The Social Skills Pill

[polonaecel]

if you were annoying or weird growing up its likely you had no friends
and if you did they were also weird and fed into your weirdness making you even weirder
now this leads into you being older having a lack of interaction with normal people or people in general at all
which causes you to not be able to interact with the opposite gender completely NUKING your social development
its over if you didnt develop social skills as a kid
no amount of pregab will save you

probably water

 

[CloudyCuck]

Tales faggot

 

[foidletslayer]

Ye ye tales faggot

 

[foidletslayer]

Ye ye tales faggot

This isn’t universally true many niggas were weird but changed along the years

 

[PSLbbc]

Yo should i delete my account

 

[Outlander]

Very true. Social development has to happen during your formative years for you to end up well off socially. If you can't even get a good group of friends then you don't stand a chance with women

 

[Outlander]

Yo should i delete my account

Why would you want to

 

[PSLbbc]

Why would you want to

Hope to forget all of this

 

[polonaecel]

Yo should i delete my account

Its too late

 

[Outlander]

Hope to forget all of this

 

[polonaecel]

This isn’t universally true many niggas were weird but changed along the years

People cant "change" those who did are just hiding their true self

 

[foidletslayer]

People cant "change" those who did are just hiding their true self

Define change in this context

 

[polonaecel]

Define change in this context

Personality fully changes

 

[foidletslayer]

Personality fully changes

That’s possible doesn’t matter if they conceal their true self the change still occurred

 

[polonaecel]

That’s possible doesn’t matter if they conceal their true self the change still occurred

My point is its not real, you can only keep up an act for so long until you start slipping up

 

[stonecold trucel]

 

[RealSurgerymax]

So true

 

[polonaecel]

So true

No amount of surgeries can change us on the inside, brutal shit

 

[BIitz]

get a social job, be a waiter, bouncer, receptionist im a jeweler it helps alot

 

[polonaecel]

get a social job

lost you here

 

[BIitz]

lost you here

exposure therapy only thing that will save u

 

[soapbubble]

and if you did they were also weird and fed into your weirdness making you even weirder
now this leads into you being older having a lack of interaction with normal people or people in general at all
which causes you to not be able to interact with the opposite gender completely NUKING your social development

this is exactly what happened to me

 

[polonaecel]

this is exactly what happened to me

same shit here

 

[suicidemonkey]

if you were annoying or weird growing up its likely you had no friends
and if you did they were also weird and fed into your weirdness making you even weirder
now this leads into you being older having a lack of interaction with normal people or people in general at all
which causes you to not be able to interact with the opposite gender completely NUKING your social development
its over if you didnt develop social skills as a kid
no amount of pregab will save you

probably water

I might be coping but I remember being at a bar a few months ago and cold approaching these really hot girls. I had this mentality of having absolutely nothing to lose (I was skinnyfat at the time, completely average looking) and the approaches were perfect, I didn't overthink anything and basically just treated the interaction like a shallow game - rather than any meaningful relfection of my value as a man.

Ironically, I can think of so many times where I looked considerably better but had very little success because I was so concerned with how women perceived me. It's ironic to think about, really comes back to the idea that sometimes, trying less equals more success.