'validation is better than the act' - maybe the first few times.
With a bit of practice you get better at pleasing the foid, better at knowing how to dominate her in bed, more relaxed & better at enjoying it
Not sure the act is overrated. It's worth the effort of looks maxing, at least for some. And, if the opportunity ever comes up, it will be worth the effort of black-pillers to over throw foidocracy & return to a society where even true cells get some action.