The Ultimate Guide to Musicmaxxing - Let MUSIC do the work for you (BOTB?)

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Introduction

I'm sure most of you love music. Most people do.
I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If you do. Keep reading. I'm about to put you on.

For as long as humanity has existed on this Earth, we have been courting each other. Whether you're looking back to stone-age chanting, medieval music, baroque orchestras or modern times, music has always been a way to socialise, romanticise and seduce members of the opposite sex.

For the purposes of this guide, I will exclusively be focusing on music for women.

I'll explain how music can have a profound impact on human emotions, and basically explain how the psychological responses to various genres of music can enhance your chances of actually getting laid :lul:

This guide is best applied to your own social media (if she follows you and is interested), on dates (for example, in the car together), in the bedroom or for other random shit that I can't think of right now.

All in all, it's pretty fucking simple. This will be water for a lot of you who have ever interacted with a woman.

Neon Lights Girl Power GIF by Santa Salut



Step 1 - Investigating

In order to get the best results from music, you need to actually figure out what she likes. Here's a few ways I've done it in the past. If you're nervous about asking direct questions (for some fucking reason) then some of these are better for obvious reasons.
  • Go on her social media accounts and find music she's used in stories or posts
  • If she's discussed music with you in the past, use that information
  • Find her Spotify and go through her playlists (you can do this by searching her name or her FRIENDS NAMES and going through their following/followers lists. Sometimes it's hard to find if they have a common name or use a random username. If you go through her friends, you should be able to find it)
  • Ask her directly what music she likes (kind of ruins it, will get more into this later)
  • Find out what concerts she has been to recently (social media is the key, they love posting about this)
  • Use her AESTHETIC / VIBE to find out what music she PROBABLY likes (more on this later too)
It is of UTMOST IMPORTANCE that you don't blow your cover by asking this question TOO DIRECTLY. Try to figure it out without letting her know what you're doing. The whole idea is to put on music SHE LIKES and leave her wondering either HOW YOU FOUND OUT or if you just like the same music as her. Putting on music that she likes will inevitably make her MORE COMFORTABLE, having common ground in music opens up loads of possibilities for dates and socialising, and studies have shown also INCREASES ATTRACTION if done correctly.

If you can't find music she's into, it's pretty easy to tell by her fashion and vibe:

  • "Basic" girls are pretty much guaranteed to like "basic" music, think Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Drake, Artic Monkeys and similar. Whatever most people are listening to, she's probably listening to as well.
    • For basic, think of the average girl. Literally.
  • Goth girls are probably more into emo rap like Lil Peep, or maybe alt-rock like Deftones
    • You know what a goth is.
  • "Old money" girls will like Lana Del Rey
    • Looking up "old money aesthetic" will give you a better explanation than I ever could.
  • Streetwear girls will like rap and Rnb
    • Varsity jackets, sweatpants, baggy jeans, Jordans and Air Maxes. Basically whatever dudes are wearing, she's wearing.
  • Indie girls are tough because there's so many different breeds of indie. You should be able to get a rough idea pretty easily. They don't shut the fuck up.
Keep in mind this is rough, and there are instances where these guidelines don't apply. Do your best to figure it out.


Belt Out Carrie Underwood GIF by CMA Awards



Step 2 - Establishing some ground rules

Steer away from music that is highly divisive. This is going to include most underground music, including shit like Yeat that isn't even really underground anymore. Also steer clear of:
  1. Country music, unless you're sure that she likes it (this is scientifically proven to be a HUGE turn off)
  2. Metal or hard rock
  3. Classical music (men are attracted to women that like it, women not so much)
  4. Underground music as previously mentioned
  5. Hardcore rap
  6. Drill (unless she's ghetto as fuck)
  7. Southern rap (see above)
  8. Use common sense and rule out anything else that you think would turn her off.
  9. Political music (if you listen to that shit unironically)
  10. EDM
Rule out anything else that's just common sense not to play in front of a foid.
If you still have literally no idea what to play, I'll give you some relatively safe bets that I have used with success. Girls like to sing along or enjoy themselves, give them some shit that's easy to listen to, and that they know.

  1. Any Drake that's somewhat popular
  2. Rihanna
  3. Calvin Harris
  4. Popular Kendrick Lamar
  5. SZA
  6. Beauty and Beat by Justin Beiber
  7. Come Get Her by Rae Sreummurd
  8. I Wonder by Kanye West
  9. Mr Brightside by the Killers
  10. Most music you're likely to hear at a house party (not club-level EDM, stuff that people like to sing to)
Gauge her vibe while you're playing each type of music and adjust accordingly, if she's singing, stay on that same vein of music. If she's not enjoying it, obviously change it. This is just stuff that I know works because it's popular, most people like it and it's easy to listen to.

Keep in mind while you're together, you're her DJ. You don't wanna be the DJ that has the crowd standing still. I'd suggest against asking her to play HER music for a little while, as that just comes off as completely lacking confidence and fearing her.

house music dj GIF by Universal Music Africa



Step 3 - Applying

This all depends on what stage you're at with the girl. It's important in this step that you don't make what you're doing super obvious.
  • If you haven't talked to the girl yet, you can strike up a conversation about music "have you heard the new ___"
  • If she follows your socials, post stories using music that she likes, or comment on her music taste
  • If you're already talking to her online, literally do the exact same thing
  • If you're on a date, in the car, don't go SUPER BLATANT and play EXCLUSIVELY one artist or one genre, but integrate music that YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. I would honestly suggest making a playlist beforehand and putting that on so the whole thing is seamless, don't be pulling your phone out every 3 minutes and picking a song. Super obvious. Try to learn at least some of the words to some of the songs so you don't look like a retard when she asks you about it.
  • If it's during the day, play more upbeat music that's less seductive. If it's at night, you can slow it down with more chill songs. This is 100% water.
  • When you're fucking play romantic or seductive music. That simple. Think Chris Brown, Partynextdoor, certain Drake songs, Bryson Tiller, Jhene Aiko, The Weeknd.
I have playlists for all of this shit that I'm not going to doxx because fuck doxxing my Spotify that has my real name. If you are really that retarded and you need specific song suggestions I can help you out.

It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.

Driving The Menzingers GIF by Epitaph Records



Step 4 - Success

This is pretty much everything I know about using music to dig into foid brains. It's really not that hard. Just use common sense and a bit of intuition. I've had great success using this method to accelerate my progress with girls. I'm sure you've had the feeling where you hop into your friends car and he puts on some garbage music and you have a shit time, the same thing applies to women. Just most of the time, they won't actually tell you that they don't like it like a guy would. This is where you need to be paying attention in order to make adjustments. Make sure they're having a good time and they're comfortable.

This is literally the most EFFORTLESS WAY to possibly take her mind off things that you're insecure about "oh what if she doesn't like my car", "oh what if she doesn't like my outfit", and whatever the fuck else. She's focusing on the music bro, relax.


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inb4 dnrd and water.
dnrd? your loss I guess unless you already knew.
water? yeah no fucking shit it's water if you've ever had a girlfriend, been on a date or fucked.
but keep in mind most people here haven't. truecel heaven.
if you found this useful, let me know.
 
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Introduction

I'm sure most of you love music. Most people do.
I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If you do. Keep reading. I'm about to put you on.

For as long as humanity has existed on this Earth, we have been courting each other. Whether you're looking back to stone-age chanting, medieval music, baroque orchestras or modern times, music has always been a way to socialise, romanticise and seduce members of the opposite sex.

For the purposes of this guide, I will exclusively be focusing on music for women.

I'll explain how music can have a profound impact on human emotions, and basically explain how the psychological responses to various genres of music can enhance your chances of actually getting laid :lul:

This guide is best applied to your own social media (if she follows you and is interested), on dates (for example, in the car together), in the bedroom or for other random shit that I can't think of right now.

All in all, it's pretty fucking simple. This will be water for a lot of you who have ever interacted with a woman.

Neon Lights Girl Power GIF by Santa Salut



Step 1 - Investigating

In order to get the best results from music, you need to actually figure out what she likes. Here's a few ways I've done it in the past. If you're nervous about asking direct questions (for some fucking reason) then some of these are better for obvious reasons.
  • Go on her social media accounts and find music she's used in stories or posts
  • If she's discussed music with you in the past, use that information
  • Find her Spotify and go through her playlists
  • Ask her directly what music she likes (kind of ruins it, will get more into this later)
  • Find out what concerts she has been to recently
  • Use her AESTHETIC / VIBE to find out what music she PROBABLY likes (more on this later too)
It is of UTMOST IMPORTANCE that you don't blow your cover by asking this question TOO DIRECTLY. Try to figure it out without letting her know what you're doing. The whole idea is to put on music SHE LIKES and leave her wondering either HOW YOU FOUND OUT or if you just like the same music as her. Putting on music that she likes will inevitably make her MORE COMFORTABLE, having common ground in music opens up loads of possibilities for dates and socialising, and studies have shown also INCREASES ATTRACTION if done correctly.

If you can't find music she's into, it's pretty easy to tell by her fashion and vibe:

  • "Basic" girls are pretty much guaranteed to like "basic" music, think Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Drake, Artic Monkeys and similar. Whatever most people are listening to, she's probably listening to as well.
    • For basic, think of the average girl. Literally.
  • Goth girls are probably more into emo rap like Lil Peep, or maybe alt-rock like Deftones
    • You know what a goth is.
  • "Old money" girls will like Lana Del Rey
    • Looking up "old money aesthetic" will give you a better explanation than I ever could.
  • Streetwear girls will like rap and Rnb
    • Varsity jackets, sweatpants, baggy jeans, Jordans and Air Maxes. Basically whatever dudes are wearing, she's wearing.
  • Indie girls are tough because there's so many different breeds of indie. You should be able to get a rough idea pretty easily. They don't shut the fuck up.
Keep in mind this is rough, and there are instances where these guidelines don't apply. Do your best to figure it out.


Belt Out Carrie Underwood GIF by CMA Awards



Step 2 - Establishing some ground rules

Steer away from music that is highly divisive. This is going to include most underground music, including shit like Yeat that isn't even really underground anymore. Also steer clear of:
  1. Country music, unless you're sure that she likes it (this is scientifically proven to be a HUGE turn off)
  2. Metal or hard rock
  3. Classical music (men are attracted to women that like it, women not so much)
  4. Underground music as previously mentioned
  5. Hardcore rap
  6. Drill
  7. Use common sense and rule out anything else that you think would turn her off.
  8. Political music (if you listen to that shit unironically)
  9. EDM
Rule out anything else that's just common sense not to play in front of a foid.
If you still have literally no idea what to play, I'll give you some relatively safe bets that I have used with success. Girls like to sing along or enjoy themselves, give them some shit that's easy to listen to, and that they know.

  1. Any Drake that's somewhat popular
  2. Rihanna
  3. Calvin Harris
  4. Popular Kendrick Lamar
  5. SZA
  6. Beauty and Beat by Justin Beiber
  7. Come Get Her by Rae Sreummurd
  8. I Wonder by Kanye West
  9. Mr Brightside by the Killers
  10. Most music you're likely to hear at a house party (not club-level EDM, stuff that people like to sing to)
Gauge her vibe while you're playing each type of music and adjust accordingly, if she's singing, stay on that same vein of music. If she's not enjoying it, obviously change it. This is just stuff that I know works because it's popular, most people like it and it's easy to listen to.

Keep in mind while you're together, you're her DJ. You don't wanna be the DJ that has the crowd standing still. I'd suggest against asking her to play HER music for a little while, as that just comes off as completely lacking confidence and fearing her.

house music dj GIF by Universal Music Africa



Step 3 - Applying

This all depends on what stage you're at with the girl. It's important in this step that you don't make what you're doing super obvious.
  • If you haven't talked to the girl yet, you can strike up a conversation about music "have you heard the new ___"
  • If she follows your socials, post stories using music that she likes, or comment on her music taste
  • If you're already talking to her online, literally do the exact same thing
  • If you're on a date, in the car, don't go SUPER BLATANT and play EXCLUSIVELY one artist or one genre, but integrate music that YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. I would honestly suggest making a playlist beforehand and putting that on so the whole thing is seamless, don't be pulling your phone out every 3 minutes and picking a song. Super obvious. Try to learn at least some of the words to some of the songs so you don't look like a retard when she asks you about it.
  • If it's during the day, play more upbeat music that's less seductive. If it's at night, you can slow it down with more chill songs. This is 100% water.
  • When you're fucking play romantic or seductive music. That simple. Think Chris Brown, Partynextdoor, certain Drake songs, Bryson Tiller, Jhene Aiko, The Weeknd.
I have playlists for all of this shit that I'm not going to doxx because fuck doxxing my Spotify that has my real name. If you are really that retarded and you need specific song suggestions I can help you out.

It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.

Driving The Menzingers GIF by Epitaph Records



Step 4 - Success

This is pretty much everything I know about using music to dig into foid brains. It's really not that hard. Just use common sense and a bit of intuition. I've had great success using this method to accelerate my progress with girls. I'm sure you've had the feeling where you hop into your friends car and he puts on some garbage music and you have a shit time, the same thing applies to women. Just most of the time, they won't actually tell you that they don't like it like a guy would. This is where you need to be paying attention in order to make adjustments. Make sure they're having a good time and they're comfortable.

This is literally the most EFFORTLESS WAY to possibly take her mind off things that you're insecure about "oh what if she doesn't like my car", "oh what if she doesn't like my outfit", and whatever the fuck else. She's focusing on the music bro, relax.


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inb4 dnrd and water.
dnrd? your loss I guess unless you already knew.
water? yeah no fucking shit it's water if you've ever had a girlfriend, been on a date or fucked.
but keep in mind most people here haven't. truecel heaven.
if you found this useful, let me know.
I write songs and do rap and make my own beats on a DAW but i can't show it to anyone or perform because I'm a social outcast.
 
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I write songs and do rap and make my own beats on a DAW but i can't show it to anyone or perform because I'm a social outcast.
Only one way to get over that bro.
 
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I'm not really with the whole PSL rating thing I am just here to help dudes get some bitches, but I mean low UEE and NCT? Doesn't look symmetrical and it looks like you're squintmaxxing hard. Wouldn't know what rating to give you but that's what I see when I look at it.
 
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Only one way to get over that bro.
Looksmaxxing?

Also Drill is popular at least here in the UK, especially in more lower class more ethnic areas. I think in the US gangsta rap is also popular but again its in more lower class ethnic areas, so it depends.

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Play gtbsg songs to make the hoes wet
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Looksmaxxing?

Also Drill is popular at least here in the UK, especially in more lower class more ethnic areas. I think in the US gangsta rap is also popular but again its in more lower class ethnic areas, so it depends.

Jfl at people who unironically listen to political music
Yeah drill music CAN apply in rare cases but generally not the best way to set the mood with a girl especially on the first few dates. I personally listen to it sometimes (I listen to pretty much everything) but I can't imagine putting it on with a girl who I'm trying to get with.

Not looksmaxxing. If you're a DJ nobody cares if you're GL. Go to a club show them what you can do and get a job DJing at night. Girls will flock regardless.
 
Yeah drill music CAN apply in rare cases but generally not the best way to set the mood with a girl especially on the first few dates. I personally listen to it sometimes (I listen to pretty much everything) but I can't imagine putting it on with a girl who I'm trying to get with.
Haha imagine girl Says "what music u listen to" and u put on F.M.W

But famous drill artists like Central Cee especially his popular songs like Sprinter and Day in the Life a lot of girls listen to at least here.
 
Haha imagine girl Says "what music u listen to" and u put on F.M.W

But famous drill artists like Central Cee especially his popular songs like Sprinter and Day in the Life a lot of girls listen to at least here.
Yeah but I barely even consider that drill anymore. Central Cee, Dave, Pop Smoke even some Digga D girls like.

What I meant to say is hardcore drill, even American stuff. So stay away from Bronx drill generally, Brooklyn drill unless it's pop smoke, anything from Chicago unless it's Von or Durk and you know she likes it.

Shit like 1011, Harlem Spartans, 67, Skengdo, OFB is off the table.
 
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Yeah but I barely even consider that drill anymore. Central Cee, Dave, Pop Smoke even some Digga D girls like.

What I meant to say is hardcore drill, even American stuff. So stay away from Bronx drill generally, Brooklyn drill unless it's pop smoke, anything from Chicago unless it's Von or Durk and you know she likes it.

Shit like 1011, Harlem Spartans, 67, Skengdo, OFB is off the table.
Yea. Even here where drill is decently popular hard-core drill is seen as creepy by girls unless they are whores and into gangster types and thugs.
 
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Jfl at people who unironically listen to political music
NSBM? Oh but it's cool when overrated, bland mumbo-jumbo garbage hiphop does it. At least the music in extreme political bands (mainly right) is commendable. With that said, metal doesn't need to cope about its lyrical matter so...

Women who I've known irl have got better tastes than this shithole. But let's see what this has to offer.

@MogsMost what about current electronic stuff like Phonk? Or electronic in general as same with rock, it's very diverse.
 
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Be careful with Lana del Rey. That music is oriented mainly towards women, so if you play it, it might seem like you're just doing it to get into her pants (may turn her off). If you are going to go for Lana Del Rey, include it in your playlist and then try to downplay it when she eventually notices it (she definitely will if she's an 'old money' aesthetic girl).

A safer bet for Lana del Rey girls is the Arctic Monkeys or Lorde. Both are kinda similar to Lana, so the 'old money' girls will probably like it, but the lyrics aren't completely oriented towards women (so less suspicious).
 
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NSBM? Oh but it's cool when overrated, bland mumbo-jumbo garbage hiphop does it. At least the music in extreme political bands (mainly right) is commendable.

Women who I've known irl have got better tastes than this shithole.

@MogsMost what about current electronic stuff like Phonk? Or electronic in general as same with rock, it's very diverse.
Neither one is good bro political music overall is MOSTLY shit. Some of it is good. But shit like Tom MacDonald, utter dogshit.
 
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Are goth girls still into grunge and hard rock?
 
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NSBM? Oh but it's cool when overrated, bland mumbo-jumbo garbage hiphop does it. At least the music in extreme political bands (mainly right) is commendable. With that said, metal doesn't need to cope about its lyrical matter so...

Women who I've known irl have got better tastes than this shithole. But let's see what this has to offer.

@MogsMost what about current electronic stuff like Phonk? Or electronic in general as same with rock, it's very diverse.
Big fuck no to phonk. House music like Fred again is getting popular. Have used, does work.
 
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Be careful with Lana del Rey. That music is oriented mainly towards women, so if you play it, it might seem like you're just doing it to get into her pants (may turn her off). If you are going to go for Lana Del Rey, include it in your playlist and then try to downplay it when she eventually notices it (she definitely will if she's an 'old money' aesthetic girl).

A safer bet for Lana del Rey girls is the Arctic Monkeys or Lorde. Both are kinda similar to Lana, so the 'old money' girls will probably like it, but the lyrics aren't completely oriented towards women (so less suspicious).
This is a good point. It really all comes down to how you present yourself. I present as a guy who would pretty much listen to anything and I do listen to a lot of Lana so I haven’t had problems, but if you dress like a hard ass and put Lana on you’re going to raise eyebrows. Arctic Monkeys is always a hit with foids though
 
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Neither one is good bro political music overall is MOSTLY shit. Some of it is good. But shit like Tom MacDonald, utter dogshit.
Are goth girls still into grunge and hard rock?
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Son, oh you haven't got any idea lmao.
Its just lyrics right? ....right? Oh wait, you have to perform sounds too.
Over for this music recommendation thread already.
Big fuck no to phonk. House music like Fred again is getting popular. Have used, does work.
Same above also applies to you but please explain your choices. How have they haloed and failed you and at what?
Not sure if it's tech-house or trance or trance-house but been into that lately too.

Shame all the great stuff is underground but that's where the non-normies are. If only the two qualities could just perfectly align. Yet then again, underground scenes are where the HQNP gems lie.
 
nicholas cage GIF

Son, oh you haven't got any idea lmao.
Its just lyrics right? ....right? Oh wait, you have to perform sounds too.
Over for this music recommendation thread already.

Same above also applies to you but please explain your choices. How have they haloed and failed you and at what?
Not sure if it's tech-house or trance or trance-house but been into that lately too.

Shame all the great stuff is underground but that's where the non-normies are. If only the two qualities could just perfectly align. Yet then again, underground scenes are where the HQNP gems lie.
Yes sound matters as well but most normies focus on the lyrics mainly unless it's a song mostly built for bopping to.

If you want to listen to underground political music or even mainstream go on bro its ur music taste lmfao
 
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Son, oh you haven't got any idea lmao.
Its just lyrics right? ....right? Oh wait, you have to perform sounds too.
Over for this music recommendation thread already.

Same above also applies to you but please explain your choices. How have they haloed and failed you and at what?
Not sure if it's tech-house or trance or trance-house but been into that lately too.

Shame all the great stuff is underground but that's where the non-normies are. If only the two qualities could just perfectly align. Yet then again, underground scenes are where the HQNP gems lie.
Phonk music is tough because there’s no words and it’s not something that women are normally into. Yeah it’s great at the gym and when driving alone, but for me personally and my friends even when you’re not feeling it, it sounds awful.

Music halo is so easy, if she’s enjoying what you’re playing you’ve won already. Any EDM with words in it that you can sing to SHOULD be ok but at the end of the day it lies on her personal taste. I try to stay away from it most of the time but Fred again in particular they do seem to really like as of the last 6 months.
 
Introduction

I'm sure most of you love music. Most people do.
I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If you do. Keep reading. I'm about to put you on.

For as long as humanity has existed on this Earth, we have been courting each other. Whether you're looking back to stone-age chanting, medieval music, baroque orchestras or modern times, music has always been a way to socialise, romanticise and seduce members of the opposite sex.

For the purposes of this guide, I will exclusively be focusing on music for women.

I'll explain how music can have a profound impact on human emotions, and basically explain how the psychological responses to various genres of music can enhance your chances of actually getting laid :lul:

This guide is best applied to your own social media (if she follows you and is interested), on dates (for example, in the car together), in the bedroom or for other random shit that I can't think of right now.

All in all, it's pretty fucking simple. This will be water for a lot of you who have ever interacted with a woman.

Neon Lights Girl Power GIF by Santa Salut



Step 1 - Investigating

In order to get the best results from music, you need to actually figure out what she likes. Here's a few ways I've done it in the past. If you're nervous about asking direct questions (for some fucking reason) then some of these are better for obvious reasons.
  • Go on her social media accounts and find music she's used in stories or posts
  • If she's discussed music with you in the past, use that information
  • Find her Spotify and go through her playlists (you can do this by searching her name or her FRIENDS NAMES and going through their following/followers lists. Sometimes it's hard to find if they have a common name or use a random username. If you go through her friends, you should be able to find it)
  • Ask her directly what music she likes (kind of ruins it, will get more into this later)
  • Find out what concerts she has been to recently (social media is the key, they love posting about this)
  • Use her AESTHETIC / VIBE to find out what music she PROBABLY likes (more on this later too)
It is of UTMOST IMPORTANCE that you don't blow your cover by asking this question TOO DIRECTLY. Try to figure it out without letting her know what you're doing. The whole idea is to put on music SHE LIKES and leave her wondering either HOW YOU FOUND OUT or if you just like the same music as her. Putting on music that she likes will inevitably make her MORE COMFORTABLE, having common ground in music opens up loads of possibilities for dates and socialising, and studies have shown also INCREASES ATTRACTION if done correctly.

If you can't find music she's into, it's pretty easy to tell by her fashion and vibe:

  • "Basic" girls are pretty much guaranteed to like "basic" music, think Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Drake, Artic Monkeys and similar. Whatever most people are listening to, she's probably listening to as well.
    • For basic, think of the average girl. Literally.
  • Goth girls are probably more into emo rap like Lil Peep, or maybe alt-rock like Deftones
    • You know what a goth is.
  • "Old money" girls will like Lana Del Rey
    • Looking up "old money aesthetic" will give you a better explanation than I ever could.
  • Streetwear girls will like rap and Rnb
    • Varsity jackets, sweatpants, baggy jeans, Jordans and Air Maxes. Basically whatever dudes are wearing, she's wearing.
  • Indie girls are tough because there's so many different breeds of indie. You should be able to get a rough idea pretty easily. They don't shut the fuck up.
Keep in mind this is rough, and there are instances where these guidelines don't apply. Do your best to figure it out.


Belt Out Carrie Underwood GIF by CMA Awards



Step 2 - Establishing some ground rules

Steer away from music that is highly divisive. This is going to include most underground music, including shit like Yeat that isn't even really underground anymore. Also steer clear of:
  1. Country music, unless you're sure that she likes it (this is scientifically proven to be a HUGE turn off)
  2. Metal or hard rock
  3. Classical music (men are attracted to women that like it, women not so much)
  4. Underground music as previously mentioned
  5. Hardcore rap
  6. Drill (unless she's ghetto as fuck)
  7. Southern rap (see above)
  8. Use common sense and rule out anything else that you think would turn her off.
  9. Political music (if you listen to that shit unironically)
  10. EDM
Rule out anything else that's just common sense not to play in front of a foid.
If you still have literally no idea what to play, I'll give you some relatively safe bets that I have used with success. Girls like to sing along or enjoy themselves, give them some shit that's easy to listen to, and that they know.

  1. Any Drake that's somewhat popular
  2. Rihanna
  3. Calvin Harris
  4. Popular Kendrick Lamar
  5. SZA
  6. Beauty and Beat by Justin Beiber
  7. Come Get Her by Rae Sreummurd
  8. I Wonder by Kanye West
  9. Mr Brightside by the Killers
  10. Most music you're likely to hear at a house party (not club-level EDM, stuff that people like to sing to)
Gauge her vibe while you're playing each type of music and adjust accordingly, if she's singing, stay on that same vein of music. If she's not enjoying it, obviously change it. This is just stuff that I know works because it's popular, most people like it and it's easy to listen to.

Keep in mind while you're together, you're her DJ. You don't wanna be the DJ that has the crowd standing still. I'd suggest against asking her to play HER music for a little while, as that just comes off as completely lacking confidence and fearing her.

house music dj GIF by Universal Music Africa



Step 3 - Applying

This all depends on what stage you're at with the girl. It's important in this step that you don't make what you're doing super obvious.
  • If you haven't talked to the girl yet, you can strike up a conversation about music "have you heard the new ___"
  • If she follows your socials, post stories using music that she likes, or comment on her music taste
  • If you're already talking to her online, literally do the exact same thing
  • If you're on a date, in the car, don't go SUPER BLATANT and play EXCLUSIVELY one artist or one genre, but integrate music that YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. I would honestly suggest making a playlist beforehand and putting that on so the whole thing is seamless, don't be pulling your phone out every 3 minutes and picking a song. Super obvious. Try to learn at least some of the words to some of the songs so you don't look like a retard when she asks you about it.
  • If it's during the day, play more upbeat music that's less seductive. If it's at night, you can slow it down with more chill songs. This is 100% water.
  • When you're fucking play romantic or seductive music. That simple. Think Chris Brown, Partynextdoor, certain Drake songs, Bryson Tiller, Jhene Aiko, The Weeknd.
I have playlists for all of this shit that I'm not going to doxx because fuck doxxing my Spotify that has my real name. If you are really that retarded and you need specific song suggestions I can help you out.

It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.

Driving The Menzingers GIF by Epitaph Records



Step 4 - Success

This is pretty much everything I know about using music to dig into foid brains. It's really not that hard. Just use common sense and a bit of intuition. I've had great success using this method to accelerate my progress with girls. I'm sure you've had the feeling where you hop into your friends car and he puts on some garbage music and you have a shit time, the same thing applies to women. Just most of the time, they won't actually tell you that they don't like it like a guy would. This is where you need to be paying attention in order to make adjustments. Make sure they're having a good time and they're comfortable.

This is literally the most EFFORTLESS WAY to possibly take her mind off things that you're insecure about "oh what if she doesn't like my car", "oh what if she doesn't like my outfit", and whatever the fuck else. She's focusing on the music bro, relax.


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inb4 dnrd and water.
dnrd? your loss I guess unless you already knew.
water? yeah no fucking shit it's water if you've ever had a girlfriend, been on a date or fucked.
but keep in mind most people here haven't. truecel heaven.
if you found this useful, let me know.
Did not read, I hope ChatGPT wrote this and you didn't waste your time on such a water thread.
 
Did not read, I hope ChatGPT wrote this and you didn't waste your time on such a water thread.
i was inb4 u unfortunately. waste of a comment.
 
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Yes sound matters as well but most normies focus on the lyrics mainly unless it's a song mostly built for bopping to.

If you want to listen to underground political music or even mainstream go on bro its ur music taste lmfao
Usually music is judged by how it sounds anyway. Peste Noire, Aryan Blood, Adele.
Phonk music is tough because there’s no words and it’s not something that women are normally into. Yeah it’s great at the gym and when driving alone, but for me personally and my friends even when you’re not feeling it, it sounds awful.
Sounds like hip-hop combined with techno.
Music halo is so easy, if she’s enjoying what you’re playing you’ve won already. Any EDM with words in it that you can sing to SHOULD be ok but at the end of the day it lies on her personal taste. I try to stay away from it most of the time but Fred again in particular they do seem to really like as of the last 6 months.
Water for the most part but let me reverse role with what I've done to see it your way...
So:
It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.
This right here is the crux of your argument as it's borderline simping where unironically Chad can get away with showing Bohren And Der Club Of Gore at a rainy autumn afternoon in his flat.

Theres a line of dignity and confidence you need to have with your taste however yes I try to talk to anyone outside of my musical awareness all the time cause why not. It's interesting how I'm from an underground music background all my life have come to now and then have mainstream acts come to my list of tabs to work on. Recently it's been stuff like Post Malone, Alice In Chains etc.

The more you know. Now I may get nothing from the artists you've mentioned but I still try them. It makes a social practice chance put into effect. Where as rn in my spare time I'm going through Psychic-TV's discog.
 
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DNRD great thread op BOTB ASAP
that is a really underestimated subject
I have had lots of success before due to my music taste
 
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I get high on opiods and listen to joeyy, chief keef, yeat and sosmula around bitches. if they dont like it they can get the bus back home lol.
 
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I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If so this guide is useless for all users on this forum
 
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Too bad normie music bores me now and I mostly listen to some obscure shit like this
How is it obscure, it's just some generic nigger ""hip-hop"" (pop)
 
Introduction

I'm sure most of you love music. Most people do.
I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If you do. Keep reading. I'm about to put you on.

For as long as humanity has existed on this Earth, we have been courting each other. Whether you're looking back to stone-age chanting, medieval music, baroque orchestras or modern times, music has always been a way to socialise, romanticise and seduce members of the opposite sex.

For the purposes of this guide, I will exclusively be focusing on music for women.

I'll explain how music can have a profound impact on human emotions, and basically explain how the psychological responses to various genres of music can enhance your chances of actually getting laid :lul:

This guide is best applied to your own social media (if she follows you and is interested), on dates (for example, in the car together), in the bedroom or for other random shit that I can't think of right now.

All in all, it's pretty fucking simple. This will be water for a lot of you who have ever interacted with a woman.

Neon Lights Girl Power GIF by Santa Salut



Step 1 - Investigating

In order to get the best results from music, you need to actually figure out what she likes. Here's a few ways I've done it in the past. If you're nervous about asking direct questions (for some fucking reason) then some of these are better for obvious reasons.
  • Go on her social media accounts and find music she's used in stories or posts
  • If she's discussed music with you in the past, use that information
  • Find her Spotify and go through her playlists (you can do this by searching her name or her FRIENDS NAMES and going through their following/followers lists. Sometimes it's hard to find if they have a common name or use a random username. If you go through her friends, you should be able to find it)
  • Ask her directly what music she likes (kind of ruins it, will get more into this later)
  • Find out what concerts she has been to recently (social media is the key, they love posting about this)
  • Use her AESTHETIC / VIBE to find out what music she PROBABLY likes (more on this later too)
It is of UTMOST IMPORTANCE that you don't blow your cover by asking this question TOO DIRECTLY. Try to figure it out without letting her know what you're doing. The whole idea is to put on music SHE LIKES and leave her wondering either HOW YOU FOUND OUT or if you just like the same music as her. Putting on music that she likes will inevitably make her MORE COMFORTABLE, having common ground in music opens up loads of possibilities for dates and socialising, and studies have shown also INCREASES ATTRACTION if done correctly.

If you can't find music she's into, it's pretty easy to tell by her fashion and vibe:

  • "Basic" girls are pretty much guaranteed to like "basic" music, think Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Drake, Artic Monkeys and similar. Whatever most people are listening to, she's probably listening to as well.
    • For basic, think of the average girl. Literally.
  • Goth girls are probably more into emo rap like Lil Peep, or maybe alt-rock like Deftones
    • You know what a goth is.
  • "Old money" girls will like Lana Del Rey
    • Looking up "old money aesthetic" will give you a better explanation than I ever could.
  • Streetwear girls will like rap and Rnb
    • Varsity jackets, sweatpants, baggy jeans, Jordans and Air Maxes. Basically whatever dudes are wearing, she's wearing.
  • Indie girls are tough because there's so many different breeds of indie. You should be able to get a rough idea pretty easily. They don't shut the fuck up.
Keep in mind this is rough, and there are instances where these guidelines don't apply. Do your best to figure it out.


Belt Out Carrie Underwood GIF by CMA Awards



Step 2 - Establishing some ground rules

Steer away from music that is highly divisive. This is going to include most underground music, including shit like Yeat that isn't even really underground anymore. Also steer clear of:
  1. Country music, unless you're sure that she likes it (this is scientifically proven to be a HUGE turn off)
  2. Metal or hard rock
  3. Classical music (men are attracted to women that like it, women not so much)
  4. Underground music as previously mentioned
  5. Hardcore rap
  6. Drill (unless she's ghetto as fuck)
  7. Southern rap (see above)
  8. Use common sense and rule out anything else that you think would turn her off.
  9. Political music (if you listen to that shit unironically)
  10. EDM
Rule out anything else that's just common sense not to play in front of a foid.
If you still have literally no idea what to play, I'll give you some relatively safe bets that I have used with success. Girls like to sing along or enjoy themselves, give them some shit that's easy to listen to, and that they know.

  1. Any Drake that's somewhat popular
  2. Rihanna
  3. Calvin Harris
  4. Popular Kendrick Lamar
  5. SZA
  6. Beauty and Beat by Justin Beiber
  7. Come Get Her by Rae Sreummurd
  8. I Wonder by Kanye West
  9. Mr Brightside by the Killers
  10. Most music you're likely to hear at a house party (not club-level EDM, stuff that people like to sing to)
Gauge her vibe while you're playing each type of music and adjust accordingly, if she's singing, stay on that same vein of music. If she's not enjoying it, obviously change it. This is just stuff that I know works because it's popular, most people like it and it's easy to listen to.

Keep in mind while you're together, you're her DJ. You don't wanna be the DJ that has the crowd standing still. I'd suggest against asking her to play HER music for a little while, as that just comes off as completely lacking confidence and fearing her.

house music dj GIF by Universal Music Africa



Step 3 - Applying

This all depends on what stage you're at with the girl. It's important in this step that you don't make what you're doing super obvious.
  • If you haven't talked to the girl yet, you can strike up a conversation about music "have you heard the new ___"
  • If she follows your socials, post stories using music that she likes, or comment on her music taste
  • If you're already talking to her online, literally do the exact same thing
  • If you're on a date, in the car, don't go SUPER BLATANT and play EXCLUSIVELY one artist or one genre, but integrate music that YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. I would honestly suggest making a playlist beforehand and putting that on so the whole thing is seamless, don't be pulling your phone out every 3 minutes and picking a song. Super obvious. Try to learn at least some of the words to some of the songs so you don't look like a retard when she asks you about it.
  • If it's during the day, play more upbeat music that's less seductive. If it's at night, you can slow it down with more chill songs. This is 100% water.
  • When you're fucking play romantic or seductive music. That simple. Think Chris Brown, Partynextdoor, certain Drake songs, Bryson Tiller, Jhene Aiko, The Weeknd.
I have playlists for all of this shit that I'm not going to doxx because fuck doxxing my Spotify that has my real name. If you are really that retarded and you need specific song suggestions I can help you out.

It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.

Driving The Menzingers GIF by Epitaph Records



Step 4 - Success

This is pretty much everything I know about using music to dig into foid brains. It's really not that hard. Just use common sense and a bit of intuition. I've had great success using this method to accelerate my progress with girls. I'm sure you've had the feeling where you hop into your friends car and he puts on some garbage music and you have a shit time, the same thing applies to women. Just most of the time, they won't actually tell you that they don't like it like a guy would. This is where you need to be paying attention in order to make adjustments. Make sure they're having a good time and they're comfortable.

This is literally the most EFFORTLESS WAY to possibly take her mind off things that you're insecure about "oh what if she doesn't like my car", "oh what if she doesn't like my outfit", and whatever the fuck else. She's focusing on the music bro, relax.


---

inb4 dnrd and water.
dnrd? your loss I guess unless you already knew.
water? yeah no fucking shit it's water if you've ever had a girlfriend, been on a date or fucked.
but keep in mind most people here haven't. truecel heaven.
if you found this useful, let me know.
If you’re looking for a meaningful ltr you’re gonna score for a limited amount of time, if she’s not super into you from the start for other reasons you’ll get dumped. Legit for friends with benefits or similar shit tho
500 days of summer movie docet
 
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DNRD great thread op BOTB ASAP
that is a really underestimated subject
I have had lots of success before due to my music taste
Dudes are still in here coping about it as well jfl. all the sauce is there and they still doubt it
 
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Dudes are still in here coping about it as well jfl. all the sauce is there and they still doubt it
don't give a single fuck
keep doing legendary threads bro
 
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I had a 10 year LTR meeting up with someone at a dsbm concert to the point even the singer of the band (whose a central figure in himself and a womaniser at any cost) get with making with her but then making with me straight after. Obviously music interest matters the further you go.
 
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Introduction

I'm sure most of you love music. Most people do.
I'm also quite sure you are interested in women. Most men are.
If you don't fit these criteria, move on, this isn't for you.
If you do. Keep reading. I'm about to put you on.

For as long as humanity has existed on this Earth, we have been courting each other. Whether you're looking back to stone-age chanting, medieval music, baroque orchestras or modern times, music has always been a way to socialise, romanticise and seduce members of the opposite sex.

For the purposes of this guide, I will exclusively be focusing on music for women.

I'll explain how music can have a profound impact on human emotions, and basically explain how the psychological responses to various genres of music can enhance your chances of actually getting laid :lul:

This guide is best applied to your own social media (if she follows you and is interested), on dates (for example, in the car together), in the bedroom or for other random shit that I can't think of right now.

All in all, it's pretty fucking simple. This will be water for a lot of you who have ever interacted with a woman.

Neon Lights Girl Power GIF by Santa Salut



Step 1 - Investigating

In order to get the best results from music, you need to actually figure out what she likes. Here's a few ways I've done it in the past. If you're nervous about asking direct questions (for some fucking reason) then some of these are better for obvious reasons.
  • Go on her social media accounts and find music she's used in stories or posts
  • If she's discussed music with you in the past, use that information
  • Find her Spotify and go through her playlists (you can do this by searching her name or her FRIENDS NAMES and going through their following/followers lists. Sometimes it's hard to find if they have a common name or use a random username. If you go through her friends, you should be able to find it)
  • Ask her directly what music she likes (kind of ruins it, will get more into this later)
  • Find out what concerts she has been to recently (social media is the key, they love posting about this)
  • Use her AESTHETIC / VIBE to find out what music she PROBABLY likes (more on this later too)
It is of UTMOST IMPORTANCE that you don't blow your cover by asking this question TOO DIRECTLY. Try to figure it out without letting her know what you're doing. The whole idea is to put on music SHE LIKES and leave her wondering either HOW YOU FOUND OUT or if you just like the same music as her. Putting on music that she likes will inevitably make her MORE COMFORTABLE, having common ground in music opens up loads of possibilities for dates and socialising, and studies have shown also INCREASES ATTRACTION if done correctly.

If you can't find music she's into, it's pretty easy to tell by her fashion and vibe:

  • "Basic" girls are pretty much guaranteed to like "basic" music, think Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Drake, Artic Monkeys and similar. Whatever most people are listening to, she's probably listening to as well.
    • For basic, think of the average girl. Literally.
  • Goth girls are probably more into emo rap like Lil Peep, or maybe alt-rock like Deftones
    • You know what a goth is.
  • "Old money" girls will like Lana Del Rey
    • Looking up "old money aesthetic" will give you a better explanation than I ever could.
  • Streetwear girls will like rap and Rnb
    • Varsity jackets, sweatpants, baggy jeans, Jordans and Air Maxes. Basically whatever dudes are wearing, she's wearing.
  • Indie girls are tough because there's so many different breeds of indie. You should be able to get a rough idea pretty easily. They don't shut the fuck up.
Keep in mind this is rough, and there are instances where these guidelines don't apply. Do your best to figure it out.


Belt Out Carrie Underwood GIF by CMA Awards



Step 2 - Establishing some ground rules

Steer away from music that is highly divisive. This is going to include most underground music, including shit like Yeat that isn't even really underground anymore. Also steer clear of:
  1. Country music, unless you're sure that she likes it (this is scientifically proven to be a HUGE turn off)
  2. Metal or hard rock
  3. Classical music (men are attracted to women that like it, women not so much)
  4. Underground music as previously mentioned
  5. Hardcore rap
  6. Drill (unless she's ghetto as fuck)
  7. Southern rap (see above)
  8. Use common sense and rule out anything else that you think would turn her off.
  9. Political music (if you listen to that shit unironically)
  10. EDM
Rule out anything else that's just common sense not to play in front of a foid.
If you still have literally no idea what to play, I'll give you some relatively safe bets that I have used with success. Girls like to sing along or enjoy themselves, give them some shit that's easy to listen to, and that they know.

  1. Any Drake that's somewhat popular
  2. Rihanna
  3. Calvin Harris
  4. Popular Kendrick Lamar
  5. SZA
  6. Beauty and Beat by Justin Beiber
  7. Come Get Her by Rae Sreummurd
  8. I Wonder by Kanye West
  9. Mr Brightside by the Killers
  10. Most music you're likely to hear at a house party (not club-level EDM, stuff that people like to sing to)
Gauge her vibe while you're playing each type of music and adjust accordingly, if she's singing, stay on that same vein of music. If she's not enjoying it, obviously change it. This is just stuff that I know works because it's popular, most people like it and it's easy to listen to.

Keep in mind while you're together, you're her DJ. You don't wanna be the DJ that has the crowd standing still. I'd suggest against asking her to play HER music for a little while, as that just comes off as completely lacking confidence and fearing her.

house music dj GIF by Universal Music Africa



Step 3 - Applying

This all depends on what stage you're at with the girl. It's important in this step that you don't make what you're doing super obvious.
  • If you haven't talked to the girl yet, you can strike up a conversation about music "have you heard the new ___"
  • If she follows your socials, post stories using music that she likes, or comment on her music taste
  • If you're already talking to her online, literally do the exact same thing
  • If you're on a date, in the car, don't go SUPER BLATANT and play EXCLUSIVELY one artist or one genre, but integrate music that YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. I would honestly suggest making a playlist beforehand and putting that on so the whole thing is seamless, don't be pulling your phone out every 3 minutes and picking a song. Super obvious. Try to learn at least some of the words to some of the songs so you don't look like a retard when she asks you about it.
  • If it's during the day, play more upbeat music that's less seductive. If it's at night, you can slow it down with more chill songs. This is 100% water.
  • When you're fucking play romantic or seductive music. That simple. Think Chris Brown, Partynextdoor, certain Drake songs, Bryson Tiller, Jhene Aiko, The Weeknd.
I have playlists for all of this shit that I'm not going to doxx because fuck doxxing my Spotify that has my real name. If you are really that retarded and you need specific song suggestions I can help you out.

It's pretty common knowledge that upbeat music will increase your dopamine levels, causing you to be more easygoing and generally have a better time. This is why playing upbeat, good music is SUPER important during the day. She needs to know that you can interpret the mood and adjust accordingly. Don't be that retard that starts playing sex music at 1pm. Slower, darker music with INNUENDO or specific mention of sex will obviously set the mood for BOTH of you. It's super important that she's comfortable with you before you put this shit on or it's gonna make her super uncomfortable and tell her that you basically have no idea about how she really feels about you by trying to get it on with her WAY TOO EARLY.

It's very easy to tell when dudes have specifically pivoted their taste in music to appeal to women, it makes you look dumb. The key to this is keeping what you like and adding to it. Depending on what kind of music she likes, this can be easier or harder. If the music she likes is popular it's easier to make it look incognito, but everyone likes it so you're not going to stand out at all to her, she's just going to enjoy the music. If she likes niche music and all you play is that, it's going to appear very obvious. Find a middle ground.

Driving The Menzingers GIF by Epitaph Records



Step 4 - Success

This is pretty much everything I know about using music to dig into foid brains. It's really not that hard. Just use common sense and a bit of intuition. I've had great success using this method to accelerate my progress with girls. I'm sure you've had the feeling where you hop into your friends car and he puts on some garbage music and you have a shit time, the same thing applies to women. Just most of the time, they won't actually tell you that they don't like it like a guy would. This is where you need to be paying attention in order to make adjustments. Make sure they're having a good time and they're comfortable.

This is literally the most EFFORTLESS WAY to possibly take her mind off things that you're insecure about "oh what if she doesn't like my car", "oh what if she doesn't like my outfit", and whatever the fuck else. She's focusing on the music bro, relax.


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inb4 dnrd and water.
dnrd? your loss I guess unless you already knew.
water? yeah no fucking shit it's water if you've ever had a girlfriend, been on a date or fucked.
but keep in mind most people here haven't. truecel heaven.
if you found this useful, let me know.
Best performance ever


 
fuck you greyfaggot jfl thinking this bluepill guide will get you botb

only "music" you need:

 
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