Things I’ve learnt from first LTR - there is no such thing as controlling

[WishIwasChico]

Women are impulsive in nature and submissive. If a man their with is weak and doesn’t set boundaries etc. that are firm she will walk all over him.


Women need to put in their place because of how emotional and impulsive they are. If you don’t. They will go out with the girls and cheat happily because they will be like ‘meh he’s weak’ and not give a shit. And ‘he doesn’t say it’s bad anyways so what’
As a man you need to tell her you won’t do this or this or I will walk. If you don’t, she will happily be texting guys, go out alot etc. and engage in behaviour because you never put her in her place.

She will see you as weak.

There’s no such thing as controlling because if a girl genuinely liked you she would listen to your concerns etc.

I.e: I don’t want you to go to the nightclub as much anymore.

A girl will only say this is controlling if she doesn’t secretly want to fully commit to you but likes you but wants to still go be a hoe in the club with her girls.

If she liked you and truly loved you she’d never say you was controlling.


Summary:

If you’re weak and don’t set boundaries then she will walk all over you.

If she says you’re controlling for setting reasonable boundaries she’s a hoe and doesn’t value you enough.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

City fan ignored

 

[WishIwasChico]

City fan ignored

Since when am I a city fan?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

 

[oily703]

I forgot about this nigga
Updates on your whore?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

 

[WishIwasChico]

I forgot about this nigga
Updates on your whore?

Got cucked clearly cause I didn’t set boundaries cause first ltr but now I’ve learnt

 

[phenylpiracetam]

Looks like you’ve leaned a lesson.

Hope you dumped that cheating whore

 

[WishIwasChico]

smart

I learnt the hard way bro it’s true. I was a weak male and let this girl go out a lot and have guys on her snap and of course she was laughing thinking she could do what she wanted

 

[fuxkdakikez]

this will just make her try to hide it more

 

[oily703]

Got cucked clearly cause I didn’t set boundaries cause first ltr but now I’ve learnt

I was going to make fun of you but im trying to be less mean
Sorry that happened saar

 

[WishIwasChico]

Looks like you’ve leaned a lesson.

Hope you dumped that cheating whore

Girls are ruthless they are not loyal you have to make them submit. Girls are submissive in nature they crave a man secretly to tell them what to do. If you don’t they’ll never respect you

 

[WishIwasChico]

this will just make her try to hide it more

Hide what? If she was cheating once you set clear boundaries if she wasn’t committed she wouldn’t stick to them bro anyways so you wouldn’t need proof.
And having such boundaries would make it way harder to cheat and you’d notice way easier

 

[phenylpiracetam]

I learnt the hard way bro it’s true. I was a weak male and let this girl go out a lot and have guys on her snap and of course she was laughing thinking she could do what she wanted

there is no age to learn. I learned this very early on, luckily.

Now i set the boundaries during the talking stage.
Once I am sure her phone is clean and she is loyal to me, and ready to commit, I ask her to be my gf.


You are good looking, you have no reason to let her hypergamous ways go unpunished.



After the first sighting of microcheating, warn her firmly that you will dump her ass if she does anything like that again.


2nd time dump.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

my 1st gf had obsessive controlling behaviour and was a huge masochist with rape fetish at the same time

 

[WishIwasChico]

there is no age to learn. I learned this very early on, luckily.

Now i set the boundaries during the talking stage.
Once I am sure her phone is clean and she is loyal to me, and ready to commit, I ask her to be my gf.


You are good looking, you have no reason to let her hypergamous ways go unpunished.



After the first sighting of microcheating, warn her firmly that you will dump her ass if she does anything like that again.


2nd time dump.

Yes I didn’t learn unfortunately and got burnt for it. I have myself to blame too tbh. Of course if I’m letting a girl have guys on her phone, going out a lot, doing all this shit she will be unfaithful. She didn’t respect me. So it’s my own fault too tbh

 

[Chadeep]

Crazy Downfall from Slayer to Cuck. I remember another 6'6 user going through the same. Is LTR even worth it these days.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Crazy Downfall from Slayer to Cuck. I remember another 6'6 user going through the same. Is LTR even worth it these days.

Not really bro if she in her prime I’ve already said she has infinite options and women are impulsive etc in nature. If you don’t have that bitch on a leash she gonna cheat

 

[whotthehell]

Just fulfill your wants and needs and don’t care about femoid doings

 

[DR. NICKGA]

Incel

 

[Suns9999]

Just fulfill your wants and needs and don’t care about femoid doings

and what if i want to pursue a ltr with a hqnp trad (non trans) femboy house wife

 

[WishIwasChico]

Incel

Literally slay more than you ever would on dating apps

 

[Avertion]

Women are impulsive in nature and submissive. If a man their with is weak and doesn’t set boundaries etc. that are firm she will walk all over him.


Women need to put in their place because of how emotional and impulsive they are. If you don’t. They will go out with the girls and cheat happily because they will be like ‘meh he’s weak’ and not give a shit. And ‘he doesn’t say it’s bad anyways so what’
As a man you need to tell her you won’t do this or this or I will walk. If you don’t, she will happily be texting guys, go out alot etc. and engage in behaviour because you never put her in her place.

She will see you as weak.

There’s no such thing as controlling because if a girl genuinely liked you she would listen to your concerns etc.

I.e: I don’t want you to go to the nightclub as much anymore.

A girl will only say this is controlling if she doesn’t secretly want to fully commit to you but likes you but wants to still go be a hoe in the club with her girls.

If she liked you and truly loved you she’d never say you was controlling.


Summary:

If you’re weak and don’t set boundaries then she will walk all over you.

If she says you’re controlling for setting reasonable boundaries she’s a hoe and doesn’t value you enough.

Thought this was common knowledge but people are a bit more dense nowadays.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Thought this was common knowledge but people are a bit more dense nowadays.

Water if you don’t set boundaries she’d cheat jfl yet dumb cunts saying I’m incel for this

 

[whotthehell]

and what if i want to puruse a ltr with a hqnp trad (non trans) femboy house wife

Physical and mental abuse

 

[Avertion]

Water if you don’t set boundaries she’d cheat jfl yet dumb cunts saying I’m incel for this

Here’s a better way of doing it: let her do whatever she wants, whatever she does will determine your answer.

The second my “soulmate” comes up to me and tells me she wants to go clubbing with her hoe friends i’ll just end it and move on

 

[WishIwasChico]

Here’s a better way of doing it: let her do whatever she wants, whatever she does will determine your answer.

The second my “soulmate” comes up to me and tells me she wants to go clubbing with her hoe friends i’ll just end it and move on

You never finding your soulmate then jfl not in the west anyways they all whores

 

[Copeful]

then she says your insecure and toxic and cheats on you anyways

 

[DR. NICKGA]

You never finding your soulmate then jfl not in the west anyways they all whores

Incel

 

[DR. NICKGA]

You never finding your soulmate then jfl not in the west anyways they all whores

then she says your insecure and toxic and cheats on you anyways

INCEL INCEL INCEL

 

[WishIwasChico]

then she says your insecure and toxic and cheats on you anyways

Always bro. ‘You’re just overthinking’ or ‘you’re just insecure. All my friends are getting with guys but I’m not silly xx’

 

[Avertion]

You never finding your soulmate then jfl not in the west anyways they all whores

I don’t mind being alone forever. But the second you start forcing things onto her is the second your relationship becomes fake.

you’re only restricting her from doing what she wants to do anyway.

Finding a girl who you don’t need to ask to not be a whore is way better than finding a whore and forcing her not to be one. Doing this, your relationship will be over in months because you are not naturally meant to be, instead you’re forcing her to be someone she isn’t.

 

[Copeful]

Always bro. ‘You’re just overthinking’ or ‘you’re just insecure. All my friends are getting with guys but I’m not silly xx’

no point LTRing in 2024 unless you convert to islam and find a virgin in a taliban occupied village
jfl at ltring western women
khalas

 

[Akhi]

Got cucked clearly cause I didn’t set boundaries cause first ltr but now I’ve learnt

would she have cheated if u were chad?

 

[manletmachinestream]

I don’t understand why girls love clubbing so much? Like what’s the appeal of horny creeps swarming you surely it’s uncomfortable

 

[Akhi]

Here’s a better way of doing it: let her do whatever she wants, whatever she does will determine your answer.

The second my “soulmate” comes up to me and tells me she wants to go clubbing with her hoe friends i’ll just end it and move on

beggars cant be choosers

 

[WishIwasChico]

would she have cheated if u were chad?

Yes

 

[Avertion]

You never finding your soulmate then jfl not in the west anyways they all whores

Then when they “cheat on you” or do anything you don’t want them to do, just leave before you LTR.

 

[WishIwasChico]

beggars cant be choosers

How can you say beggar when I get top 1% results on hinge and my tinder has thousands of matches?

 

[WishIwasChico]

I don’t understand why girls love clubbing so much? Like what’s the appeal of horny creeps swarming you surely it’s uncomfortable

Hoes that’s why they love it

 

[Akhi]

How can you say beggar when I get top 1% results on hinge and my tinder has thousands of matches?

i was talking to the guy i replied to

why u so defensive

 

[Avertion]

beggars cant be choosers

Not a beggar, and i can definitely choose.

 

[baldpumpkn]

if you aint looks matched or better, your boundaries will be seen as insecure and manipulative, she will still be doing that shit but undercover and gaslight.

obviously you are going to express them to show her u care and are not weak, but don't think for a second she will respect them if you ain't the above.

play your role, get your needs, have fun and dont take it seriously..

 

[WishIwasChico]

if you aint looks matched or better, your boundaries will be seen as insecure and manipulative, she will still be doing that shit but undercover and gaslight.

obviously you are going to express them to show her u care and are not weak, but don't think for a second she will respect them if you ain't the above.

play your role, get your needs, have fun and dont take it seriously..

I mog her hard tbh she tells me non stop I do and I had girls way better looking than her dming me which she’s seen and it makes her terra insecure

 

[gymcel64]

Kind of learnt the same lesson as you from my 2nd LTR, same end to it as yours, it's good you took it as a lesson and don't sit around crying and bitching about it. Strength to you my brother.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Kind of learnt the same lesson as you from my 2nd LTR, same end to it as yours, it's good you took it as a lesson and don't sit around crying and bitching about it. Strength to you my brother.

What happened bhai if you don’t mind me asking?

 

[iblamericky]

my 1st gf had obsessive controlling behaviour and was a huge masochist with rape fetish at the same time

hot

 

[gymcel64]

What happened bhai if you don’t mind me asking?

I let her go out to club for graduation, I stayed home cause had to work and got cucked, not brutally but she "talked" and took some ltns snap and insta.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I let her go out to club for graduation, I stayed home cause had to work and got cucked, not brutally but she "talked" and took some ltns snap and insta.

damn mirin bro you broke up with her for that not even give her a second chance? getting just snap i suppose you could let go of once if she didn't do anything else??

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

Literally slay more than you ever would on dating apps

Whats ur match rate