Abhorrence
Kraken
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Porn is a fetish in itself reinforced by the search of titles, etc. That's why there's so many problems with ED when you watch porn. An isolated fetish that is completely disconnected to your body. And to make it worst its a fetish of the imagination. I realized this is the case because porn would very often be the initiator of wanting to do sexual activities, but rarely the fuel when being in real life.. Its really dangerous. And probably the reason why a lot of men/"incels" etc. are so lusted after seeing (sexual clothes, imagining sexual circumstances later on etc.), but at the same time, are also never really as lusted to act during that present moment, thus their pain of not being able to actually manifest sexual situations in real life despite having the clear opportunities todo so. This is hard to explain in words. Lets just say its the imagination that turned him on. Porn preys on this and pushes that imagination to the edge. One of the many things it also does is build this imaginative(first) passive behavior and disconnects you from your own body. All the while turning your imagination lustful, and uncontrollable. Lets take it this way. In today's time, a lot of men for the most part were raised with porn. Porn has been something most people knew longer than their own parents. Take someone who has not watched porn at all and it is a big difference. Subtle, but impactful because lets say a man looks at an attractive woman. The guy who has not watched porn is more inclined to have a mental pattern that requires less of an initial imaginative thought than the one who watches porn. The guy who watches porn would also be more likely to continue to think or fantasize with that woman in his head. Not only is this bad from a spiritual perspective, but also is somewhat of a bigger problem as this not only applies to sexual encounters. Mental patterns remain, and like said, take a person who does not have a trained mind for this specific pattern of imaginative thought and the differences are clear.
