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Is to fundamentally change your thought process, to change yourself.
The reason why we are "non-NT" is because we spent too much time on the internet, we are socialized - but in the wring direction.
People who are NT are fully socialized in their friend circle, they don't ever develop a side of themselves that people don't get - because that's what being non NT essentially is, you're NT but you're NT to looksmax or to 4chan or some random niche community.
You've socialized yourself to respond asynchronously, with posts and with references and topics that normies just don't get.
Because essentuialy everyone has thoughts appearing in their head, you can't stop it, it's always going. The problem is that you as an form dweller have to filer X % of them out (X being how non NT you are).
So the only thing you can do is to change that thought process, to change yourself enough so that the things that pop up in your head are socially acceptable to say. Doesen't have to be 100% of them, but it has to be enough for you to have shit to say. Noone is 100% NT, but most people are NT enough.
What you have to do is to do what kids and teenagers do to socialize - you have to hang out with people for an insanely high amount of hours, and over time you will become NT - to the people you hung out with. If you hang out with autists, you will become like them. "You are the average of 5 people you're friends with" is a quote that fits here perfectly.
Problem now is that while kids and teenagers get those hours in while they're rotting at school (because that's all school really is, you do fucking nothing and just socialize) you don't have that kind of opportunity. Hobby groups, going to bars, language/cooking classes won't work because there is simply not enough time.
Kids get forced into being with each other for thousands of hours due to the school system, so even if you're unlikable and autistic you have a chance to get that time. You can hang around kids cooler and more socially skilled than you. But as an adult, people aren't forced to do something like that and will cut ties with you if you're below their social standards.
And thats crucial, because you need to hang out with people who are above your social level, not at, and not below.
The only thing that comes to mind where you could get such experience is a job, but I'm not sure what job could work well for this.
After you have gained some basic level of social competency, you can socialize normally, outside of forced institutions. But you need to get that initial phase of rehabilitating yourself back into society.
@Syobevoli @AlexAP @TsarTsar444 @Edgar
The reason why we are "non-NT" is because we spent too much time on the internet, we are socialized - but in the wring direction.
People who are NT are fully socialized in their friend circle, they don't ever develop a side of themselves that people don't get - because that's what being non NT essentially is, you're NT but you're NT to looksmax or to 4chan or some random niche community.
You've socialized yourself to respond asynchronously, with posts and with references and topics that normies just don't get.
Because essentuialy everyone has thoughts appearing in their head, you can't stop it, it's always going. The problem is that you as an form dweller have to filer X % of them out (X being how non NT you are).
So the only thing you can do is to change that thought process, to change yourself enough so that the things that pop up in your head are socially acceptable to say. Doesen't have to be 100% of them, but it has to be enough for you to have shit to say. Noone is 100% NT, but most people are NT enough.
What you have to do is to do what kids and teenagers do to socialize - you have to hang out with people for an insanely high amount of hours, and over time you will become NT - to the people you hung out with. If you hang out with autists, you will become like them. "You are the average of 5 people you're friends with" is a quote that fits here perfectly.
Problem now is that while kids and teenagers get those hours in while they're rotting at school (because that's all school really is, you do fucking nothing and just socialize) you don't have that kind of opportunity. Hobby groups, going to bars, language/cooking classes won't work because there is simply not enough time.
Kids get forced into being with each other for thousands of hours due to the school system, so even if you're unlikable and autistic you have a chance to get that time. You can hang around kids cooler and more socially skilled than you. But as an adult, people aren't forced to do something like that and will cut ties with you if you're below their social standards.
And thats crucial, because you need to hang out with people who are above your social level, not at, and not below.
The only thing that comes to mind where you could get such experience is a job, but I'm not sure what job could work well for this.
After you have gained some basic level of social competency, you can socialize normally, outside of forced institutions. But you need to get that initial phase of rehabilitating yourself back into society.
@Syobevoli @AlexAP @TsarTsar444 @Edgar
