There isn't really such a thing as social skills

[disillusioned]

If you pay attention to the way people talk/say during social events (parties, weddings, birthdays, pub, whatever) there isn't much depth to the conversations. It's all very surface level, "oh, so what do you do for a living? Do you have a husband/girlfriend/job/etc".

So-called social skills basically just means dressing/bathing properly, smiling at people, letting out the occasional fake laugh, asking superficial if not meaningless questions, etc. Literally any retard can do this.

I've also noticed that while drinking at the pub, I'm ONLY addressed/talked to by other people in the same looksrange as I'm in (ugly normies basically). I've literally never talked to by anybody that is above average looking or even just normie tier. It's like they consider it beneath themselves to even be within the presence of unattractive people, especially males.

Jfl what the fuck does it even mean to be 'good at talking to people'?

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Asking the right questions, responding in the right way both in words and emotionally.

 

[Deleted member 28691]

Good at talking as in keeping the convo alive.

 

[Artbreeder Is Law]

Asking the right questions, responding in the right way both in words and emotionally.

 

[thereallegend]

Social skills = emotional intelligence

Yes there’s a looks hierarchy to socializing.
If you’re too good looking it’ll be crabs in a barrel.
Too ugly then you’ll be bullied into self harm.

You say only ugly people associate with you, so what’s the problem?
Go date ugly women. Betabuxx her.

NT = leverage
Status = leverage

 

[IHateMyself]

 

[Reformed]

Squidward what u yapping on about

 

[Deleted member 17578]

best way to get social skills is to do hard-drugs ngl.

There's a reason why the only success I have in dating and chatting with women on dating-apps is when I am high on drugs.

Even this last girl, 80% of my conversations with her I was high on mephedrone.
I recommend doings drugs before dates

 

[chadcel;]

I'm ONLY addressed/talked to by other people in the same looksrange as I'm in

I've noticed this too and it's even been proven in studies where they put a bunch of people in a room and told them to go talk or do whatever and they found that people naturally organised themselves by looks.

If a subhuman ever speaks to me out of the blue I will be so fucking depressed after knowing this kek (I actually think is how girls think when non Chad guys try talk to them)

 

[the BULL]

Good at talking as in keeping the convo alive.

I am so good at that that i surpass "BTS" vastly, they get headaches and have to go home sleeping. Another incel cope debunked

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

muh social skills this forum is giga bluepill when it comes to that. In fact I become boring on purpose if it’s someone I dislike

 

[jellyfishcel]

Social skills = tonality, body language, being able to read the room, story telling ability
why would you try to redefine something very obvious

 

[disillusioned]

Social skills = tonality, body language, being able to read the room, story telling ability
why would you try to redefine something very obvious

Chad can be a loud obnoxious jerk and he'll still be popular. People will just see him as aggressive/assertive/commanding/alpha etc.

I've seen it in real life all the time, dudes doing all kinds of bullshit that in theory should've turned them into social outcasts, yet it doesn't. Social skills do not matter past a certain very limited point.

 

[jellyfishcel]

Chad can be a loud obnoxious jerk and he'll still be popular. People will just see him as aggressive/assertive/commanding/alpha etc.

I've seen it in real life all the time, dudes doing all kinds of bullshit that in theory should've turned them into social outcasts, yet it doesn't. Social skills do not matter past a certain very limited point.

Chad eats pizza, fantastic insight

 

[Deleted member 21735]

social skills means nothing because social interactions are a 2way process and require mutual interest

 

[n0rthface]

best way to get social skills is to do hard-drugs ngl.

There's a reason why the only success I have in dating and chatting with women on dating-apps is when I am high on drugs.

Even this last girl, 80% of my conversations with her I was high on mephedrone.
I recommend doings drugs before dates

running drug addict game is legit brah

 

[Mogger2000]

If you pay attention to the way people talk/say during social events (parties, weddings, birthdays, pub, whatever) there isn't much depth to the conversations. It's all very surface level, "oh, so what do you do for a living? Do you have a husband/girlfriend/job/etc".

So-called social skills basically just means dressing/bathing properly, smiling at people, letting out the occasional fake laugh, asking superficial if not meaningless questions, etc. Literally any retard can do this.

I've also noticed that while drinking at the pub, I'm ONLY addressed/talked to by other people in the same looksrange as I'm in (ugly normies basically). I've literally never talked to by anybody that is above average looking or even just normie tier. It's like they consider it beneath themselves to even be within the presence of unattractive people, especially males.

Jfl what the fuck does it even mean to be 'good at talking to people'?

social skills measures ur ability to engage in a conversation in a relevant manner, by listening to what others have to say, and responding in a way that is relevant to the conversation. This doesn't even have to be shallow talk, cus if you're talking about advanced mathematics or programming with a classmate, you would need a sufficient amount of background to gauge what they're saying or contribute with relevant ideas to the conversation.

 

[horizontallytall]

Its about being intrested i.e being nt and low iq thats what they actual mean by social interactions the only social interaction i havewhich entertains me is with kids below age 15 . Their happy face and good dopamine receptors vibe makes my day

 

[robtical]

I've noticed this too and it's even been proven in studies where they put a bunch of people in a room and told them to go talk or do whatever and they found that people naturally organised themselves by looks.

If a subhuman ever speaks to me out of the blue I will be so fucking depressed after knowing this kek (I actually think is how girls think when non Chad guys try talk to them)

Yes there is study i read long ago, that men pick their friends who increase their status/not harm it

 

[robtical]

Social skill is just doing dopamine and oxytocin inducing things together. Ofc with good looks inducing dopamine in ppl.

 

[Bojack]

nah, social skills definitely exist out there.

 

[chadcel;]

Yes there is study i read long ago, that men pick their friends who increase their status/not harm it

really interesting, I think men tend to look for friends around their looksmatch due to jealousy/envy because they don't want to be mogged in all social outings

 

[robtical]

really interesting, I think men tend to look for friends around their looksmatch due to jealousy/envy because they don't want to be mogged in all social outings

Not really. Even if guy mogs u, it increases ur smv cuz u must be something to be able to hold his attention/having him in ur circle. Its just instinct at play

 

[spongebob]

best way to get social skills is to do hard-drugs ngl.

There's a reason why the only success I have in dating and chatting with women on dating-apps is when I am high on drugs.

Even this last girl, 80% of my conversations with her I was high on mephedrone.
I recommend doings drugs before dates

Stary nie cpan bo pozałujesz

 

[gay retard]

chad throws his feces at the wall and people laugh it off

an incel stutters once and now that's all he's known for

i guess there's really no such thing as social skills after all... brilliant insight, OP

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Dumb thread,

Only retarded takes from you nowadays.

 

[disillusioned]

chad throws his feces at the wall and people laugh it off

an incel stutters once and now that's all he's known for

i guess there's really no such thing as social skills after all... brilliant insight, OP

Dumb thread,

Only retarded takes from you nowadays.

No, @king of the world is correct. It doesn't actually matter that much what you say. Impressions are decided in advance depending on who you or what you are.

The entire concept of social intelligence is largely a bullshit fraud. People treat you in accordance with what you are, rather than by what you do. You can have 10 people do/say the exact same things and it will be perceived completely differently depending on a variety of factors (looks, gender, race, height, age, class, etc).

I won't say social skills don't matter whatsoever, but the concept is mostly a meme.

 

[longjohnmong]

Chad can be a loud obnoxious jerk and he'll still be popular. People will just see him as aggressive/assertive/commanding/alpha etc.

I've seen it in real life all the time, dudes doing all kinds of bullshit that in theory should've turned them into social outcasts, yet it doesn't. Social skills do not matter past a certain very limited point.

Okay you dumb fucking idiot. That doesn't mean social skills don't exist. Chad can get up on stage and suck shit at playing the guitar and girls will still fuck him. That doesn't mean guitar skill doesn't exist.

 

[disillusioned]

Okay you dumb fucking idiot. That doesn't mean social skills don't exist. Chad can get up on stage and suck shit at playing the guitar and girls will still fuck him. That doesn't mean guitar skill doesn't exist.

You're looking at this the wrong way.

I'll put it this way: How many ugly rock stars exist?

it doesn't matter how good you are at playing the guitar if you're ugly. You'll never be famous.

 

[longjohnmong]

Maynard Keenan is a notorious lothario who has his roadies go out into the crowd to find young women for him to fuck backstage. I remember my ex being all enamored with Claudio from Coheed and Cambria at their show. These dudes would be incel if it weren't for rock star status. There are many other ugly rock stars.

 

[disillusioned]

Maynard Keenan is a notorious lothario who has his roadies go out into the crowd to find young women for him to fuck backstage. I remember my ex being all enamored with Claudio from Coheed and Cambria at their show. These dudes would be incel if it weren't for rock star status. There are many other ugly rock stars.

No he isn't jfl he's normie tier at worst.

 

[Deleted member 18582]

Literally any retard can do this.

No you can't, you and almost everyone here is chronically uncapable.

 

[longjohnmong]

No he isn't jfl he's normie tier at worst.

Sure bro

And even if he is normie it still counters your argument.

 

[Martyros]

It's all relative to your looks, really.

Truecel = Doesn't matter, you're fucked, better just stay in your basement.

Normie = It matters. Having it does make a difference, but if you don't have it at all, then you basically have the same life as a truecel.

Chad = Doesn't matter. You can have the shittiest social skills ever, and you will still lifemog all truecels and normies to oblivion in every aspect of life.

(I'm seriously not kidding about the last one. I once overheard a Chad in a job interview talk shit about niggers and joke about the Holocaust to the employer, and guess what? He got the job while I didn't)

Social skills are a joke and a gaslight against sub8 males.

 

[disillusioned]

It's all relative to your looks, really.

Truecel = Doesn't matter, you're fucked, better just stay in your basement.

Normie = It matters. Having it does make a difference, but if you don't have it at all, then you basically have the same life as a truecel.

Chad = Doesn't matter. You can have the shittiest social skills ever, and you will still lifemog all truecels and normies to oblivion in every aspect of life.

Strongly disagree. I've seen so many normie tier males with outright horrible personalities still make friends and even get laid (albeit I'm old enough now that this was before shit like Tinder completely destroyed the dating market). Unless you are literally retarded it just doesn't matter that much.

 

[xye]

If you pay attention to the way people talk/say during social events (parties, weddings, birthdays, pub, whatever) there isn't much depth to the conversations. It's all very surface level, "oh, so what do you do for a living? Do you have a husband/girlfriend/job/etc".

So-called social skills basically just means dressing/bathing properly, smiling at people, letting out the occasional fake laugh, asking superficial if not meaningless questions, etc. Literally any retard can do this.

I've also noticed that while drinking at the pub, I'm ONLY addressed/talked to by other people in the same looksrange as I'm in (ugly normies basically). I've literally never talked to by anybody that is above average looking or even just normie tier. It's like they consider it beneath themselves to even be within the presence of unattractive people, especially males.

Jfl what the fuck does it even mean to be 'good at talking to people'?

idk i just know my social skills are shit jfl

 

[1966Ford]

Strongly disagree. I've seen so many normie tier males with outright horrible personalities still make friends and even get laid (albeit I'm old enough now that this was before shit like Tinder completely destroyed the dating market). Unless you are literally retarded it just doesn't matter that much.

Dude he's banned

 

[disillusioned]

Dude he's banned

over

 

[goontang]

 

[Deleted member 268817]

@mods

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

Strongly disagree. I've seen so many normie tier males with outright horrible personalities still make friends and even get laid (albeit I'm old enough now that this was before shit like Tinder completely destroyed the dating market). Unless you are literally retarded it just doesn't matter that much.

3 years later my friend.

 

[kisslessvirgin]

another great post

 

[kisslessvirgin]

unless you are completely inept it should make no difference

 

[disillusioned]