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Doesn't vibe with humans much anymore.
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There is nearly zero reason to cold approach, initiate, try to "warm up" to women/girls, etc. for a few good reasons:
1. If they like you they will try to warm up, give an IOI, etc. so you quite literally won't need to say anything until the "coast is clear."
2. If you try randomly you'll just get rejected the majority of the time regardless of looks level, so it's better to just wait for "signs."
If someone can provide me a better argument against this I'm all ears ... Too often are a growing number of guys on here pushing for PUA BS. So many guys want to pretend like they can make a girl NOT interested suddenly like him by putting on a show like a street performer. LOL
@Crestfallen95
@Anstrum95
@MoggerGaston
@the BULL
@averagejoe
@weebcel
It's quite simple:
1. Have some form of a normal, IRL social/online presence ... If girls never just end up "in the mix" with you, they don't want to be.
2. If you have to jump through 100 hoops & insane mental gymnastics to merely even get a date then it's mostly over for you.
If you have to come up with heuristics, strategies, algorithms or endless approaches to merely get a simple result then that means the road isn't paved for you ... You are stuck destined to be a betabux or oofy doofy guy at best. You will never be an alpha, NT looksmogger.
1. If they like you they will try to warm up, give an IOI, etc. so you quite literally won't need to say anything until the "coast is clear."
2. If you try randomly you'll just get rejected the majority of the time regardless of looks level, so it's better to just wait for "signs."
If someone can provide me a better argument against this I'm all ears ... Too often are a growing number of guys on here pushing for PUA BS. So many guys want to pretend like they can make a girl NOT interested suddenly like him by putting on a show like a street performer. LOL
@Crestfallen95
@Anstrum95
@MoggerGaston
@the BULL
@averagejoe
@weebcel
It's quite simple:
1. Have some form of a normal, IRL social/online presence ... If girls never just end up "in the mix" with you, they don't want to be.
2. If you have to jump through 100 hoops & insane mental gymnastics to merely even get a date then it's mostly over for you.
If you have to come up with heuristics, strategies, algorithms or endless approaches to merely get a simple result then that means the road isn't paved for you ... You are stuck destined to be a betabux or oofy doofy guy at best. You will never be an alpha, NT looksmogger.
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