The Three Most Important Factors For Women (in my opinion)

[enchanted_elixir]

1. Your looks, and how much you appeal to her senses (visual, olfactory, auditory, tactile, etc.).
   • You can't win without this. This is non-negotiable.
2. Your perception, or what she believes her society, friends and family will think of you, and how much she cares about their opinions
   • You can win, she's attracted to you, but there's friction & it makes it harder, particularly for establishing a relationship w/ this.
3. Your character, are you entertaining, virtuous and pleasant to be around. The pleasant to be around part is touchy since if she likes you, she'll find you pleasant to be around by default since the mere thought or presence of you lifts her mood dramatically.
   • You can win, but having a good character is important so you're not just sensory heroin but you're also someone who can make her feel good through being enjoyable. Not being a bad person is also important for moral reasons.

 

[VladimirtheGreat]

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[enchanted_elixir]

Dnr

 

[mortis]

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[Deleted member 31155]

Wealth?

 

[Deleted member 33142]

I have none of these things

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Wealth?

College students have net worth's under $1,000 and still slay.
It's different if you're a self-sufficient person, then it's about not being poor.

 

[BigPoppaPump]

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[BigPoppaPump]

good thread, read every word, thanks for the effort.

 

[czwarty]

I can confirm #2 as it was often a problem for me. Very often friends of girls I dated outright hated me lol and it was very strongly apparent they were poisoning my image to them behind my back, setting her against me. Unless she's extremely into you, be prepared for difficulties in that case

I don't know what is it with me, maybe it's because I'm not very social and while I have no problems when it comes to talking to girls I'm interested in, I don't have the same desire to socialise with their friends and family and maybe they see it as lack of sympathy. Or they're just dirty fucking vindictive bitches

 

[Deleted member 30188]

College students have net worth's under $1,000 and still slay.
It's different if you're a self-sufficient person, then it's about not being poor.

thats only true because everyone is broke but it matters much more at 25 or 28

 

[enchanted_elixir]

thats only true because everyone is broke but it matters much more at 25 or 28

I'd agree but as long as you aren't poor, she'll be fine.
Women would rather have $55,000/yr Chadlite than $800,000/year Normie

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I can confirm #2 as it was often a problem for me. Very often friends of girls I dated outright hated me lol and it was very strongly apparent they were poisoning my image to them behind my back, setting her against me. Unless she's extremely into you, be prepared for difficulties in that case

I don't know what is it with me, maybe it's because I'm not very social and while I have no problems when it comes to talking to girls I'm interested in, I don't have the same desire to socialise with their friends and family and maybe they see it as lack of sympathy. Or they're just dirty fucking vindictive bitches

Yeah, this is purely through observation, and my knowledge on human psychology and evolution.

 

[Deleted member 32669]