that is unrealistic. Because if you think she's an angel, and if you think that she's the only one, and that she's never going to do anything bad to you, and if you rule out that possibility, you're going to find out the hard way that that's not true.

 

[chitarine]

Juice wrld

all foids are the same

Spoiler

It doesn’t matter they're family members, relatives, friends, or any type of relationship?

 

[barambo]

all foids are the same

Spoiler

It doesn’t matter they're family members, relatives, friends, or any type of relationship?

closest thing to unconditional love is family. and that's if you're lucky.

 

[chitarine]

No, what I'm actually saying is that you should be ready for absolutely everything when you're in a relationship, because if you are not and something happens, you're going to be in a really, really dark spot.

And what I'm also saying is that you should never put a girl on a pedestal, and you shouldn't expect something from a girl that is unrealistic. Because if you think she's an angel, and if you think that she's the only one, and that she's never going to do anything bad to you, and if you rule out that possibility, you're going to find out the hard way that that's not true.

I understand this, but why do we have to waste time in a relationship when we already know the truth of foids ?

 

[barambo]

I understand this, but why do we have to waste time in a relationship when we already know the truth of foids ?

to keep my bloodline and have kids. they're all bad but you have to find one that's the least bad.

 

[green_fn_2033]

treat her like she’s replaceable or be prepared for a world of pain

 

[barambo]

treat her like she’s replaceable or be prepared for a world of pain

100%. no lies told

 

[Anxiety.prods]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

mirin

 

[barambo]

I understand this, but why do we have to waste time in a relationship when we already know the truth of foids ?
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used to hate that fuckass rabbit but he lowk wants the best for us.

 

[chitarine]

to keep my bloodline and have kids. they're all bad but you have to find one that's the least bad.

okay then i would rather be like this (I know i gonna be criticised by my relatives or society if i don't marry or have gf)

 

[barambo]

okay then i would rather be like this (I know i gonna be criticised by my relatives or society if i don't marry or have gf)

just ascend and slay as much as you can theory. that's what's keeping me sane

 

[chitarine]

treat her like she’s replaceable or be prepared for a world of pain

Foids should be treated like this

 

[connbro]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Being an older fucker on here that's had a decent number of relationships I basically learned the no attachment shit after getting my heart wrecked from a bitch who wasn't even that hot lmfao decent body but average face

The less you care about them/a relationship continuing etc the more they like you on average, man shit i've even blatantly been a total dick to them at times and they wind up just letting it go and still liking you lol it's crazy (unless you go fucking ridiculous mean or come across as emotionally bitchy)

Basically never act like you need her ever ever ever, like it could end legit right now and your reaction would be cool no worries see you later homie even if it destroys your damn soul lol

 

[barambo]

Being an older fucker on here that's had a decent number of relationships I basically learned the no attachment shit after getting my heart wrecked from a bitch who wasn't even that hot lmfao decent body but average face

The less you care about them/a relationship continuing etc the more they like you on average, man shit i've even blatantly been a total dick to them at times and they wind up just letting it go and still liking you lol it's crazy (unless you go fucking ridiculous mean or come across as emotionally bitchy)

Basically never act like you need her ever ever ever, like it could end legit right now and your reaction would be cool no worries see you later homie even if it destroys your damn soul lol

100% the dynamic matters so much. the yearner shit they "fantasize" about it is basically just - "let me fuck 6-7 dudes and when im finally ready to settle down, be there for me like a good goy"

used to think that if i gave her a lot of affection and attention she'd want me more, in reality she left me and started texting with a guy after a week. mind you, i was in crutches post surgery and i couldn't walk for 2 months when this happened.

they're loyal to their feelings, not you.

 

[barambo]

Being an older fucker on here that's had a decent number of relationships I basically learned the no attachment shit after getting my heart wrecked from a bitch who wasn't even that hot lmfao decent body but average face

The less you care about them/a relationship continuing etc the more they like you on average, man shit i've even blatantly been a total dick to them at times and they wind up just letting it go and still liking you lol it's crazy (unless you go fucking ridiculous mean or come across as emotionally bitchy)

Basically never act like you need her ever ever ever, like it could end legit right now and your reaction would be cool no worries see you later homie even if it destroys your damn soul lol

i was with her for 5 years and a week after we ended she started talking with someone else

 

[connbro]

100% the dynamic matters so much. the yearner shit they "fantasize" about it is basically just - "let me fuck 6-7 dudes and when im finally ready to settle down, be there for me like a good goy"

used to think that if i gave her a lot of affection and attention she'd want me more, in reality she left me and started texting with a guy after a week. mind you, i was in crutches post surgery and i couldn't walk for 2 months when this happened.

they're loyal to their feelings, not you.

fuuuck bro you were in crutches aswell when she did that? brutal blackpill right there man but you learned brother main thing

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

you also learn this when you're on the other side of the spectrum (e.g. a foid cucking her high school sweetheart bf with you)

 

[barambo]

you also learn this when you're on the other side of the spectrum (e.g. a foid cucking her high school sweetheart bf with you)

been there on both sides. brutal either way. she used to tell him she was sleeping and she was talking to me.

 

[Klasik616]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Real
Romanticism was always a delusion

 

[K1ngc4rd_]

If you genuinely think that a girl will unconditionally love you, you are dooming yourself. And you're putting yourself in a really bad position.

Every single girl is the same, and I mean every. single. one. They will all cheat given the right circumstances.

You could think that you're at the height of your relationship, and you can break up, and a week later, she'll find another guy to talk to.

You will never be enough for a girl. Accept that, and use it to your advantage. With that mindset, you will never get attached to a girl. And matter of fact, you're more likely to find a wife. It's hard to realize that all of them are the same, because I used to think, oh, mine's special. Mine wouldn't do that. But all of them are the same. Remember that.

Water, as suggested.
Over if you haven't made such observations by your own perceiption and experience, which you don't even need looks or being NT for.
I'm subhuman and one of the most ND people here truly, though through online relationsships and hearing about randoms talking about their stuff with one ear, you can pretty quickly come to it by yourself.

 

[SubSigma]

I have been onitiscelled 3 times in my life and its a legit crippling feeling. Never want to go through that again. Bp helped me not get attached.

//SubSigma

 

[McSkziofren]

I have been onitiscelled 3 times in my life and its a legit crippling feeling. Never want to go through that again. Bp helped me not get attached.

//SubSigma

I had a trucel oneitis manager who did everything for me, was it the same for you?

 

[barambo]

I have been onitiscelled 3 times in my life and its a legit crippling feeling. Never want to go through that again. Bp helped me not get attached.

//SubSigma

i genuinely had no clue why she could've left and i started reading philosophy to try to understand what happened. I'd sit in my room for hours researching about avoidant attachments and bullshit when at that time she was already with someone else . never really realised what happened untill i joined org and now im at rest...

 

[SubSigma]

I had a trucel oneitis manager who did everything for me, was it the same for you?

Nah it was just a bipolar mentality ill bitch. I tried to make it work cause I dont want to have to go through the fucked modern dating process again. Haven’t been attached to any girl in like a year. There is a Polish staceylite I hooked up with that I goon to tho. I called her a hoe and sent a bunch of incel reels to her and I got blocked.

//SubSigma

 

[McSkziofren]

Nah it was just a bipolar mentality ill bitch. I tried to make it work cause I dont want to have to go through the fucked modern dating process again. Haven’t been attached to any girl in like a year. There is a Polish staceylite I hooked up with that I goon to tho. I called her a hoe and sent a bunch of incel reels to her and I got blocked.

//SubSigma

I alos got blocked Lmaoo they folowed a Patern

 

[swt]

i went on a trip outside the country for almost a year and she fell into deep depression and would barely leave her house throughout that whole time

she often calls me crying when i’m not with her and she gets very upset when i have to take her home after spending the day with me

i’ve broken up with her several times in the past especially when we had first met and instead of talking to new people she started blocking other people instead

the right girl is out there, you just have to have an open mind and an open heart she’ll come to you

 

[connbro]

Nah it was just a bipolar mentality ill bitch. I tried to make it work cause I dont want to have to go through the fucked modern dating process again. Haven’t been attached to any girl in like a year. There is a Polish staceylite I hooked up with that I goon to tho. I called her a hoe and sent a bunch of incel reels to her and I got blocked.

//SubSigma

Bro I get no wanting to deal with the modern dating process it's so shit the inflation is actually ridiculous man, bro what kind of reels did you send that's actually too funny wonder what she was thinking when she saw them

 

[connbro]

i went on a trip outside the country for almost a year and she fell into deep depression and would barely leave her house throughout that whole time

she often calls me crying when i’m not with her and she gets very upset when i have to take her home after spending the day with me

i’ve broken up with her several times in the past especially when we had first met and instead of talking to new people she started blocking other people instead

the right girl is out there, you just have to have an open mind and an open heart she’ll come to you

the chances of finding one willing to do all this is mega super low unless your like CL or above or got mad money, its not IMPOSSIBLE for a regular dude to find but the chances are looooowwwwww

 

[barambo]

fuuuck bro you were in crutches aswell when she did that? brutal blackpill right there man but you learned brother main thing

she wants me now tho. must've been my personality

 

[barambo]

the chances of finding one willing to do all this is mega super low unless your like CL or above or got mad money, its not IMPOSSIBLE for a regular dude to find but the chances are looooowwwwww

nobodys safe... but yeah it's way worse if you're avarage

 

[McSkziofren]

she wants me now tho. must've been my personality

Did you use your Grandma crutch when aksing her out?

 

[swt]

the chances of finding one willing to do all this is mega super low unless your like CL or above or got mad money, its not IMPOSSIBLE for a regular dude to find but the chances are looooowwwwww

i’m mtn and a jobless bum with abusive personality disorders

nothing’s impossible jfl

 

[barambo]

Did you use your Grandma crutch when aksing her out?

no lol i knew her for 5 yrs before she broke up w me

 

[connbro]

she wants me now tho. must've been my personality

awesome transformation man, jaw sharpness and gonial angle tho

 

[barambo]

awesome transformation man, jaw sharpness and gonial angle tho

my maxilla is absolutely fucking cooked got put in a video some chang made about this site when i asked for advice

 

[connbro]

i’m mtn and a jobless bum with abusive personality disorders

nothing’s impossible jfl

the abusive personality disorders probs help lol but nah im with you bro it is possible its hard asf to find tho

 

[connbro]

my maxilla is absolutely fucking cooked got put in a video some chang made about this site when i asked for advice

lol fuck bro the rest of your face seems fine tho gotta try work with what you got

 

[deadroses]

I feel like you have to experience this, otherwise you probably won't believe it, but for the ones that have experienced this, you will 100% relate to this, and you know exactly what I'm talking about.

cannon event

knew her for 8 years, We were little kids. She broke things off with me, cut me off, said her mom wouldnt let her talk to me as an excuse so she can get with this other dude not even a week after JFL.

 

[barambo]

knew her for 8 years, We were little kids. She broke things off with me, cut me off, said her mom wouldnt let her talk to me as an excuse so she can get with this other dude not even a week after JFL.

5 years. same situation. but mine said she wasn't ready for a relationship and then got with a guy a week later. worst experience oml