There's nothing more damaging to a males mental health than not getting female attention in your youth

[blackbencarson]

if you make it into your mid 20s without having sex or at least without receiving any female sexual attention then it will do irreparable damage to your mental health. even if you ascend in old age you'll never have the base socialization that comes from puberty or the self esteem that comes from being desired by women during your developmental years

basically if you're a virgin past age 22 its pretty much over for you

 

[Trilogy]

water

 

[JBcollector]

No wonder men are becoming gays and trans

 

[Indo_Chad]

if you make it into your mid 20s without having sex or at least without receiving any female sexual attention then it will do irreparable damage to your mental health. even if you ascend in old age you'll never have the base socialization that comes from puberty or the self esteem that comes from being desired by women during your developmental years

basically if you're a virgin past age 22 its pretty much over for you

Nah, you can change, I went from a bloated invisible KHHV in my teens to being complexly normal sexually active dude in my late teens/to early 20's (which I am in rn)

 

[Deleted member 20370]

cope

 

[blackbencarson]

Nah, you can change, I went from a bloated invisible KHHV in my teens to being complexly normal sexually active dude in my late teens/to early 20's (which I am in rn)

nigga can you read lmao

you became normal in your late teens, not after age 22 which is when i said its over. you're still in your youth

 

[height]

cope

 

[ExtraBones]

I'm 19 rn. I'll prolly take me 3 years to looksmaxx and learn to socialise from where I am now. I'll probably get my first job when I'm 25 too. Will it be too late by then?

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Not even close. There are much worse things for a person's mental health

 

[blackbencarson]

I'm 19 rn. I'll prolly take me 3 years to looksmaxx and learn to socialise from where I am now. I'll probably get my first job when I'm 25 too. Will it be too late by then?

it shouldn't take you 3 years to looksmax especially at that age. you should be able to make good progress in a year especially socially these are your peak years. people your age have nothing but free time to hang out

also there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to get a job before 25. i had a paid internship while going to college at 19

 

[blackbencarson]

Not even close. There are much worse things for a person's mental health

name 3

 

[justinzayn]

not getting any attention at 12-16/17 is already sufifuel let alone late teens,no prime teen bussy
you should get your life together by 17-19,or no comming back
mid 20s is veterean tier

 

[Deleted member 20652]

name 3

Loss of parent/death of a parent
Sick family members or parent
Homelessness

 

[blackbencarson]

Loss of parent/death of a parent
Sick family members or parent
Homelessness

very easy to cope with all of those things as a teen as long as you're getting pussy

 

[Deleted member 20652]

very easy to cope with all of those things as a teen as long as you're getting pussy

How would you cope with those things?

 

[_MVP_]

Agreed

 

[blackbencarson]

How would you cope with those things?

having a sick family member isn't that bad, and if you're attractive then homelessness is very easy to solve. plenty of girls will let their bf move in if they think he's hot enough. the worst would be loss of a parent but its manageable if you have a girl

 

[Deleted member 20652]

having a sick family member isn't that bad, and if you're attractive then homelessness is very easy to solve. plenty of girls will let their bf move in if they think he's hot enough. the worst would be loss of a parent but its manageable if you have a girl

My father got a stroke 1 year ago and since then he can't speak anymore (aphasia) and he can't walk. He can still listen and understand when spoken to him though and he can communicate through expression n making sounds n hand signs body language n such but it's still sad .

Since after that I got depression n stopped caring about women

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Loss of parent/death of a parent
Sick family members or parent
Homelessness

Nowhere near as bad as inceldom

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Nowhere near as bad as inceldom

I don't know how you can come to that conclusion maybe you just don't love your parents as much as I do?

 

[Deleted member 18301]

Female attention doesn’t mean nothing, when you have other responsibilities you have to take care of

 

[Deleted member 4362]

I don't know how you can come to that conclusion maybe you just don't love your parents as much as I do?

Cos I experienced those + it pales in comparison. I haven’t lost a parent I don’t see how losing one is supposed to traumatise you.

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Cos I experienced those + it pales in comparison. I haven’t lost a parent I don’t see how losing one is supposed to traumatise you.

Losing a parent or parent becoming sick while youre at young age. That's what I'm talking about

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Female attention doesn’t mean nothing, when you have other responsibilities you have to take care of

It means nothing . I still get female attention and have always gotten so but I'm still very sad n unhappy

 

[Deleted member 18301]

It means nothing . I still get female attention and have always gotten so but I'm still very sad n unhappy

After you realize stuff like doesn’t make your problems go away you don’t care anymore indeed

 

[blackbencarson]

My father got a stroke 1 year ago and since then he can't speak anymore (aphasia) and he can't walk. He can still listen and understand when spoken to him though and he can communicate through expression n making sounds n hand signs body language n such but it's still sad .

Since after that I got depression n stopped caring about women

i don't see how that would make you depressed unless you have to take care of him constantly
getting pussy should still fix that tho

 

[Deleted member 20652]

,i don't see how that would make you depressed unless you have to take care of him constantly
getting pussy should still fix that tho

I do take care of him. But it's not only that. It's that I always loved my father so much. I am a only child and have been emotionally close with dad for so long. I value my father much more than any women.

Maybe it's more of a western culture thing to not be that close with their parents n not caring about parents much. I mean you guys (western people) move from home when you turn 18 and when your parents are old you just send them away to a elderly nursing home. So because of the diffrence from me I don't think you see it from my perspective.

 

[Bipedal Dog]

Nah, you can change, I went from a bloated invisible KHHV in my teens to being complexly normal sexually active dude in my late teens/to early 20's (which I am in rn)

W for u tbh.

 

[blackbencarson]

I do take care of him. But it's not only that. It's that I always loved my father so much. I am a only child and have been emotionally close with dad for so long. I value my father much more than any women.

Maybe it's more of a western culture thing to not be that close with their parents n not caring about parents much. I mean you guys (western people) move from home when you turn 18 and when your parents are old you just send them away to a elderly nursing home. So because of the diffrence from me I don't think you see it from my perspective.

yeah tbh i'm not close w my parents especially not my dad lol so if he got sick it wouldn't really affect me much. especially not to the point where getting laid/having a gf wouldn't make me feel better

 

[Deleted member 16944]

I would agree with this. I was a virgin throughout my teens (it was basically my own fault this happened) and it's irreversibly damaged me. I can't stop slaying now and never happy with what I have

 

[Johnnybegood]

I agree with this. Not receiving female attention on a weekly basis is at the heart of most men's problems.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I would agree with this. I was a virgin throughout my teens (it was basically my own fault this happened) and it's irreversibly damaged me. I can't stop slaying now and never happy with what I have

Once an incel, always an incel