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everytime someone on forever alone complains about being incel, they always tell him to self imrpove and do it for himself otherwise it wont work. They will even go as far to say that you have to go against your basic biology and defy nature and all. And when you mention all the millions of people who live in tune with their nature and have sex and relationships they stop replying.
And the thing is, a lot of this BS advice has its roots in buddism which is super popular among hipsters. Stuff like be happy on your own, reaching nirvana, semen retention, which has no scientific evidence but they will defend it to death. If everything was so easy, then why is depression a thing? Not to menton forcing yourself to be happy when you are depressed lets say because a family member died, results in stupification. Because you are forcing yourself to smile during a situation thats hurting you. Its like a person swimming in diarreah convincing themselves that they are swimming in money, people are gonna laugh at him more than they would if he was crying for being poor.
Back in the 50s this self improvement rhetoric didnt exist. If a man wanted to marry he would have to get a job, be able to provide and then find a wife thrpugh her parents. If i told my grandfather that he would have to be an asexual monk and content with being alone in order to get married he would think im crazy or smth. People back in the day understood the importance of sex and family but nowdays they want to convince you otherwise despite human life existing because of sex and marriage. This wouldnt be the case if Abrahamic foundations were still perserved, but they did away with those and replaced them with buddist theories.
Oh and if you tell em you cant do it, you cant forget about women, they berate you and call you incompetent despite these people having never done any of this nor any man who gets laid did so simply because, well, they were getting laid. You arent gonna tell chad to self improve and be happy by himself, its only FAs who are told this. And dont think these people care about FAs, they dont give a shit, they just want incels to hate themselves more and fel repsonsible for their situation.
And the thing is, a lot of this BS advice has its roots in buddism which is super popular among hipsters. Stuff like be happy on your own, reaching nirvana, semen retention, which has no scientific evidence but they will defend it to death. If everything was so easy, then why is depression a thing? Not to menton forcing yourself to be happy when you are depressed lets say because a family member died, results in stupification. Because you are forcing yourself to smile during a situation thats hurting you. Its like a person swimming in diarreah convincing themselves that they are swimming in money, people are gonna laugh at him more than they would if he was crying for being poor.
Back in the 50s this self improvement rhetoric didnt exist. If a man wanted to marry he would have to get a job, be able to provide and then find a wife thrpugh her parents. If i told my grandfather that he would have to be an asexual monk and content with being alone in order to get married he would think im crazy or smth. People back in the day understood the importance of sex and family but nowdays they want to convince you otherwise despite human life existing because of sex and marriage. This wouldnt be the case if Abrahamic foundations were still perserved, but they did away with those and replaced them with buddist theories.
Oh and if you tell em you cant do it, you cant forget about women, they berate you and call you incompetent despite these people having never done any of this nor any man who gets laid did so simply because, well, they were getting laid. You arent gonna tell chad to self improve and be happy by himself, its only FAs who are told this. And dont think these people care about FAs, they dont give a shit, they just want incels to hate themselves more and fel repsonsible for their situation.
