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so you’ve probably seen something like this where a manlet complains or is confused about women shorter than himself rejecting him on the basis of height. often it leads to him wondering if he should be pursuing girls shorter than himself.
you might be familiar with the advice and other responses that follow after these questions
I've noticed it has become quite a popular suggestion from normies and blackpillers alike to tell manlets that they should go for around their height and taller...
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idk how these people are coming to this conclusion because it certainly isn't based on empirical evidence or even surveys so it is probably based on anecdotes. here are some anecdotes that go against that notion lol
if tall women still prefer men taller than themselves like this woman, why would it be different amongst any other woman of a different height? why would women in the average-tall range (5'4 +) be more inclined to give short men a chance as opposed to womanlets what's the rationale?
now when you look at attempts to collect data about this topic...
women prefer their partner to be ~ 8” taller than themselves while men are most satisfied when they are ~ 3” taller than their respective partner. shorter women had some of the strongest preferences for very tall men.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020
“sEe! sHoRT GiRlS OnLy WaNT tAlL gUyS! ThErEfOrE ShOrT GUyS ShOuLD gO fOr AvErAgE hEigHt oR tALl gIrLs ”
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while it’s absolutely true that the trend is the taller the better, and patterns have been shown that short women also prefer tall men, shorter women are far more tolerant of shorter men (that are taller than themselves), while seemingly all women irregardless of their height are less inclined to be accepting of men the same height or shorter. it also seems like the only women who are accepting of men that are the same height or shorter than themselves are women at the high end of the spectrum, and even then the margin there is only a few inches
https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/dating-statistics/how-tall-are-you-really/
but what about short women infamously preferring 6'+?
although all women prefer tall men, short women are more willing to compromise on their height preferences as opposed to average and tall women.
in reality, as opposed to the speed dating experiment, it is more likely that more short women would pair up with short men (brutal further explanation in the study )
the exact height preferences often do not translate into actual choice
https://www.gertstulp.com/pdf/Stulp et al 2013_Anim Behav_The height of choosiness.pdf
summed up well by @thereallegend
you might be familiar with the advice and other responses that follow after these questions
I've noticed it has become quite a popular suggestion from normies and blackpillers alike to tell manlets that they should go for around their height and taller...
-
idk how these people are coming to this conclusion because it certainly isn't based on empirical evidence or even surveys so it is probably based on anecdotes. here are some anecdotes that go against that notion lol
if tall women still prefer men taller than themselves like this woman, why would it be different amongst any other woman of a different height? why would women in the average-tall range (5'4 +) be more inclined to give short men a chance as opposed to womanlets what's the rationale?
now when you look at attempts to collect data about this topic...
women prefer their partner to be ~ 8” taller than themselves while men are most satisfied when they are ~ 3” taller than their respective partner. shorter women had some of the strongest preferences for very tall men.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020
shorter women had some of the strongest preferences for very tall men.
“sEe! sHoRT GiRlS OnLy WaNT tAlL gUyS! ThErEfOrE ShOrT GUyS ShOuLD gO fOr AvErAgE hEigHt oR tALl gIrLs ”
....
while it’s absolutely true that the trend is the taller the better, and patterns have been shown that short women also prefer tall men, shorter women are far more tolerant of shorter men (that are taller than themselves), while seemingly all women irregardless of their height are less inclined to be accepting of men the same height or shorter. it also seems like the only women who are accepting of men that are the same height or shorter than themselves are women at the high end of the spectrum, and even then the margin there is only a few inches
https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/dating-statistics/how-tall-are-you-really/
but what about short women infamously preferring 6'+?
although all women prefer tall men, short women are more willing to compromise on their height preferences as opposed to average and tall women.
... [in regards to the speed dating segment] women’s choices were so strongly directed towards men much taller than themselves, it was men of average height, rather than shorter men, who were most likely to be paired with shorter women
in reality, as opposed to the speed dating experiment, it is more likely that more short women would pair up with short men (brutal further explanation in the study )
thus, because shorter men are potentially still successful at finding a partner, and because such men are more likely to be paired with shorter women than with tall women (because of preferences in both sexes), the observed magnitude of assortment in actual couples will be higher than that seen in a speed-dating context.
the exact height preferences often do not translate into actual choice
preferences are not always expected to predict choice, humans may not be able express their own preferences accurately, or they may feel compelled to give socially desirable answers
https://www.gertstulp.com/pdf/Stulp et al 2013_Anim Behav_The height of choosiness.pdf
summed up well by @thereallegend
the seemingly growing in popularity claim that manlets have a better chance with women closer to their height or even taller than them is founded on nothing. when you look at any data collected regarding this, you can conclude that every man, including manlets, has a better chance with women that are shorter (often significantly shorter) than themselves.
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