LXR
I ask you to judge me by the enemies I have made
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I dont believe that the vast majority of men/teens here are incels because of some inherent gene combination that makes them completely repulsive. Now that doesnt mean that your experiences are invalid, but that I mean something different.
An incel of circumstance in my definition is a man who lives in a specifically extraordinary time where sexual and/or natural selection makes him unfit to be attractive to a person of the opposite sex. Well what the hell does that mean im today's terms ? It means that today's young men are incels because of a few factors that make the competition extreme to the point of classifying it as extraordinary
1. Women having more freedom, rights and access to resourced than any other time in history.
2. More globalised world than any time in history.
3. Large amounts of people living very closely to each other and travel being something trivial.
4. Most secular and liberal times we live in where survival constraints largely do not apply.
Combine all of this and I come to the conclusion that people generally have access to almost all of the millions of people in their country, the competition drastically increases and with self esteem decreases for men and women while standards increase for women and top 1% men. Take any factor out of the equation and things are much less doom and gloom.
All of this might be water upto this point but there is another point I want to make. Just because this is the best time to live in does not mean that this showcases women's true desire. It just so happens that women display such desire in this circumstance. In any other time, if a woman did partner with you, it would still be true desire. If you think that is cope, think this way. Women are incentivised to stay single if they dont find their perfect match. Inevitably, lonely people doomscroll and consume and worsen their mental space which lead them to be this picky in the first place. On the other hand, in any other normal time women would partner up because perfect is the enemy of good mentality, which means that being 80% hapoy is better than chasing 100% and being miserable because you wont.
Adding to the above paragraph, I also theorise that 100% happiness is impossible to find. People invariably end up chasing something they dont have. So if a woman somehow got hold of Chad, that is not a predictor that she will be content since in the social media age people are brainrotten into the delusion that the best is always at the horizon and that there are better people than the ones you have. So to confuse women's desires in this age is wrong because in reality it is just a measure how deep they are in the hedonistic spiral. A woman on the other hand who by circumstances different than today has not been conditioned to chase better will be content with what she has so long it makes her more happy than cause resentment.
Now I believe that there are very few incels that would do worse in all of history, th9se being below average very much compared to the population such dwarves and microdick havers, however I suspect this does not apply to majority of posters here
An incel of circumstance in my definition is a man who lives in a specifically extraordinary time where sexual and/or natural selection makes him unfit to be attractive to a person of the opposite sex. Well what the hell does that mean im today's terms ? It means that today's young men are incels because of a few factors that make the competition extreme to the point of classifying it as extraordinary
1. Women having more freedom, rights and access to resourced than any other time in history.
2. More globalised world than any time in history.
3. Large amounts of people living very closely to each other and travel being something trivial.
4. Most secular and liberal times we live in where survival constraints largely do not apply.
Combine all of this and I come to the conclusion that people generally have access to almost all of the millions of people in their country, the competition drastically increases and with self esteem decreases for men and women while standards increase for women and top 1% men. Take any factor out of the equation and things are much less doom and gloom.
All of this might be water upto this point but there is another point I want to make. Just because this is the best time to live in does not mean that this showcases women's true desire. It just so happens that women display such desire in this circumstance. In any other time, if a woman did partner with you, it would still be true desire. If you think that is cope, think this way. Women are incentivised to stay single if they dont find their perfect match. Inevitably, lonely people doomscroll and consume and worsen their mental space which lead them to be this picky in the first place. On the other hand, in any other normal time women would partner up because perfect is the enemy of good mentality, which means that being 80% hapoy is better than chasing 100% and being miserable because you wont.
Adding to the above paragraph, I also theorise that 100% happiness is impossible to find. People invariably end up chasing something they dont have. So if a woman somehow got hold of Chad, that is not a predictor that she will be content since in the social media age people are brainrotten into the delusion that the best is always at the horizon and that there are better people than the ones you have. So to confuse women's desires in this age is wrong because in reality it is just a measure how deep they are in the hedonistic spiral. A woman on the other hand who by circumstances different than today has not been conditioned to chase better will be content with what she has so long it makes her more happy than cause resentment.
Now I believe that there are very few incels that would do worse in all of history, th9se being below average very much compared to the population such dwarves and microdick havers, however I suspect this does not apply to majority of posters here
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