The time I dated a girl with bpd

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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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horror.

my ex was into witchcraft too. why are bpd chicks always into witchcraft ?:feelskek:
 
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horror.

my ex was into witchcraft too. why are bpd chicks always into witchcraft ?:feelskek:
They talked to each other and decided to make it a shared trait. Mine was also a satanist
 
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it isn't that difficult to slaughter her and dispose her body somewhere in the woods:lul:
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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did she atleast let you hit? Maybe that wasn’t a pleasant experience but hey, it is experience nonetheless. Relationships are for cucks nowadays if you aren’t planning to get children with her in like a year from starting the relationship. Just pump and dump
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

@motionmantris @Nathan Fielder @jrown @Divineincel
crazy shit, and some white conservative 18yo guy will still comment "need me an obsessive yandare alt girl" jfl

i fortunately never had a gf this mental but one of my hbs did. it was so brutal for him, especially towards the end of the relationship. she'd text/call him all the time asking random shit like what he's up to and if he still loves her :feelsuhh::feelsuhh:

they broke up about a year ago (finally) but yeah seeing it first hand was eye opening for me. fuck those mental bitches give me a sweet light triad girl that will cuddle me
 
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did she atleast let you hit? Maybe that wasn’t a pleasant experience but hey, it is experience nonetheless. Relationships are for cucks nowadays if you aren’t planning to get children with her in like a year from starting the relationship. Just pump and dump
I didn't crack, I'm too scared of fucking someone before we date for at least a year :forcedsmile: permavirgin mindset
 
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crazy shit, and some white conservative 18yo guy will still comment "need me an obsessive yandare alt girl" jfl

i fortunately never had a gf this mental but one of my hbs did. it was so brutal for him, especially towards the end of the relationship. she'd text/call him all the time asking random shit like what he's up to and if he still loves her :feelsuhh::feelsuhh:

they broke up about a year ago (finally) but yeah seeing it first hand was eye opening for me. fuck those mental bitches give me a sweet light triad girl that will cuddle me
The whole romanticization of these types of girls pisses me off so much. It's safe to say she traumatized me. I'm glad he dumped his gf before it got too serious, the more you stay with a foid who acts like this, the worse it gets. Mine dumped me after we hit 3 months, so I can't imagine what it would be like if I continued dating her for a year
 
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The whole romanticization of these types of girls pisses me off so much. It's safe to say she traumatized me. I'm glad he dumped his gf before it got too serious, the more you stay with a foid who acts like this, the worse it gets. Mine dumped me after we hit 3 months, so I can't imagine what it would be like if I continued dating her for a year
yeah and my friend was with her for two fkn years :feelswhy:

they even went played in same volleyball team and she made him hang out with her almost every single day of every fknn week. she even came to our school every day to meet him after classes

i know for some ppl this might sound cute and all, my ex also came to meet me after classes form time to time but dude, when it's every day + 20 calls + 1000 texts for 2 years that's BRUTAL

btw this friend is now doing LSD on the regular and she's probably the reason (he started smoking weed soon after they broke and then moved to harder shit)

im watching over him so he doesnt become a crackhead, but if he does that's all her fault
 
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I didn't crack, I'm too scared of fucking someone before we date for at least a year :forcedsmile: permavirgin mindset
You gotta change that mindset. Fuck whores and make children with good girl (they are unicorns but hey, maybe you’ll find one one day)
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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my ex wants to get back with me and she has bpd should i or not ?
 
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yeah and my friend was with her for two fkn years :feelswhy:

they even went played in same volleyball team and she made him hang out with her almost every single day of every fknn week. she even came to our school every day to meet him after classes

i know for some ppl this might sound cute and all, my ex also came to meet me after classes form time to time but dude, when it's every day + 20 calls + 1000 texts for 2 years that's BRUTAL

btw this friend is now doing LSD on the regular and she's probably the reason (he started smoking weed soon after they broke and then moved to harder shit)

im watching over him so he doesnt become a crackhead, but if he does that's all her fault
I developed a drug addiction too after we broke up :forcedsmile: Who wouldn't? Moving from constantly talking to someone who appreciates you to not having that person around is brutal
 
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my ex wants to get back with me and she has bpd should i or not ?
Do NOT. Unless she's in therapy and can control herself. Think about it for at least a week before you make a decision
 
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Do NOT. Unless she's in therapy and can control herself. Think about it for at least a week before you make a decision
i broke up with her due to her being disrespectful and she said she will change and shes going thru therapy
 
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my ex wants to get back with me and she has bpd should i or not ?
Definetly not, you don’t step twice to the same river
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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ai slop
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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Dnr for now ima bookmark tho
 
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Weshe even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.
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and that is why we should not date bpd sluts (or rape victims in general tbh)
ons only
 
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and that is why we should not date bpd sluts (or rape victims in general tbh)
ons only
I’m never making that mistake again :feelskek:
 
I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

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Classic BPD behavior, man. The lovebombing at the start followed by suicide threats and pure insanity is the standard playbook. Mine was the same, doing self-harm n shit just to keep me hooked, and then she cheated the moment we had a break. Don't fall for that apology email, it’s just a trap to get back into your head. They never change, stay away for your own good. Stay strong and good luck on your journey bro.
 
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I'm not going to name drop her (she still scares me) so I'll just call her Diana. So to start off she was a "witch" supposedly, got raped as a kid, was alternative and listened to black metal. That's already a bad start, all alternative bitches have mental problems. Me and Diana met twice. She kept kissing me on the cheek and hugging me the second time we met up (while she had a boyfriend). I never got her instagram because she was really pretty and I thought she's out of my league. A few days after we see each other I see that she followed me. I follow her back obviously.

We start talking while she's on vacation and after a week of talking one of her friends asks if I like anyone. I say that I like Diana. Turns out she likes me too. I go text her and ask her to be my girlfriend. She got really excited and said that she's been in love with me ever since we met. It felt too good to be true. She told me that she supposedly did love spells on me. I thought that was cute because I always felt too ugly for love, and the fact that she wanted me first made me pretty happy. Throughout the relationship she got more obsessive over me, she even sent a voice message screaming at me for leaving her on delivered for 13 minutes. It was starting to get weird. One time I was eating dinner and she called me 4 times in the span of 10 minutes after I told her I'm eating. My dad literally had to tell me to go call her back.

After the constant attention I had to give her I started getting exhausted and needed a break, but she told me that if I leave she'll kill herself. I started texting her less frequently.

Now the break up. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can since she did a lot of things after we broke up.

One day she called me around 10pm and started screaming at me. She told me she attempted to overdose and then broke up with me. From what I heard she made out with another guy the same day. I thought that she's finally going to leave me alone, but she didn't. She made her friends send me death threats, one of them said she'll burn down my house and another followed me home trying to break a beer bottle into my head. I confronted her about it and she said that's not her fault and started getting aggressive. I realized that she won't listen to me over text so we met up in real life. I was trying to have a civil conversation, but she got mad, pulled my shirt and took out a knife. I decided to go home and block her.

For a week I didn't hear from her, but suddenly I started getting random phone calls. I was confused about it, it was mostly prank calls. Eventually someone called me and told me she wrote my phone number on the stairs in front of a place a lot of people hang out in.

Finally after 2 months she finally left me alone. Turns out she got grounded for a year (she's coming back this summer). A few days ago she emailed me an apology so I guess she matured, but I'm still scared shitless of seeing her or her friends.

She did a lot of other things, but I don't want to write a whole book. Dnr if you want just don't spam dnr in the replies, I don't give a shit :ANGERY:

@motionmantris @Nathan Fielder @jrown @Divineincel
sounds very similar to my last ex. women with bpd are the absolute worst
 
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Classic BPD behavior, man. The lovebombing at the start followed by suicide threats and pure insanity is the standard playbook. Mine was the same, doing self-harm n shit just to keep me hooked, and then she cheated the moment we had a break. Don't fall for that apology email, it’s just a trap to get back into your head. They never change, stay away for your own good. Stay strong and good luck on your journey bro.
I’m obviously not going to fall for her half hearted apology, but thanks for the advice, preciate it
 
Funny and relatable
I had experience with a girl with BPD
 
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Funny and relatable
I had experience with a girl with BPD
They start with being cute irl yanderes and evolve into scary evil bitches
 
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