The things I wish I knew in my 20s...

[Dark Latino]

I am turning 30 in 2 weeks and now more than ever I realize that I made mistakes in my 20s.

Good looks can take you so far, think of it as if good looks are the ticket to a game but having game(personality, charisma) are your skills if you want to win the game especially if your opponet is a tough opponent you need to have skills to win.

Money do help,I still believe that they are not as important as looks but they can help,I listen to girls in the early 20s saying that if a guy does not have a car/scooter it's a turn off so my advice is to do some part time job while studying so you can spend when you need to.

But the far the most important thing is number 1 you will not go very far away if you don't have confidence with women ,women will give you a lot of shit tests untill they give you the pussy .That's how it is probably everywhere in the world...

 

[alriodai]

Im 18 and realized this just at 17 and way more.better than u how did it take u 10 years to realize that

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Im 18 and realized this just at 17 and way more.better than u how did it take u 10 years to realize that

nah you still think dancing and making moves for a few seconds clip is a ticket to the stars

 

[alriodai]

nah you still think dancing and making moves for a few seconds clip is a ticket to the stars

jfl when did i say that. R u assuming that bc u think im 18 and addicted to tiktok?

 

[Deleted member 25059]

u assuming that bc u think im 18 and addicted to tiktok

yes plus your obsession with hacker

 

[alriodai]

yes plus your obsession with hacker

idk who u r and i dont im a normal kid lol

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Define confidence

 

[Dark Latino]

Define confidence

I would define game and confidence as:

Knowing that you are not perfect and neither is someone ,being comfortable in social situations and with women,teasing her and having humor, approach her and do no fear rejetion ,controling most of your anxiety around the girl you like and believing that you are a good catch, after that it's just a numbers game rejection is frequent it has nothing to do with looks

 

[LeftPegged]

Im 18 and realized this just at 17 and way more.better than u how did it take u 10 years to realize that

Well you had access to information which older people and millennials did not, so it’s not a fair comparison.

I still remember before we had smartphones can you say the same?

 

[Deleted member 28270]

Your issue is you look sub5 thats why you cope with these things. If you were at least 6.5 you could get a 5/10 girl easily with no money involved

 

[Dark Latino]

Your issue is you look sub5 thats why you cope with these things. If you were at least 6.5 you could get a 5/10 girl easily with no money involved

I never asked for a rating and don't need a rating from this site,I get crazy attention from women
Edit: I uploaded a e better pic for avatar