The strange addiction to being understood

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I think one of the strongest desires humans have isn’t to be loved, but to be understood.

Because being loved while feeling misunderstood can still feel lonely.

A lot of arguments aren’t really about proving who is right. They’re about someone wanting another person to finally see why they became the way they are.

Maybe that’s why people tell their stories so many times. Not because they forgot what happened, but because they’re still hoping someone will react differently this time.

Maybe the reason being misunderstood hurts so much is because it feels like someone is rejecting a version of reality that only exists inside your own head.

And the hardest part is accepting that everyone else is trapped inside their own version of reality too.

Everyone is walking around carrying a story about themselves, hoping someone else will read it correctly.
 
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I think humans underestimate how much of life is secretly just wanting someone to say “I get why you’re like this.”
Yes but I don’t think you really need that you need to understand yourself firstly and it’s more important
 
I think one of the strongest desires humans have isn’t to be loved, but to be understood.

Because being loved while feeling misunderstood can still feel lonely.

A lot of arguments aren’t really about proving who is right. They’re about someone wanting another person to finally see why they became the way they are.

Maybe that’s why people tell their stories so many times. Not because they forgot what happened, but because they’re still hoping someone will react differently this time.

Maybe the reason being misunderstood hurts so much is because it feels like someone is rejecting a version of reality that only exists inside your own head.

And the hardest part is accepting that everyone else is trapped inside their own version of reality too.

Everyone is walking around carrying a story about themselves, hoping someone else will read it correctly.
Lets be honest, who's reading this shit
 
i don't need any of that, i am a savage high t nigga
 
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It's human nature
 
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being misunderstood hurts way more than people realize
 
NEURTYPICAL SLOP😂🤣🤣🤣
 
I think one of the strongest desires humans have isn’t to be loved, but to be understood.

Because being loved while feeling misunderstood can still feel lonely.

A lot of arguments aren’t really about proving who is right. They’re about someone wanting another person to finally see why they became the way they are.

Maybe that’s why people tell their stories so many times. Not because they forgot what happened, but because they’re still hoping someone will react differently this time.

Maybe the reason being misunderstood hurts so much is because it feels like someone is rejecting a version of reality that only exists inside your own head.

And the hardest part is accepting that everyone else is trapped inside their own version of reality too.

Everyone is walking around carrying a story about themselves, hoping someone else will read it correctly.
I think one of the strongest desires humans have isn’t to be loved, but to be understood.

Because being loved while feeling misunderstood can still feel lonely.

A lot of arguments aren’t really about proving who is right. They’re about someone wanting another person to finally see why they became the way they are.

Maybe that’s why people tell their stories so many times. Not because they forgot what happened, but because they’re still hoping someone will react differently this time.

Maybe the reason being misunderstood hurts so much is because it feels like someone is rejecting a version of reality that only exists inside your own head.

And the hardest part is accepting that everyone else is trapped inside their own version of reality too.

Everyone is walking around carrying a story about themselves, hoping someone else will read it correctly.
High iq thread 🥹
 
I don't want to be understood. The second you grant someone the ability to understand you they try and change you. My mysterious aura is not to be meddled with...
 
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