There are two ways to get a girlfriend: be extremely social/charismatic (social circle game) or be extremely good looking (online dating and approach)

[swaggyp1]

there is no other way to do it

even in an arranged marriage, looking good vs bad is the difference between an enthusiastic meeting or a rejection

and for social circle game, you better have your A-game, as in your charisma is outshining 90% of other men

 

[Hypergam0us]

girlfriends arent real

 

[swaggyp1]

girlfriends arent real

the other way is to meet fathers at the masjid, but that also involves a ton of charm and being a social butterfly